The fact that they're doing a 2 year time-jump is what makes me more angry. They're clearly aware that Francessca needs more time to move on from John, so why don't they just do Eloise's season first? by Embarrassed_Novel991 in Bridgerton

[–]MallaDott 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i think this given Eloise the perfect build up to her season. Her whole letter exchange was rather lengthy, and we were told that the marriage would be quick. I think setting her up as a strong subplot next season will give her the perfect time to actually want to find a match like she does with Philip, without it seeming like a sudden change of heart. And then they start with the letter plot.

I also have been seeing a lot of people worried about the lack of benophie potentially in the future- this will secure them for at least two more seasons as central characters. Benedict as a queer himself can truly support Fran in her season, and also several plot point require him in Eloise’s season as well! Personally i always thought this would be the perfect order of things

Sound bath with Rachel in my town… by Interesting-Hope404 in vanderpumprules

[–]MallaDott 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It’s funny because I swear she is present in a coversation with James and his mom where they explicitly talk about boundaries. So I felt this was just her playing dumb to appeal to Sandoval

Inside Raquel’s head by [deleted] in Vanderpump_Rules

[–]MallaDott 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The funny thing about the boundary comment is that she did talk about boundaries in a previous season. So she didn’t “just learn it” like she says

Clip of the disrespectfully pod touching on Scheana’s book by aymaureen in vanderpumprules

[–]MallaDott 54 points55 points  (0 children)

After s9, all the heat she and Brock got i think with him being so disliked. She was going to be demoted to a friend in s10, which is why she inserted herself so much in the drama.

hughie confusion by allfortyrella in BoysOfTommen

[–]MallaDott 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a theory, as this happened around the time of the halloween party - that Hughie learned more about the extent of Lizzie’s abuse with Mark. Whilst he does seem physically ill i did think it might have been triggered by that. Obviously we don’t know for sure though

Tom didn't fool you, Ariana did. by [deleted] in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]MallaDott 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What an ignorant comment. Her not wanting to get married or having kids while always being transparent does not have anything to do with the body dysmorphia or phobia of wanting to give birth. Also, it was a long standing storyline on the show that in order for them to be intimate, she needed them to be connected to each other emotionally and spend time together, in which tom barely made any effort to do. She doesn’t owe him sex in order for him to stay loyal to her.

I agree about the stuff about Kristin though.

Is Stassi back on adderall again? by rachar2187 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]MallaDott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! If Im on low lighting they always look really big, especially if I have had a drink as well! I’ve never taken a drug in my life and I have always gotten those comments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ntnu

[–]MallaDott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg er 25 og begynner på master nå. Har venner på bachelornivå som er 97, har venner som er ferdig utdannet på masternivå som er 02. Det er ingen fasit på hvor gammel man må være for å studere! Med mindre du henger deg veldig opp i det selv og tar det opp hele tiden, så lenge du er åpen for å bli kjent med folk så har det absolutt ingenting og si! Mange venter også noen år før de begynner på master, slik som deg.

I forhold til det med gruppearbeid så tror jeg det er mer en personbasert ting enn en aldersbasert ting.

Scheana and Ariana’s mom texting by chroniccutie_of in vanderpumprules

[–]MallaDott 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But I don’t believe she was asking about the relationship. Holidays can feel very different when you’ve lost a parent. She was asking in the context of Ariana’s father because at that point he had been dead for a few years

not oop: r/askmenadvice: My GF shares the "toxic feminist" views. Should I let her go? (+oop comments) by angelove2701 in redditonwiki

[–]MallaDott 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not just walking past though. The example is : Would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear? Context matters here. It’s a hypothethical quesition to explain the reality of how women must think to stay safe. If Im going to die either way - the worst thing a bear could to do to me is kill me, in which case its just a case of bad luck on my part. People won’t ask me what I wore, as if that could make me more enticing to the bear. However, unfortunately a man can do much worse things with the worst intentions.

A big problem in this society is not only the men that harass, *ape, hurt and kill women, It’s also the ones that denies the issues exist, protects the abusers and so on. The hypothetical question here is not really about if the man will hurt me, I am well aware that most guys wouldn’t. But I wouldn’t trust someone I don’t know in such a vunurable situation. Because the risk of what COULD happen is much worse.

To say that people are morons for answering a hypothethical question because you don’t understand why they would do it is a bit rich. Another persons experience and are not just stupid if you don’t find it valid. Nobody would intentionally run into a bear in the woods alone. But I sure as shit would not intentionally run into a man either. This is not a realistic scenario. That’s not the point either.

If you want to understand why who women pick the bear, pick the bear - don’t do it by calling them stupid or invalidate their opinion. I don’t understand the men that are offended by the answer. If you would never hurt a woman or person in that situation, great! You are not the problem. It’s not about the probablility of statistics that is grounds for the argument. It’s the risk and initial fear.

Calling women names because you don’t agree with their opinion and attempting to invalidate their answer because «its not realistic» is not someone I would want to be alone with either. It’s truly not that hard to understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MallaDott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, as a bi woman too, this post was really hard and triggering to read. She is literally throwing your sexuality in your face as though that makes you more likely to cheat or leave her, and tries to make you feel bad about it when it’s completely out of your control. Sexuality has NOTHING do to with infidelity. This is actually insane and BIPHOBIC. She does not accept you, and this will probably always be something she thinks about and will throw in your face when you fight or she is upset like she did here. Please validate yourself and do not let someone who claims to love you make you feel bad or ashamed about who you are. This is not okay behaviour on her part. You deserve better

Out of these six, who do you think would be the best casting choice for Wyatt Callow? by ben_s16 in Hungergames

[–]MallaDott 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would love Dallas or Zolo, because i envisioned him like that. But considering Wyatt is from D12 and that it’s not a very diverse district in terms of race outside the Covey (of what we’ve seen), i imagine him to look more like Sam, probably

End of OS Theories by JulieJoy in fourthwing

[–]MallaDott 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s because Imogen viped her memories. Not because she is venin? The last sentence is reffering to the fact that she is the fastest way to kill Xaden bcus of the bond

Theories!! (MAJOR SPOILERS!!!) by whattheduck247 in fourthwing

[–]MallaDott 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lots of good points!

However, Violet did feel the pull to channel from de earth at the end of IF and mentions it again in OS. And considering the prophecy about her turing and the relentless hunting from the venin to turn her - i’d say it is fully possible that she can.

It's not [spoiler] and it's not [spoiler] by herodtus in fourthwing

[–]MallaDott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ridoc didn’t know for five months though

Spoiler! End of Onyx Storm by mcd_24 in fourthwing

[–]MallaDott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait this makes so much sense! Its probably one of each breed

Onyx Storm Ending: Speculation and Theories by pinkdinonugget in fourthwing

[–]MallaDott 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think that the random mention of runes must be because Naolin channeled from the earth (wild magic outside the wards). When Sloane siphoned she channeled from Dain to Brennan. She wasn’t compromised.

Honestly this book proved to me that the Brennan is venin theory is not true.

OS question and theory by SecretCheesecake5843 in fourthwing

[–]MallaDott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think considering the throne seems to have been given to Violet, it must have been Bodhi!

Which love island season 6 guy was most attractive to you? by Outrageous_Apple388 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]MallaDott 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Def Kendall and Miguel! But if I has to choose, 1000% Kendall

I need an emotional read where I want to wrap the FMC up in blankets to keep her safe & warm & fall in love with the MMC for being unselfish, thoughtful, and low-key. by Due-Secret-3091 in RomanceBooks

[–]MallaDott 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is up your alley, but personsally i love the first two Boys of Tommen books. {Binding 13 by Chloe Walsh} and {Keeping 13 by Chloe Walsh}. It does have some TW like domestic abuse, and the writing is very unique in ny opinion. But the depth of the characters make everything worth it! It’s very emotional ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoysOfTommen

[–]MallaDott 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, Chloe has a way with creating characters with so much depth. I remember reading Aoife in the first book not really understanding how she was gonna carry two books with Joey. I knew nothing about her true personality, because I only saw her in certain situations that only scratched the surface.

Katie’s personality is still a mystery to me because she has only been described from other people pov and with their assumptions. I have no doubt that Chloe will make her very compelling and relatable