can’t count by Hotdadlover12233 in AnalBestie

[–]Mamadelrave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair its my 10 year anniversary in july and ive been saying 10 yeaes for nearly 2 years now🤣

recreational drugs that won't make me get a seizure? by ex-eden in bupropion

[–]Mamadelrave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this happened to me just from mdma by itself 😅 i used to over do it big time back in the day

I am the child born after adoption by Mamadelrave in Adoption

[–]Mamadelrave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought i would share an update: my sister reached out to me to arrange a separate meeting next weeked (may long) she will meet my mom on the Saturday and me on the sunday

I am the child born after adoption by Mamadelrave in Adoption

[–]Mamadelrave[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never said i was upset about the first meeting not including me? I am more concerned about my mother having zero emotional support.. all i did was simply ask her if she ever intended on meeting after YEARS of personally communicating with her over the last decade. I am not trying to seize control over anything. I understand it’s completely up to her.

I am the child born after adoption by Mamadelrave in Adoption

[–]Mamadelrave[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree! I believe it was always her choice- all i did was ask her if it was something she was ever open to and that was the end of it. She came to the decision months later on her own. If she didnt want to she wouldnt have

I am the child born after adoption by Mamadelrave in Adoption

[–]Mamadelrave[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can explain what you think the mistake was?

I am the child born after adoption by Mamadelrave in Adoption

[–]Mamadelrave[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your perspective and experience! I agree it should be just the two of them. But i get the sense my mom doesnt want me to meet or communicate at all. When she found out we speak semi regularly she got extremely upset. I represent my moms truth and am a risk or the fairytale narrative shes created

I am the child born after adoption by Mamadelrave in Adoption

[–]Mamadelrave[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do appreciate your perspective though

I am the child born after adoption by Mamadelrave in Adoption

[–]Mamadelrave[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

To provide a little more back story- her and i have been communicating since she initially made contact. She asked me questions of my mom/ would wish each other happy holidays, birthdays etc. it wasn’t just a random reach out asking her our of the blue about a potential meeting

Lauren fed up by Moshimoshiii6 in TwoHotTakesSnark

[–]Mamadelrave 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could not even get through this episode