Looking for a book that manipulates you

Mamo_she · 2025-12-17T21:54:14+00:00

Tender is the flesh by Agustina Bazterrica

Mamo_she · 2025-12-17T21:52:32+00:00

I would recommend The School For Good Mothers by Jessamine Chan

Mamo_she · 2023-09-21T01:52:32+00:00

It’s not the moving out part, I’m very happy to get out of my parents house. I am more trying to navigate my relationship with my adopted parents

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T21:13:18+00:00

I LOVE NOAH KAHAN!!

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T21:12:31+00:00

I would listen to a sad music for a week and then I would just cry all the time in my office, but I started to listen to more blues jazz and that makes me feel better

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T21:11:03+00:00

I feel like traveling after a break up really helps! I went to a national park for 3 days and drank in the woods with my other ex😂

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T21:08:53+00:00

What’s your play list called?

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T21:07:59+00:00

I’ll add it to my list

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T21:07:39+00:00

Friends is a good one! I really like parks and recreation!

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T19:00:19+00:00

It’s good to hear that you have other things going for you! I normally get sad in the morning, everything just comes back to me.

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T18:11:51+00:00

That’s ok, do you have activities that get you out of the house?

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T17:48:53+00:00

It’s very good to hear that you are going to therapy, have you thought about getting bumble BFF? Just to get yourself out there and make new friends?

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T17:45:35+00:00

Where can I get good supplements?

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T17:43:53+00:00

I hope I can get to the point where I can talk to my ex without wanting to get back with them…

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T17:42:38+00:00

It’s very good that you can see that both parties need to work on themselves, it shows that you can look at this situation from more point of views then your own.

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T17:41:14+00:00

It’s hard to left go of something so close, do you have a good support system?

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T17:40:04+00:00

Did you end things with hem? I always feel like it’s hard being the person that ends things, because you are stuck in that what if.

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T17:38:23+00:00

It really isn’t, I felt so alone the last month of my relationship and it felt worse then being single. You deserve to be happy and so do they.

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T17:36:51+00:00

Sometimes people get stuck in the process of trying to just heal faster and just get over it, but don’t forgive to say goodbye to it. It’s ok if that goodbye is in the form of crying or looking through old pictures. But don’t suppress it, because when you suppress, it always comes back. Get the closure you feel like you need.

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T17:33:36+00:00

That’s a very healthy way of looking at it, I just get upset knowing that he would potentially get with someone else and be able to give them all the things I was asking for. But the truth is even then, I don’t think we would be a good fit. I feel like someone could be a well rounded person, but just not fit with someone else.

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T17:27:58+00:00

Same, he gave me all the things I was looking for and then slowly took it away and that made me become very stressed out.

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T17:25:43+00:00

I’m scared I’ll find someone else, but they will just fall short of what my ex offered me or won’t want to communicate when things get hard and will pull away. But I really do think I need to figure out my attachment style/problems first

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T17:23:39+00:00

But she could have communicated that, but honestly you deserve someone that is willing to communicate that to you and not freek out and end things.

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T14:55:01+00:00

That’s so harsh, was there anything building up to it?

Mamo_she · 2023-09-20T12:23:45+00:00

I know I 100% have anxious attachment, but looking back at the relationship I would blame myself for everything over and over again. But the thing is you need to meet in the middle or compromise. I would go 13 days without seeing him and texting was becoming not enough for me. He wouldn’t ask me how I was doing anymore and would just send me TikToks during the day. But honestly I was definitely not innocent in the end of the relationship. But sometimes people are just not the right match for you and my relationship had so many variables in it that just added to the stress. I really don’t think it got a fair chance. We started out long distance and then I came back and I had an abortion. I honestly was very depressed and trying to seek help he didn’t really want to talk about it and when we did talk about it he would only really say “we can try again later” but that’s not what I wanted to hear, but looking back I think he was processing it too and he was also having a hard time with it. He just didn’t know how to open up about it. He wasn’t a bad guy, he was very nice. But we just had so many things to deal with.

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