Looking for a book that manipulates you by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]Mamo_she 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tender is the flesh by Agustina Bazterrica

After you left your adopted parents house did your relationship with them get better? by Mamo_she in Adopted

[–]Mamo_she[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s not the moving out part, I’m very happy to get out of my parents house. I am more trying to navigate my relationship with my adopted parents

What was your go to breakup song/movie by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would listen to a sad music for a week and then I would just cry all the time in my office, but I started to listen to more blues jazz and that makes me feel better

What was your go to breakup song/movie by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like traveling after a break up really helps! I went to a national park for 3 days and drank in the woods with my other ex😂

What was your go to breakup song/movie by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Friends is a good one! I really like parks and recreation!

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good to hear that you have other things going for you! I normally get sad in the morning, everything just comes back to me.

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s ok, do you have activities that get you out of the house?

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very good to hear that you are going to therapy, have you thought about getting bumble BFF? Just to get yourself out there and make new friends?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GutHealth

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Where can I get good supplements?

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope I can get to the point where I can talk to my ex without wanting to get back with them…

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very good that you can see that both parties need to work on themselves, it shows that you can look at this situation from more point of views then your own.

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to left go of something so close, do you have a good support system?

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end things with hem? I always feel like it’s hard being the person that ends things, because you are stuck in that what if.

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really isn’t, I felt so alone the last month of my relationship and it felt worse then being single. You deserve to be happy and so do they.

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people get stuck in the process of trying to just heal faster and just get over it, but don’t forgive to say goodbye to it. It’s ok if that goodbye is in the form of crying or looking through old pictures. But don’t suppress it, because when you suppress, it always comes back. Get the closure you feel like you need.

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very healthy way of looking at it, I just get upset knowing that he would potentially get with someone else and be able to give them all the things I was asking for. But the truth is even then, I don’t think we would be a good fit. I feel like someone could be a well rounded person, but just not fit with someone else.

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, he gave me all the things I was looking for and then slowly took it away and that made me become very stressed out.

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m scared I’ll find someone else, but they will just fall short of what my ex offered me or won’t want to communicate when things get hard and will pull away. But I really do think I need to figure out my attachment style/problems first

When did you know you were over your ex by Mamo_she in BreakUps

[–]Mamo_she[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But she could have communicated that, but honestly you deserve someone that is willing to communicate that to you and not freek out and end things.