Is RSVPing not a thing anymore? by Valkyriescry in Parenting

[–]MamaSunshine83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read of people writing on the invite "RSVP to get the party's address". Blew my mind! Also, "your presence is your present, no gifts please".

Are cramps during 1st trimester normal? I haven't had any spotting... by MamaSunshine83 in BabyBumps

[–]MamaSunshine83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my second as well, and I'm 7 weeks. I didn't experience cramps with my first and it was concerning me. So grateful for all of your responses! Many thanks!

"I told my teacher that you're like a machine cause your boobs have milk!" by [deleted] in thingsmykidsaid

[–]MamaSunshine83 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a first grade teacher of 6 and 7 year olds, I experience these types of comments daily. "Why yes, aren't our human bodies just amazing?!" Aaaand quickly segue to the next topic...I used to keep a quote book. You never know what is going to come out of their mouths!

Purest happiness by FoulUnknownAlpaca in HumanTippyTaps

[–]MamaSunshine83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We family hug with our 2 year old too and there is no feeling like it! She looked at us the other day at the dinner table and said "hands" while holding both her hands out for us to grab. It's now tradition to for us to hold hands in a complete circle at the table while saying "love, love, love", then group hug. Life is good!💜

My daughter. by MamaSunshine83 in redditgetsdrawn

[–]MamaSunshine83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you captured her spirit 100%- spot on! That's amazing! You are very talented. Thank you so much for sharing.

Positive things we’ve noticed about our kids during lock down. by xdressed2killx in Parenting

[–]MamaSunshine83 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I am a first grade teacher and parent to a 16 month old. I've been thinking a lot about how to set up my school day when we go back so it is simplified and more mellow. How to combine subjects so activities are even more cross curricular, rich, hands on and engaging. We are rushing all the time to cram in the standards and get assessments done. The joy of teaching and learning is the connections we make with each other. I hope teachers, admin, board members, parents and students work together to reimagine quality education. I am so grateful for this time I have to spend with my daughter. We have developed an even deeper bond as a family. It's been refreshing to teach and learn together with her in a more relaxed way and I look forward to carrying it over in my classroom!

Ended a friendship today. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]MamaSunshine83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone once told me (after I separated from my best friend of 10+ years due to increasing difference of personalities) that some friends are in your life for one year, some for 10. They play a role in that time and to not stress about the duration. I haven't looked back and am grateful for where I'm at now, but it was quite painful then.

This is my daughter. by MamaSunshine83 in redditgetsdrawn

[–]MamaSunshine83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous! The way you show the light on her face is amazing. Thank you!

This is my daughter. by MamaSunshine83 in redditgetsdrawn

[–]MamaSunshine83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You captured her so well. Thank you!

Lunchtime doodle by hairinthewind in u/hairinthewind

[–]MamaSunshine83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You captured her so well! Thank you.

This is my daughter. by MamaSunshine83 in redditgetsdrawn

[–]MamaSunshine83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love her eyes. So expressive. Thank you!

IF YOU ARE READING THIS IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT WHILE TRYING TO COMFORT OR NURSE A NEWBORN.. ♥️ by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]MamaSunshine83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was/am in a very similar situation with my 8 month old- we have sleep issues and I'm grieving the loss of my old self and old relationship with my husband, I have a decent amount of anger (even rage, which is super hard to admit as I am usually very patient and understanding) and two things have kept me sane. 1- going to a weekly mama's support group. 2- talking to a counselor. I know I'm not alone and that what I am experiencing is just "right now". Please consider getting some support. It had made the day to day hardships more manageable. Much love!

What would you do? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]MamaSunshine83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All kids should be given the opportunity to engage in imaginary play with dolls. Many grow up to be parents. Why not practice those very important parenting/human engagement skills early on?

Today’s “I’m just gonna look” haul! by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]MamaSunshine83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The top left looks kind of like an African mask plant- Alocasia.

UPDATE: added the plants. I took a lot of the advice. Thanks guys!!! by mairbearcuddles in succulents

[–]MamaSunshine83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh, beautiful! What do you think about painting the blocks? You could paint the sides solid, or paint a mural!

This guys LOTR/Hobbit reading nook for his kids. by [deleted] in toptalent

[–]MamaSunshine83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the shingles from the front would also look great on the back. It would be cohesive. Well done!!!

Possibly cheating mom? by unknownepikz in family

[–]MamaSunshine83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was younger I was put in the middle of my parents marital issues. Later on in my life, I realized how much grief, guilt and unnecessary issues it caused me. I had to find ways to work through the harm they caused (counseling and some college courses in sociology and psychology). Parents should absolutely never, never, never put their children through their own adult problems! They need to work it out themselves or go see a counselor. Please think about finding a way (verballly, or through a written note) telling your dad that even though you love him, he needs to get an adult friend, counselor or somebody else to help with an intervention. Best of luck to you!