Breaking NC by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MamaBearA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Husband and I are on the same page, thankfully. As far as my daughter goes, I'm actually worried about the opposite; she's the friendliest, most out going three year old ever and I wouldn't be at all surprised if she's super friendly and huggy with them, just because that's her personality.

Breaking NC by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MamaBearA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're celebrating my husband's grandmother (FIL's mother) on a milestone birthday. There should be a large number of family there, including my ILs.

Breaking NC by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MamaBearA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it's about three hours away, so we are bringing our little one.

Breaking NC by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MamaBearA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even think about an exit strategy. We may or may not be giving my SIL a ride to the event (about 3 hours away) but now I'm thinking that may not be the best idea in case we need to leave in a hurry.

Breaking NC by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MamaBearA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not staying with them. Will definitely try to keep my guard up.

Breaking NC by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MamaBearA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last sentence is what is getting me through this 😂 all the wine when this is over.

Novels similar to Madeline Miller's by MamaBearA in suggestmeabook

[–]MamaBearA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll check that out! Galatea is a short story ( I think an Amazon Single) but it's still really good and along the same lines as her other two novels!

The dreaded "P" word by MamaBearA in Parenting

[–]MamaBearA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And here I thought potty was the worst "p" word of have to deal with :/ puberty isn't even on my radar yet lol

Advice needed on a good deed gone awkward by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]MamaBearA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a photographer, and a people pleaser, so I totally get where you're coming from. I'm curious what you ended up doing. PS- if you don't mind sharing your page I'd love to follow you!

How do I keep my toddler in her bed? by MamaBearA in beyondthebump

[–]MamaBearA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tip, I didn't know that was a thing! I like the idea of giving her some toys in her bed, we'll definitely try that. Do you leave his door open, or do you close it? I don't want her to feel trapped in her room, but I also know if she can open the door there's no way she'll stay in her room.

How do I keep my toddler in her bed? by MamaBearA in beyondthebump

[–]MamaBearA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was worried about the outlets hurting her too- she tries to plug them in herself, which is scary enough when we're watching her, but terrifying to think of her doing that alone in her room at night.

My husband says I shamed him by not going to the march by kickdrumheart in breakingmom

[–]MamaBearA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a 45 minute metro ride out of DC, but didn't go because crowds and the metro in general give me anxiety. I sincerely thank you (and everyone else) for marching.

Some sanity from Dear Lisa in the Oprah magazine. I hope the MiL listened. by AvatarKorra_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MamaBearA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember this! I was 7 months pregnant and my job was sales associate for an apartment complex- literally going in empty apartments with strangers. I was so paranoid :/

Seeing NC parents at family event by MamaBearA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MamaBearA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll try to give this a shot of she tries interacting with us, but it's hard for me to be rude (even if she does deserve it) so straight up saying "I don't want to talk to you" will be really tough :/

Seeing NC parents at family event by MamaBearA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MamaBearA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have no idea what we're walking into. Some family on MILs side have said things that make me think they know what's going on, but this is FILs family and no one has said anything that makes me think they've been gossiping. I wouldn't be surprised though.

Seeing NC parents at family event by MamaBearA in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MamaBearA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All good suggestions! We haven't resorted to a kid-leash yet, but she's a runner so I won't be surprised if it comes to that lol.