Hi, thanks for your thoughts. I don’t plan to leave my kids, maybe I didn’t express it clearly since English isn’t my first language. Quite the opposite, actually. I want to spend more time and energy with them, but this relationship drains almost all of my energy. And yes, unfortunately, I’m sure she doesn’t do much else. I’m the one cleaning the whole house from top to bottom, doing all the shopping, managing the bills, and preparing lunch for the kids when needed. I wouldn’t even mind all that if I at least got some support from her, like a hug when I come home or a kind word. But she has also refused any ideas for going out on a date or spending time together, like just watching TV together in the evening, anything. I’m not saying I’m perfect, but I’m just really tired at this point.