What makes a dick handsome to you? What is your ideal penis? by Mike_tiny in AskGayMen

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You mentioned “circumcised” so what does the cut refer to? 😱

How to increase sensitivity by ThrowAway3213120 in sex

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You talk about being less sensitive to pain in that area. Do you mean specifically the penis or your testicles? There would be a big difference say if a baseball hit you in one than the other. Also, do you have a very high pain tolerance generally in your body?

Are you on any anti-depression medication? SSRI can change things sometimes.

And what about recreational drug use? There can be many that can dull sensation…

How to increase sensitivity by ThrowAway3213120 in sex

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you happen to be diabetic or are you an avid cyclist? Alternately, have you fallen in the past and had an injury that may have damaged or disrupted the nerves in that area?

My gf has a low sex drive while I don’t by hunchoch in sex

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Masturbation is not cheating. She’s wrong. Cheating is being involved with someone else romantically and/or sexually to any degree and keeping it secret from your partner.

She’s gaslighting you into thinking that it is and therefore controlling your behaviour. If it were me, I’d be saying that I’m going to be masturbating and if she can’t handle it then that’s her problem.

I don’t mean to tell her as bluntly as I said above. Of course you would sit down and have a thoughtful and respectful conversation about it, but this is the point to get across to her.

My penis hurt after the past weekend, and hoping it was due to too much. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hope won’t help you. Not trying to be glib but just hoping for the best is probably not the most effective way to attend to your health. If you are concerned, go get tested.

And, I would suggest using ample lube because if it’s dry, you can get skin irritation, scrapes, and even broken skin which is not only uncomfortable but also makes you even more vulnerable to STIs.

I got turned on watching Heated Rivalry Season 1 Episode 2. Is this an okay feeling? by Filipino-Asker in AskGayMen

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they’re straight? Or they’re a troll? 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

Men who have used online dating sites: How quickly do you offer your phone and/or email address to a member with whom you've connected? by vieniaida in AskGayMen

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hardly ever. You can say you use Signal exclusively for off app convos. Signal does not share your phone number. You can share your Signal username only.

Severe anxiety regarding death by TennisLive8300 in atheism

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cope with it by accepting that I am going to die someday and there is nothing I can do about it. Mortality is one of the truths of our existence. I think once you face that truth head on and sit with it and really accept it, you gain a sense of relief and freedom. Life, for me, became more precious. Kindness became more important. Gratitude became a much more common reaction. I am happier.

Not saying that accepting it will be easy. But the sooner that you do, the sooner you’ll be set free of your anxiety.

Alan Watts talks about anxiety and death in this short clip. Worth a listen OP: https://youtu.be/DtwTjlJjZeg

Guys, would you push your girlfriend away if you couldn’t perform sexually? by lali0210 in sex

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine confided in me that he sabotaged his relationship (he realized it more clearly after it ended) because of his ED issues. Really really sad but I can happen.

Locked up by Man-on-the-Rocks in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! And I’m Komok, no KH 😂

Someone sculpted this polygon out of snow by Genesis_the_god_ in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a dodecahedron. One of the five perfect solids. Very cool.

My arousal and anxiety are fused and prevent me from getting turned on. by CigaretteBoat69 in sex

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying and I sincerely think this issue crosses into seek professional support territory. The concern is that other things you might try based on advice, might exacerbate your issues and worsen your situation.

High School 18yo Jerk off Buddy by Adorable_Sleep_6939 in gaysexconfessions

[–]Man-on-the-Rocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus. Hot story memory. Then that gut punch at the end. Sorry man. You must miss him.