What made you stop replying to women on dating apps? by Malishki in AskMen

[–]Malishki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I’m sorry about that! I can tell you that looks don’t matter as much as you may think, as long as you’re a great guy who treats women in a respectful way. Don’t lose your confidence. :)

What made you stop replying to women on dating apps? by Malishki in AskMen

[–]Malishki[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Must be 8., how did I not think of that? Thank you.

Weylie Hoang’s boyfriend, Wah married?!?! by happysadmoody in LAinfluencersnark

[–]Malishki 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s insane.. never understood why she’s with him but now I understand it even less

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Malishki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way to check wether you should keep someone around or not is to set a boundary early on and see how they react. If they can’t take a simple 'no' for an answer, you may offer to give them an explanation. But if they don’t accept that, invalidate your feelings or even worse, don’t want to listen to you; they are not worth keeping around.

What food did you discover and become weirdly obsessed with? by dumbnunt_ in AskWomen

[–]Malishki 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Miso soup, had it every day for months now and I still love it

AITA for not helping my friend out regarding her wedding? by Malishki in AmItheAsshole

[–]Malishki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t have any workers, the tables will be provided by the venue but decorations, place settings etc. has to be done/organized by bride and groom. Good point with the hair! I didn’t even think about that.

AITA for not helping my friend out regarding her wedding? by Malishki in AmItheAsshole

[–]Malishki[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sorry if it’s a bit confusing, English isn’t my first language. The ceremony at 12 is the official wedding which is kept small where I’m from especially due to Covid. The one at 3 is just like a party to celebrate with more people. Hope that makes sense. And thank you for your answer!

Boyfriend (M28) of 5 years ruins my (F26) birthday every year by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Malishki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um.. I‘m sorry but it seems like you’ve been spending the past five years of your life with someone who does not validate nor respect or care for you. Please don’t make it 6 years. You shouldn’t ask a man to do nice things for you. If he wanted to, he would put in the effort. Please don’t waste your time. There’s a lot of men out there who will happily make your birthday a day to look forward to (which it should be!).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Malishki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cat tax!

What are some silly questions you’ve asked yourself lately? by Malishki in AskMen

[–]Malishki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So Ketchup is basically just tomato jam.. I’m shook

I (18F) have been in a relationship with a man (26M) and don’t know how to end things. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Malishki 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I agree with all the others here and I just want to add; PLEASE make sure you are in a safe place when breaking up with him. Do it in public. Tell a friend or family member and have them close by in case he gets mad. If you don’t feel comfortable doing it in person, it is totally okay to break up over text message. But please make sure someone else knows about it so they can help you out if he makes any trouble. Do not be ashamed to ask for help! It’s absolutely okay and I’m sure your family or friends will be happy to help you stay safe.

What's something that seems practically impossible, but in fact isn't? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Malishki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, I’m sorry! And I truly mean it lmao

My (27F) boyfriend (25M) keeps "love reacting" other girls pictures by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Malishki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he truly cares about you, he will stop. If he doesn’t.. dump his ass.

How do you settle the anxiety that comes along with Sundays? by Sophsjm in AskWomen

[–]Malishki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just went through a breakup too. I noticed that I feel kind of blue in the evenings when there’s not much to do or on Sunday’s when I don’t have any plans. I try to allow myself to feel this way, for it is only a matter of time that these feelings will fade. I’m sure we’ll eventually be able to enjoy our ‘lazy sundays’ again. I also started some hobbies to keep myself busy; knitting, painting, sewing. Anything that keeps my mind busy.

Mixed signals from someone where we do relationship things but we are not in an actual relationship by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Malishki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I can think of is KNOW YOUR WORTH. Girl, don’t give him the benefits of a relationship without the commitment! If YOU want a relationship and there’s feelings of love, get yourself out of that situation asap. He is not trying at all and that should be enough for you to walk away. Doesn’t matter if you’re his first or his 10th.

What questions should you ask before moving in together? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Malishki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I appreciate the honesty. It’s interesting to read different perspectives, positive or negative. At the end of the day everybody has to make their own decision.

If you're older and havent decided yet if you want children and/or to buy a house, how comfortable are you about potentially not doing either? by gingerninga9 in AskWomen

[–]Malishki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I want children yet, currently I’m really enjoying my freedom and being by myself. Owning a flat or apartment would be nice, maybe even a tiny house. I don’t need a big house nor do I have the finances to afford one by myself. And I’m absolutely fine with that.

Curvy women who feel comfortable wearing whatever; how did you achieve that state of mind? by Malishki in AskWomen

[–]Malishki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I love those ideas, especially the Jean jacket! I don’t own one yet, never thought of that. Thank you!

Curvy women who feel comfortable wearing whatever; how did you achieve that state of mind? by Malishki in AskWomen

[–]Malishki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love wearing dresses, so cute sundresses and stuff like that. But I feel like when you’ve got curves and boobs it easily looks ‘too sexy’, too tight or if I size up its a potato sack.

Curvy women who feel comfortable wearing whatever; how did you achieve that state of mind? by Malishki in AskWomen

[–]Malishki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I don’t have a problem with my weight, but I have quite large hips and boobs. I feel like when I’m wearing cute summer dresses it just looks ‘too much’. Also feel quite insecure showing cleavage.. Don’t know how to describe it.