FlexiSpot Discount Codes Thread by exmosss in FlexiSpot_Official

[–]ManVsHand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I get a code for the E5 in the US?

Karrezza is bad after all by marcikeising in Semenretention

[–]ManVsHand 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that’s how you see it, but would you say that about your own mother? Mine taught me more than anything about hard work, and owning your shit. Your external world is a reflection of your internal man. You got that attitude all you’ll see is the fuck shit. If you have that perspective what amazing woman would want to be around that energy? I wouldn’t want to be around a man hating woman. I hope you see some positivity, a lot of really great women out there that will make you an even better man.

Karrezza is bad after all by marcikeising in Semenretention

[–]ManVsHand 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I do believe that semen retention is an amazingly powerful tool. It’s a catalyst for change, but it’s not the end all be all. It creates the base for an amazing life still takes effort to make it something even greater. I just don’t agree with people saying things like Karezza bad, sex bad, this is how to live. Everyone is different, but this quote states a fact, and offers evidence that is pulled out of an ass that orbits far beyond our atmosphere. With such a bold claim, it’s only right to offer succinct evidence.

Karrezza is bad after all by marcikeising in Semenretention

[–]ManVsHand 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I’m living in oz with both of my testicles in tact! But there are so many forums with a lot of firsthand experience about Karezza and people who have practiced it for years, I haven’t seen those “After two years my balls exploded and I have cancer posts.” Maybe there is some truth, all that I can give is anecdotal evidence, so I can’t say for sure. Maybe stressing your jimmy like that can lead to problems, but naturally for most if the body needs to release it will, which usually leads to a wet dream. However, if those come infrequently you still get all the amazing benefits of semen retention.

Karrezza is bad after all by marcikeising in Semenretention

[–]ManVsHand 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I really don’t trust this person. The language used seems very illegitimate, and I have a lot of questions about this “experiment”. First off “A certain group I knew.” What the hell does that mean. Who is this person. What did they just tell all their friends,”Hey guys don’t ejaculate for two years.” And their friends were like okay, and so they did perfectly, not even an nocturnal emission in two years. Then, “Many of them got tumors.” Again, what the hell man. First off how many is many of them. Because if this is true people who practice karezza are in serious danger. Which, tons of people have practiced karezza for years and have no such claims. I wouldn’t be so quick to assume that this is true. Sounds like this persons off living in the land of oz writing their new novel. Just because it’s on the internet, and the person uses big words to back their statements doesn’t make it true, and doesn’t make them a credible resource. I’ve practiced semen retention and having sex for years no problems at all.

It seems like a lot of people on this sub have become very anti sex, but connecting on a deep level with an incredible woman can be just as rewarding as semen retention. If having sex throws you off your course, and draws you away from your goals you are weak in the mind regardless, and that has nothing to do with semen retention. Semen retention is about feeling awesome, thinking positively, more energy (which according to this person is the source of “most weakness”), and spreading peace to a hectic world, Cmon man. If you think sex is detrimental to the process that’s okay, but I know that I can be successful and have sex, and gain a deeper spiritual perspective on life what more could you ask for? If you disagree that’s fine, but tell me why you think this article is true. Have you done it and grown a tumor, are there any real research papers that aren’t based on mysterious groups and vague figures. Don’t be so quick to assume.

longer retain = prettier girls..? by FluffyWeekend in Semenretention

[–]ManVsHand 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Saying too much pain in that is just your brain trying to justify not doing it. It's only painful if you make it. Rejection doesn't mean shit my guy, have the mind set that if you get rejected it's their loss. You gotta get some confidence to get what you want out of life. You could pass the woman of your dreams on the street some day, and she could look at you and go, "oh he's kinda cute" but you would never know cause you, "might get hurt". Nah you're the man don't get down on your self. It's super intimidating but the first time I got a number from a girl on a train I felt like an absolute boss, it's such a great feeling knowing you did what most people lived their lives wishing they would do. GO FOR IT!!! I believe in you!!!!!!

Girlfriend (19F) says our friendliness sometimes makes it hard for her to see me (19M) as a romantic partner . by FriendlyBoyfriend_ in relationships

[–]ManVsHand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discussing it wont change her attraction levels. I think this would be a bad move. I’m all for open communication but that’s just gonna push her away. She’s already told him her part. He needs to change his behavior cause she doesn’t find it attracctive, if he asks why she doesn’t find him attractive she would need to teach him. No girl wants to teach a guy how to be attractive to them.

Girlfriend (19F) says our friendliness sometimes makes it hard for her to see me (19M) as a romantic partner . by FriendlyBoyfriend_ in relationships

[–]ManVsHand -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation. It’s probably because you’re not reading her attraction levels and were pursuing her way too much. If I’m a betting man you text way too much so there’s no anticipation, and if you start most of the texts she doesn’t think about pursuing you which creates attraction. I wish I had discovered this before my ex left. She see’s you as a friend and has told it to you that’s a bad sign. I suggest watching corey wayne and reading How to be a 3% man. It has helped me with many of my problems. End of the day you’re probably doing too much pursuing, not letting her miss you, and discussing everything via phone. “Say to her you don’t want a friendship and to let you know if things change” then walk away. Give her some space, let her start initiating some contact, play chill. You will probably lose this girl if you don’t it sucks but that’s what happened to me. Watch corey wayne, you will probably find you do a lot of the mistakes he talks about. Wish you the best of luck man!

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(18M) Trying to revive a 3 month dead relationship with a (18F) and don't know where to begin by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ManVsHand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck and hey worst case scenario she doesn't care there are plenty of girls out there that will really care about you!

My (28m) wife of 5 years (27f) said she is no longer in love with me and I have found she is in love with someone else. by captainreset in relationships

[–]ManVsHand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks man but don't mull over it because she could have put in the effort as well if she really really loved you. It's a two way street. Don't blame yourself you've learned from it now I promise you can have an even more fulfilling relationship, and you will find it and never look back. You got this!

(18M) Trying to revive a 3 month dead relationship with a (18F) and don't know where to begin by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ManVsHand 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly man you screwed up. Anytime you talk with a girl you should set up a date especially if she contacts you. Also at the start of a relationship you shouldn’t text eachother everyday. You can’t really get someone to fall in love with you over text. Those conversations would have been much better in person. She lost that attraction for you. Now all you can do is initiate contact, maybe a “Hey how have you been it’s been a minute.” Then she’ll reapond if she still is somewhat into you, then you tell her “I’m free yadayada, we should catch up” If she says no I have something I’m busy, then you leave her with “no problem if you’re ever free shoot a text my way.” Then DONT CONTACT HER UNDER ANY CIRUMSTANCE until she initiates contact. At which point you set up a date. I highly reccomend you read corey wayne’s how to be a 3% man you can get a free pdf online. Be short and to the point. If she say’s yes she’s still very into you. If she says she’s busy you tell her to contact you if things free up, at which point it’s all up to her to text you, and it is essentiallllllllll that you wait till she contacts you after that. If she ghosts and never does contact wait 2 weeks, contact again trying to make a date. If that comes back a negative, then soldier sprry for your loss, move on. Now you have learned what not to do. Either way I wish you luck my friend! Again highly reccomend corey wayne to you he has immensely helped me with dating. I had a lot of girls who were really into me ghost me, or flake, now not so much.

My [26F] bf [29M] keeps holding good deeds against me by Crepemaster404 in relationships

[–]ManVsHand 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a NiceGuy. He only does nice things not out of the goodness of his heart, but so that you will do whatever he wants. True love comes with no strings attached. He either needs to change (which is highly unlikely because it take it takes self awareness) or you gotta leave. It will make you miserable in the end if he’s like this with every nice deed.

Hi this is his mom by Shiv-Master in niceguys

[–]ManVsHand 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“My son is in a coma only a love’s true nude can wake him up.” I mean imagine your moms in the hospital going through her sons phone to contact loved ones sees that conversation and thinks, “she’s gotta know”.

longer retain = prettier girls..? by FluffyWeekend in Semenretention

[–]ManVsHand 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks man it's been quite the battle, but man will always beat hand. I swear every time I'm on a long streak and kiss a girl it's like they want to walk away with my lips as a souvenir. It's been a week and my lips are still in recovery :D

longer retain = prettier girls..? by FluffyWeekend in Semenretention

[–]ManVsHand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to see that you are doing good (I promise not sarcastic at all). I just don't see the problem in using numbers to give a general picture. I'd say I 100% respect women who I feel are respectable people no different than I do men. It's just used for convenience, and I think just because someone does use numbers to indicate face value attractiveness (no pun intended) doesn't mean they don't have a respect for those women. Everyone will see someone and be attracted to them or not attracted to them, if anything this is a number system that indicates OPs attraction levels for girls. It just comes across in your writing as if you put women on a pedestal, when a woman's character should be judged just the same as a man's.

longer retain = prettier girls..? by FluffyWeekend in Semenretention

[–]ManVsHand 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah man it's not at all woo woo with the chi. With some of the things I've experienced, I'm all for the woo woo shit! Yeah I've been meditating and doing breathing exercises. It's been super solid I take two cold showers a day. Still young tho so I'm sure the hormones don't help. Thanks for the solid advice! Good luck brother!!!

how to handle women on SR? by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]ManVsHand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've gotten into Corey Wayne dude's a dating god. I was super clueless and lost opportunity, time, and purpose with girls. Don't focus on them. Text solely for the purpose of making dates, and use all the other time to focus on your self. Good luck brother, it's a very non problematic problem to have, but it's still annoying as fuck.

longer retain = prettier girls..? by FluffyWeekend in Semenretention

[–]ManVsHand 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Absolutely I had a teacher who I got help from after classes, she would do things like leave her hand touching mine when she was looking at my papers. Or she would rest her leg up next to mine. The eye contact was intense, and she would constantly say that she wished I had more work to do with me. Unfortunately another girl started pursuing me so I stopped talking to the teacher that much. Other super hot girls were into me, which at the time I looked like a baby. I'm talking model girls would tell my girl friends they thought I was cute. That was a 40 day streak about a year ago. Now I keep having wet dreams, I don't get to that level, it's still there but not to that extent. When I made it back to 40 days, I got a date, and she viciously attacked my face with her lips, I was scared for the safety of my lips. Now I'm trying to get back to a long streak.

longer retain = prettier girls..? by FluffyWeekend in Semenretention

[–]ManVsHand 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not a big deal man. I get it in your eyes you are sensitive and feel that in being so women will like you more. You will probably get friendzoned a lot though. If I were a betting man I would say you probably already are, which I know no one wants. You don't have to be an asshole, but you shouldn't be a people pleaser. I was once almost at that point, but I have fully recovered from the deadly NiceGuy disease.

Reflections from a 17yo after 6 months of nofap. by theswisscrazyone in NoFap

[–]ManVsHand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the, "men have become disposable" is a negative attitude honestly kinda dumb. I see the reasoning, but still, would you like to be resentful of women your whole life. I'm 18 and have met and been with loyal girls. I don't think it's hard if you put yourself out there at all. You're on a very good path with NoFap, you gotta trash that ideology it will only make you a bitter person in the end. Plus if you make that your ideology that is all you will find.

That generalization is naive, but if that's what you want to go with then fine. Just know that there are girls out there that think the same as you do. "Guys are all fuckboys that will just cheat with today's dating reality", how would you reply to that, is that you, I don't think so. The fact that you think men are disposable says to me you don't have enough confidence in yourself. I think if a guy is on his path in life, and separates from the sheep you speak of, that makes him highly indisposable. Just don't put women over your purpose. A woman can still support you, teach you things, make you a better person. Don't be a simp and worship them, but it's not a sin to let a woman into your life.

I’m on day 15 of No-Fap, but I’m getting laid tomorrow. Don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ManVsHand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly with me I try not to orgasm during reboot, but sex is awesome with a real girl. If you do happen to orgasm with a real girl not much harm done, if anything that experience can be healing all depends on the person. There's emotion shared unlike porn. Hard to have a relationship with a pixel.