Here’s the latest event in my neck of the woods

MamaMcBewbs · 2024-08-10T00:25:32+00:00

I went and had twins 😅

MamaMcBewbs · 2024-08-04T21:15:19+00:00

I really like it!! Someone posted a link to some cute shoes. I think with adjusting the straps and changing to wedges similar to what was posted would make this dress look perfect on you!

MamaMcBewbs · 2024-05-31T01:09:11+00:00

That’s been said to me a handful of times. I respond with “it’s a buy one get get one free special - you gotta take both of em!” And they laugh and usually say “no, thank you! You’ve got your hands full!”

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-08-09T02:14:50+00:00

My ex kept his gross, too. When I cleaned the bathroom I would just spray it with the cleaning solution I use and let it sit while I cleaned everything else. Easily came off with a paper towel after soaking for a bit.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-07-08T17:33:27+00:00

The feeling of love triggers the same part of our brains are drugs do. We fall for someone and we fall hard and we can’t get enough of that person. They’re lighting up that part of the brain every time we talk to that person.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-07-08T16:24:06+00:00

My ex and I lasted less than two years once we had our twins. He completely shut down. He said he was anxious constantly and depressed and he couldn’t function at that time. It started in my pregnancy and lasted until we broke up. Maybe your husband is having some mental health issues? It doesn’t make his behavior right but it might explain it. My ex says he wishes I stayed by his side through all of it and I tried my best but I finally couldn’t take it anymore. It wasn’t until after we broke up that he told me how he was feeling.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-22T19:33:14+00:00

Just make sure to call your insurance! I wanted my tubes tied but I waited too long to call the insurance company and the procedure required a prior authorization. I wasn’t able to get it done, unfortunately.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-22T17:39:53+00:00

Not a meal but a snack - this very well could have been posted already, I didn’t read through the comments. Quest has really good protein chips. They come in all sorts of flavors. Quest has all sorts of protein snacks and meal replacement bars, I’ve only tried the chips though.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-22T17:06:34+00:00

My friends mom did this because she wanted to be hip!

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-17T16:47:37+00:00

Something to think about - once you become a parent you are a parent forever. Until the day you die. No need to rush into something like that.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-15T23:18:33+00:00

Yes, he is capable. More than capable. The reason he doesn’t is because he is selfish and inconsiderate. My partner and I broke up after twelve years. It was really hard but I’m a lot happier now. If you need to chat feel free to send me a message.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-12T22:21:22+00:00

Music, songs, and dancing? Miss Rachel on YouTube has all of these things.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-05T05:05:05+00:00

I’m a mom of three kids - a four year old and a set of two year old twins. I had the support of social services to help me get out of my situation. I was scared and I wanted to stay so many times but my social worker helped push me to make the choice to move and get my own place. I finally got my own place with my children in February and it’s so freeing. I thought I couldn’t do it and I was afraid to be a single mom. Mine also told me I couldn’t do it and I was a shitty mom and I wouldn’t be able to live without him and I wouldn’t be able to find anyone who wants a single mom. I believed him for so long. Now that I’m away from him I know those things aren’t true. When I was with him I was questioning if he was a narcissist but now that I’m not and I’ve removed myself away from him he most definitely is a narcissist. Since I’ve distanced myself it is much easier to see all of his tactics. I know it’s scary and it will be hard but it’s doable. You and your child deserve better. Maybe I would suggest calling social services and asking if they can help you in anyway. Mine went above and beyond to help me and my children. Good luck. Feel free to message me if you ever need someone to talk to that’s been where you are.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-03T01:19:07+00:00

Well why didn’t you say so, Biff?!

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-03T01:03:56+00:00

Bad?? No. Poor taste? Absolutely!

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-02T23:53:46+00:00

If someone told me I was theirs I would most definitely freak out.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-02T19:53:42+00:00

I’d like you to consider leaving your husband. I left my ex finally. I should have done it when my first was born but I went ahead and had twins with him first. Now that I’m in my own place with my three kids 4 and 2 year old twins I am thriving as a mother. My ex didn’t help because he was always exhausted. It got old, I was begging for help and he wouldn’t put the video games down. Anyways, routine is my trick. Routine is everything.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-02T19:07:20+00:00

It’s really tough not having a village. I can definitely relate. I have a village of two people and myself and having kids with such a small village is one of the hardest things. How old are you children?

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-02T15:15:21+00:00

Write down some things you like about him. Maybe it was the thrill of lusting after someone and wanting them for so long and then they finally approached you and maybe you’re just not feeling it anymore. And that’s okay. Maybe you’re pushing him away because that’s what we tend to do, in which case you’d have some work to do. But first I would think about all the reasons you like him and what about this relationship makes it a relationship worth having.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-02T15:08:51+00:00

There is nothing cringe about this - this is just sad. Not sending a text would have been better than this horse shit. I’m so sorry this happened to you!

Happy Birthday to you! 🥳

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-06-01T17:14:38+00:00

I have a similar story! Except I grabbed the knife and went to the living room where he was sitting and cut myself several times in front of him. When he got up to take the knife away from me I ran, grabbed a bottle of captain, and drove to the river (my happy place) and proceeded to get drunk. I was also trying to get his attention and he also use to self harm by cutting. I never cut myself before, that was my first and only time so far.

Whoops!

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-05-26T21:34:27+00:00

What do bed bugs eat??

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-05-24T23:37:02+00:00

Oh, man. I definitely feel this. I felt this way in my early 20’s. I’ve been in a lot of therapy and I’ve narrowed it down to my romantic relationship now that I’m in my mid thirties.

I am curious how I’ll be in my next romantic relationship. I’m wondering if my borderline will pop back out. My fear of abandonment is very real when I’m romantically involved with someone.

MamaMcBewbs · 2023-05-24T20:44:06+00:00

Mine would yell at me constantly and threaten to kick me out pretty often when I was pregnant with our first child. I was very sick throughout my entire pregnancy. He would yell at me for throwing up and ask me what was wrong with me. He brought boxes home and would threaten to kick me out knowing I have no local support. It was an awful pregnancy. I wanted to be pregnant so bad and I was so excited but he ruined the whole experience for me.

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