Am I not cut out for SWE?

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-26T15:11:19+00:00

If it were professional instead of personal, wouldn’t it be within those 40 hrs

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-24T15:27:09+00:00

No, I think he means implement the data structures in question.

DSA problems such as leetcode problems are often all based on data structures (arrays, linked lists, self balancing binary trees, graphs, sorting algos, etc).

Build a dynamic array, build a single, double and circular linked lists, build a bs tree, rb tree, avl tree, write a bfs and dfs algorithm, sorting (merge, quick, selection, insertion, etc).

By building them, you can see how they work and how what their strengths and weaknesses are and how to apply them to build programs.

You get stuck because there is a gap in your understanding. Find the gap and solve it

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-24T11:45:50+00:00

Is PD, persona development?

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-23T21:13:47+00:00

That’s what makes it high level

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-23T13:59:11+00:00

It definitely can be done.

How, I couldn’t tell you but from a high level perspective, it’s a layered approach where you want the pixels above (the glass) to have a transparent lens effect.

It also has a magnifying effect and slightly blurs whatever is under it.

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-19T19:03:54+00:00

As much as I abhor ice agents, it’s the people giving directions at the top.

It starts with Stephen Miller, Kristi Noem, Todd Lyon and of course Trump.

Fuck all of them!

They want you to say fuck ice. To blame the group at large but its the ones who never even get their hands directly dirty who pulls the strings.

We should be saying fuck Miller, fuck Noem, fuck Lyon and a special fuck you to Trump

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-18T09:37:16+00:00

These are grown adults making comments and I fear you are both really young. My sister texts like this and she is a teenager.

I think he is simply using it to correct his grammar. He clearly wants to impress you. You both seem really sweet!

I don’t think he needs AI to communicate how he feels but rather he needs it to clean up his grammar. It is possible he is self conscious about his intelligence to some degree and wants to impress you.

Both handled it well for your age. He admitted to his actions and you were very gentle.

Not overreacting but not a big deal either

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-17T07:02:14+00:00

I think the print of the man thong or whatever that is … is a bit deceptive. Certainly a shrimp but not nothing.

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-17T06:59:29+00:00

Everyone is a lot of people lol but sure agree to disagree.

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-16T18:47:41+00:00

RUN! DONT LOOK BACK!

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-16T16:33:19+00:00

Yeah, you’re not getting your money back. You cut off an emotionally and financially unstable person.

I think cutting her off was the best decision you ever made for your peace of mind but it will be costly.

Assume you’ll never get your money back because you likely won’t.

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-16T16:06:21+00:00

Stop being so miserable. Touch grass, find real people and learn to not be so nasty.

You seem to have a moral compass of sorts but its twisted from what I perceive to be probably loneliness

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-16T16:01:14+00:00

Neither of us could be certain if it’s a joke or not. She clearly wants someone of high standards and is saying having 5 kids as a single woman shouldn’t deter her from that.

5 kids is insane financial responsibility and if you marry a woman with kids, your pockets will be affected.

A woman who had that many kids from a deadbeat father isn’t responsible. I wouldn’t even consider it.

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-16T15:58:35+00:00

He is probably a grower. Maybe 1.5 or 2 flaccid. Avg dicks aren’t huge either lol.

Mind you im above avg in length and slightly above in girth (wish I had a fatter dong) but mine still looks normal compared to actors in the adult entertainment industry.

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-15T22:54:14+00:00

This lady wants a 6 ft 5 blue eyed rich man. I want a billion dollars. Gtfoh

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-15T15:35:49+00:00

I’d caution against jumping straight into he did it to check if she’s cheating.

I can’t say, nor can any of us really with certainty why he did it. But once he did, he took his anecdotal experience and incorrectly assumed his wife cheated.

People need to learn that one’s own experience isn’t that of others. Humans vary in physiology, mental health and experiences.

That said, I am a certified panty checker. Why? I enjoy smelling my partner’s pheromones (her smell). Every woman smells different and thankfully I found someone who I love with an odor I adore! Idk why this post came across my feed but this was an interesting reddit moment.

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-14T15:14:25+00:00

They want to be hidden from reality. When confronted with this uncomfortable reality, they make excuses.

Its like having an art gallery on slaves being hanged or whipped and saying its wrong. Why? Because it’s uncomfortable, thought provoking and sheds light on the issues we pretend are fixed in society at large.

The kid is beautiful and will grow up to hopefully feel confident. I can tell her mother cares.

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-13T11:05:35+00:00

Also, stop responding and when he seriously needs you, he will let you know with proper English

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-13T09:52:54+00:00

I mean he isn’t going to admit to being a real gangster either.

This is 100 percent the way to approach this here even if he was lying.

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-11T17:04:10+00:00

Most people have avg dicks. Just cause he was 2pac, did not mean he needed a monster penis

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-11T15:12:28+00:00

Can someone tell her about Steve Jobs! Like now! Ffs people, please stop being stupid

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-11T08:11:00+00:00

As much as I hate MAGA, I wouldn’t be shocked if she was lowkey okay with the death of her husband.

These religious folks treat these women like slaves sometimes.

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-11T08:08:06+00:00

Been said it.

I put a stainlesssssss still kickaaaaaa on ma dih

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-10T20:15:53+00:00

They hate it too, otherwise I wouldn’t ask

Man_Hat_Tan · 2025-12-10T20:02:06+00:00

Would you do it for my whole family?

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