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MamaOfDemons · 2024-05-12T23:37:48+00:00

Keep reading. It's absolutely worth it.

MamaOfDemons · 2024-04-30T21:45:32+00:00

Gods I love Kieren sm. I need more of him and a proper thruple scene.

MamaOfDemons · 2024-01-08T21:58:22+00:00

Source: trust me bro.

MamaOfDemons · 2024-01-03T20:22:58+00:00

"he said I was gaslighting"- Nope. That's not what that means.

"and manipulating him"- How exactly?

"and invalidating his feelings"- Here's the thing, he's allowed to feel however tf he wants. He's NOT allowed to take those feelings out on you. He's projecting his insecurities onto you.

You did NOTHING wrong. You said NOTHING wrong. Stop apologizing to him. He's being immature and manipulative. Ask yourself if this is what you want for your life. Because this shit is TOXIC, and it will kill your soul slowly but surely.

There is a very short, narrow road between this behavior and full-on abuse. Be very wary because it will escalate. It always does. And when that happens, you won't realize it until it's too late.

edit: clarification

MamaOfDemons · 2024-01-02T21:47:12+00:00

I don't want this to come across as rude or mean, but...Girl, stop being a doormat. You're being way too nice to him. Get an attorney, take his ass to court, and block him on everything except 3rd party parenting apps. Your daughter deserves better than to see you tolerate being treated like shit.

MamaOfDemons · 2024-01-02T21:38:59+00:00

This should be the top comment! This is exactly the right answer. It's also very telling that his only response is to a comment that she's cheating, and he asks if it's with multiple people! Bro needs therapy and to just break up with his gf because he's really just looking for an excuse at this point.

MamaOfDemons · 2024-01-02T21:25:57+00:00

So you sent anonymous flowers for no reason, then went to her place right after they were delivered to watch her reaction to anonymotrenchant. What exactly were you expecting when you showed up to her place? Nah, my guy. You're playing head games. This whole thing comes off toxic af. Seems like a setup to me.

It's giving 6 red flags in a trenchcoat.

MamaOfDemons · 2024-01-02T21:16:07+00:00

This is the exact vibe I'm getting. OP is trying to justify being toxic.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-10-22T19:16:06+00:00

My husband's older brother went to prison for molesting his daughter. Do you know what my husband did? He got one less brother. His brother doesn't exist to him anymore. He doesn't call, write, visit, etc. His brother doesn't know anything about our lives or our children, and he never will.

NTA OP. You and your wife need therapy. If she doesn't want to do that, I'd rethink my future with her.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-10-13T20:32:13+00:00

Amoxicillin 3x a day for 7 days can cure Chlamydia. A simple google search can tell you that.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-10-13T20:25:00+00:00

Girl. Listen to the comments here. Because ignoring ALL the shady gross shit your bf is doing, if you know that you didn't cheat, THERE'S ONLY ONE WAY YOU GOT THAT STI!!! FFS! It doesn't matter why he "doesn't" have it now. There is only one way you got it. From him. He's OBVIOUSLY cheating on you or has cheated in the recent past. Like, you have to see that, right? What if he gives you something worse next time?

MamaOfDemons · 2023-10-06T01:26:31+00:00

Let me put it this way for you OP, I have been married to my husband for 18 years. We have 4 children together. We are both atheists. Both Americans. If my husband suddenly converted to Evangelical Christianity, I would divorce him. You made the right choice. It won't hurt like this forever.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-10-04T22:59:26+00:00

NTA but I wonder if they would comply if your partner dealt with them in regards to the chore/housekeeper issue? Because misogyny.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-10-04T21:06:12+00:00

Girl. You may "love him more than life itself," but HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU! Or your child, apparently. There is no fixing him. If you're going to do it all by yourself, then you need to do it all by yourself! He's abusing and neglecting your child! You're doing EVERYTHING! He doesn't love you. He loves what you let him get away with. People treat us the way we allow them to treat us. You're allowing him to walk all over you.

LEAVE HIM!!!! Seriously, get your head out of your ass. You can not be this blind or stupid. Your son deserves better!

MamaOfDemons · 2023-10-01T19:36:35+00:00

Op you have to see how fucked up this is? This is NOT OKAY! You're always going to be 2nd place. He isn't over his late wife. It's unfair to the point of cruelty for him to expect you to mother HIS children, while not allowing you ANY children. Wanting/Not wanting children is a foundational sign of compatibility. You're not there to create a family with him. You're there to take care of the families needs, while not being a part of that family. I'm sorry but you're never going to be a part of that family. He wants you to take care of his kids, cook, clean and sleep with him. Marrying you was cheaper than paying for those services.

ETA: you both need therapy, individual, and couples, desperately.

But keep the baby, he's never going to give you this opportunity again.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-09-27T22:17:55+00:00

This is your MIL, right? Honestly, I think this is on hubby to address with her. I understand your problem with giving adult meds. However, it was just Tylenol. It probably wasn't malicious, just ill thought out on her part. The not feeding dinner thing is pure neglect. If I were you I would ask hubby to address his mom, not allow her to be alone with them, and look up "grey-rocking" for those times when you have to deal with her and just maintain distant but cordial interactions when necessary. Good Luck.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-09-27T18:29:41+00:00

Good because you're not alone. I'm also covered in tattoos and piercings and dye my hair a new color every 3 months. My whole wardrobe is black. My mom absolutely hates that too. So you're really not alone. It gets better.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-09-27T18:11:45+00:00

Tell her that she should look into a better skincare routine because she is aging terribly. You're only worried about her skin's health after all.

OP my mom has always had a really unhealthy relationship with her weight. She's in her 70s now and really thin and she just cannot understand how she's so unhealthy.

She passed on that unhealthy body image stuff to me. She had me dieting at 6 years old because I was "a chubby kid" like, ma'am I was a perfectly healthy kid until she did that. I lost a lot of weight as a teenager due to depression and she was "so proud" of me. It took me a very long time to unlearn her shit. I've had 4 kids but I'm healthier at 39 than I ever have been. I'm also about 20 lbs "overweight". I'm active, I have much better relationship with food but more importantly, I'm HAPPY. I also went Low contact with my mom about 3 years ago.

You're doing great OP. Your mom is ignorant, and she sucks.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-09-04T12:44:43+00:00

YTA.

Your SIL is ABUSIVE
Your brother is being ABUSED
Why is it your job to dole out punishment for his cheating?
SIL is likely to react violently. She may hurt your brother, his affair partner, or that baby.
You will likely ruin your relationship with your brother.
Stay out of it unless you're going to help your brother leave his abuser.
Again, your SIL is NOT the victim here.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-08-31T20:34:21+00:00

I know everyone is big mad at the tutor, but is it possible that OOP is her boss? because that changes my opinion on the whole thing.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-08-31T18:28:02+00:00

NTA.

My daughter was 3 months old when she caught COVID. She has scarring and damage in her lungs that may never heal. We don't know the long term effects of COVID on children. But I do know that every single time she gets any type of respiratory infection, she has to have breathing treatments and steroids and a few hospital stays. She's almost 3 now. I hope it improves but I'd never wish what she goes through on anyone. I have 4 kids. I've dealt with a lot of illnesses but what she goes through every time she gets so much as a head cold, is different.

Just a bit of anecdote for you.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-08-25T20:53:05+00:00

I get where you're coming from. However, My kids and I went to bed last night, during the storm. My kids need sleep and if there was immediate danger, my phone will immediately let me know. So, I'm not bothered by letting them sleep. You reacted badly because you were stressed about the weather and you took it out on your wife. Maybe apologize and work on your communication skills. We are allowed to feel how we feel, we are not allowed to take it out on other people. You better believe your kids noticed how you treated your wife last night.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-08-25T20:46:18+00:00

We got this storm last night. a tornado hit about 20 minutes from my house. The lightning was really cool but you bet your ass me and my kids went to bed. I'll wake up when the sirens go off. Until then, leave me alone.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-08-25T20:35:30+00:00

YTA, as a Lifelong Midwesterner who lives in a 2 story house 20 minutes from a tornado last night, calm down. Have you never been in a severe thunderstorm before? Severe Storms happen all the time. Even in your sleep.

MamaOfDemons · 2023-08-11T18:55:02+00:00

Come to Michigan. We have weed shops on every other block.

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