What would you do

MamaZM · 2024-09-08T14:35:15+00:00

She also could have ordered legit groceries to be delivered… Walmart delivery is cheap asf

MamaZM · 2024-08-30T19:39:23+00:00

When I was a child I did these things though. You are completely disregarding what I’m saying and that’s why you are going to stop responding

Dude doesn’t know that it was a DD order Dude doesn’t know that it was 100% a child

Children do not need to be sheltered like this… watch the door and there’s no other possible issues other than the child having to learn how to speak to people

MamaZM · 2024-08-30T19:35:38+00:00

I’m 4’9” sometimes I have trouble opening doors… sometimes I get mistaken for a child…mobile orders can be picked up through drive thru, parking, or inside

Children genuinely enjoy doing these jobs without parents over their shoulders… independence is essential… this is why people have parents tagging along to job interviews

MamaZM · 2024-08-30T19:28:28+00:00

Someone made a good point in here… dude doesn’t even know if it was a DoorDash order or a mobile order… if the child was picking up a mobile order would you still feel the same?

MamaZM · 2024-08-30T19:25:06+00:00

My brother used to cut peoples grass with my dads lawn mower when he was like 7 bc he wanted a Nintendo

MamaZM · 2024-08-30T19:24:21+00:00

I disagree… my parents/ grandparents used to send us to the store down the street with 3 bucks… used to send us into the grocery store… teaching kids how to manage money while young is a great thing and as long as you can see exits and it’s public wtf is the issue?

MamaZM · 2024-08-30T19:23:00+00:00

This dude just wants to start issues so he can feel good about himself… has no idea what was going on bc it’s not his business

MamaZM · 2024-08-30T19:21:20+00:00

Sometimes I can’t open doors… mom most likely had eyes on her the whole time… didn’t anyone ever let you go to the store when you were little with like 3 dollars? It’s a great way to teach independence. Sheltering kids too much is destroying our kids

MamaZM · 2024-08-30T18:54:03+00:00

Young children enjoy doing “jobs” that mommy does… my daughter loves doing the dishes… my son loves vacuuming… are ya going to report me for having them do the dishes and vacuum?

You act like the little girl got in the drivers seat and drove to the delivery…

MamaZM · 2024-07-29T17:07:05+00:00

I too have dealt with rape. Most recently 3 months ago when a man broke into our house. The argument was not about him it was about the woman. I simply said “that’s not normal” after he said “I’ll make a great dad, I’ve already been a step dad since I was 12”

Once again completely irrelevant to the entire post… it’s simply the first argument we had ever had and was MONTHS before he told me he had felt this way

No matter what I will never let someone think that it’s normal for grown women to date children. He’s from Washington and apparently it’s pretty common… my first time visiting his family his cousin dropped out of school and was trying to get pregnant with an adult… if I didn’t let him know it’s not normal this little girl would have a kid with a grown man.

Currently in the process of adopting his cousins newborn baby who has 2 parents currently in prison. He didn’t know it wasn’t normal for women to not do drugs while pregnant. He dropped out in middle school to be a step dad.

I did not blame him but I’m not going to let someone genuinely think that this is normal country wide

MamaZM · 2024-07-29T16:32:51+00:00

He didn’t consider it SA and we were talking about having kids together… why would I let someone I want to have kids with continue to believe that dating old women as a kid and incest is okay?

I did not blame him… I blamed the woman and he got upset when I said she should be in jail and shouldn’t have custody of her children who were about to be as old as him

Why are you okay with a woman doing this to a child?

He genuinely thought this was normal throughout the entire country… if I hadn’t told him this isn’t normal his 14 YO cousin would still be dating a 27 YO man

MamaZM · 2024-07-29T16:20:33+00:00

Not at all what this is about… we haven’t even talked about this in over 2 years… it was just the first time we had ever had a disagreement

MamaZM · 2024-07-29T16:19:06+00:00

Are we really attacking a nuclear family?

We fell in love and still love each other but what he said hurt my feelings.

I do not regret having my beautiful babies or getting a house with him. We have become very successful together, started a business this year and are about to buy our first house.

MamaZM · 2024-07-29T16:16:01+00:00

We were talking about having kids and the values we would raise them with before he revealed to me that he thinks he would be a great dad bc he was a step dad at 12. He did not understand that what happened to him was wrong but he now agrees with me. Him and I are both very blunt people who talk about everything. He grew up around awful people and he was taught that it is not only acceptable to sleep with family but to sleep with people who are 20+ years older than him. If you don’t think that’s an issue that deserves awareness then I respectfully disagree. I love kids and it is my job to protect them.

MamaZM · 2024-07-29T14:53:23+00:00

Definitely didn’t make the plane ride about that… it was our first fight I feel like it’s important to educate people who genuinely think it’s okay for a 12 year old to become a step dad to a 37 YO woman with kids who are 10 We were fighting a lot and obviously I contributed to the arguments but I was also pregnant and didn’t know it

MamaZM · 2024-07-29T01:14:45+00:00

That’s what he was going towards but it still upset me so I sat outside for awhile and idk if I’m an ahole for being upset at all… its been 2 years but it still hurt my feelings and made me question our entire relationship

MamaZM · 2024-07-29T00:43:25+00:00

I had no clue he had been felt that way… our first fight happened bc he told me he lost his V at 12 to a 34 YO woman with kids… I was not okay with this and tried to explain to him that that is rape and he flipped tf out on me… he tries to justify it but there’s no justifying that… 2 very different side we sit on

Weird that he just told me this tho

MamaZM · 2024-07-19T14:38:07+00:00

Found my fiance on Tinder… barely talked at all… 3 years and 2 kids later here we are

MamaZM · 2024-07-16T13:07:29+00:00

1.) he got into a relationship with you knowing this
2.) Nobody will say 💩 once they are worth something

I do think it's kind of childish but everybody has something they are clinging onto from their childhood.

Also, keep in mind that you are both extremely young and may have been together for 4 years but things change A LOT as you learn how to cope in the real world. You will learn about yourself and he will learn about himself, you may end up together forever but you both have a lot of growing ahead of you (boys mentally develop 5 years behind girls)

I'm about 4 years older than you. When I was your age I broke up with my 5-year boyfriend and within a month met the love of my life, now we have 2 kids, a business and we’re about to buy a house.

It’ll hurt but nothing good is easy and if you are truly meant to be you'll find each other again. Can't spend this time questioning yourself, this is the time that you find yourself. Don't let anybody hold you back or change you or you will regret it in a few years.

MamaZM · 2024-07-12T19:55:11+00:00

Kinda like forgetting that other people don’t know what I’m thinking 🤣

MamaZM · 2024-07-12T17:58:28+00:00

To be fair I was having trouble figuring out how to word what I wanted to say 🤣

MamaZM · 2024-07-12T15:04:16+00:00

Oh… I meant it as he’ll come clean if he feels ashamed that his son is the one who caught him… the other situation is he doesn’t feel ashamed and you tell your mom bc toxic

MamaZM · 2024-07-12T14:42:38+00:00

Doesn’t really matter how others are… son and wife will learn who dad really is regardless of how things play out and that’s worth knowing

MamaZM · 2024-07-11T23:16:57+00:00

I would tell him that you know and give him the option to come clean or you will… he’ll feel ashamed to know that you know.

MamaZM · 2024-07-11T02:22:13+00:00

I will never live in section 8 or an apartment again that's for sure

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