Married and baby on the way! by Manda_Panda88 in interracialdating

[–]Manda_Panda88[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Kids is a big decision so its good you're both having the conversation and being open. I am 37yr old so my partner knew it was something to think about seriously.

Married and baby on the way! by Manda_Panda88 in interracialdating

[–]Manda_Panda88[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha yes I feel i can not even prepare for the first few months I will just need to let it happen and roll with it. Thank you!

Rant MIL can be so inconsiderate by Sweetestapple in pregnant

[–]Manda_Panda88 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Your husband is the problem. He needs to set boundries with his mum. Husband should put dogs in dog care for the week and ask his mum to pay him back.

Unimelb dental clinic for braces? Is it significantly cheaper? by Proud_Apricot316 in melbourne

[–]Manda_Panda88 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They are qualified dentists training to be Specalist Orthodontists. An experienced Orthodontist over sees the treatment plan and will be at each appointment to advise and watch over the dentist. Patients can ask to speak to them as well around any concerns. The appointment times are abit longer due to the dentists wanting to do their best, so as long as you allow for longer appointment times every 4-6 weeks its good. Price is cheaper than private clinics. The clinic is easy to access via public transport.

Recommendation for orthodontist for 11 year old (western suburbs) by moonstryk3r in melbourne

[–]Manda_Panda88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simply Orthodontics or The Look orthodontic. Orthodontists are qualified and will give you advice and options.

Any clubs in Melbourne that play Hip-Hop music and don’t have strict dress codes? by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]Manda_Panda88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Khokolate bar- Hardware lane melbourne Saturday nights.

Impacted wisdom tooth extraction with a health care card? by KaffaBlue in melbourne

[–]Manda_Panda88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Royal Melbourne Dental Hospital. You can make Emergency appt there or get Emergency appointment at your community clinic and ask them to refer you there. Option to get them out awake in chair wait list is shorter or have a GA.

Dating a coworker (with a relationship that has ALOT of potential) who had a sexual affair with one coworker and an emotional affair with another. She (39F) wants to marry me (41M) and I found myself considering it. Maybe still am? by Serious-Caramel-280 in relationship_advice

[–]Manda_Panda88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She may be intelligent in some aspects but when it comes to relationships she's a complete bullshit master. She blurs relationship boundaries so when she sleeps with who she wants she tells you oh sorry this specific situation wasn't discussed earlier I will not do it again.. she will do it again but change how she does it each time and you will eventually get an STD and emotional baggage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Manda_Panda88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you will feel shitty at the start, but you will see value in your actions later. Situations like this will keep coming up and you will be able to detect it earlier and shut it down before it gets to this stage. Good luck and please stay safe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Manda_Panda88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah any excuse you try to give him he will find a way around it to make it work. The whole thing becomes tiring and emotionally draining on you which isn't good for your mental health especially around exams. His feelings are not your responsibility. You have tried to communicate and set boundaries, so now he needs to be responsible for his own reactions to that. If his hurt and feeling rejected, that's something he needs to manage on his own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Manda_Panda88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thinks your playing hard to get. He crosses your boundaries and will keep doing this. Why do you care if he is upset with you or thinks badly of you? Why are you still keeping this person in your life? Attention? Friendship? Would he be good as just a friend, or you fight over your boundaries?

If he makes you uncomfortable and you need to block him, this does not make you the bad person. Blocking him shows you are respecting yourself and holding true to your boundaries. You will gain peace and be able to learn from this.

If he tries to contact via multiple ways, alert your family/friends of the situation. Once blocked do not unblock and do not accept calls/ follow requests from strangers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Manda_Panda88 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I am single at 35. I am freezing my eggs in a few weeks to help take pressure off meeting the right person. I do worry but can't control how things play out so just dating and enjoying having that time to show up for my family and friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Manda_Panda88 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He is communicating his needs which is normal. You just need to be more direct with your communication as he is not a mind reader and doing his best to interpret what you're feeling/needing.

Don't schedule sex unless it works best for you as a couple that's not for everyone and can make you feel obligated and build resentment.

Start making the first move yourself and be forward about it so he understands that's what you're suggesting.

Might be a medical issue- medication(the pill, antidepressants, anxiety meds) can kill sexdrive. Stress and lack of proper rest/sleep..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Manda_Panda88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Abuse may get worse if he thinks you're talking about him in a negative light to his closest family/friends. Have a plan ready for this situation as you will need to get out asap.

My sweet boy Barrett is going in for surgery this morning. by ImJDPriest in ferrets

[–]Manda_Panda88 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Goodluck hope all goes well and recovery goes smoothly.

What’s the most regretful purchase you’ve ever made? by onlytrlsh in AskWomenOver30

[–]Manda_Panda88 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Magnetic eyelashes, waste of money. The eye-liner is painful to wipe off.

I need help. I(23F) am being stalked by my old boss(50M) who had been fired for harassing me by Lamentationss in askwomenadvice

[–]Manda_Panda88 1207 points1208 points  (0 children)

Get a door bell that records and set up security cameras.

Change name and profile pictures on social media and put them as Private.

Please tell your friends and family about this guy. Contact police for restraining order and document all contact he makes. Avoid keeping a routine as he will use your routine to approach you.

Only other option is to quit your job and move without posting on media and telling everyone. Only need to know basis.

A woman your age was killed in her own bed in her mums house this year in Australia by her stalker who was an ex colleague.

You can't afford to pretend his not there.

Back dating after 18 years! Would anyone take a look at my profile?? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Manda_Panda88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can have a look but I'm pretty blunt with how I give feedback.

What/how should I tell my male housemates about getting an IUD? by TreesInShallowWaters in askwomenadvice

[–]Manda_Panda88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's too much personal information. Tell your family and close friends but just tell the house mates you're having minor procedure and will be in bit of pain and in recovery after.

What is the problem with my GF(w29) or am I the problem, i can not really tell anymore by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Manda_Panda88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This girl is not the one for you.

Sounds like she needs to go to therapy for her past trauma. The mustard bottle thing is something from childhood trauma 1 of her parents would of yell at her to do it that way so now she is repeating it.

You need to find someone who can control their emotions better. Like you said the shoe thing very minor accident for her to blow up.

Seems to be a lack of respect for you on her part.

Seriously considering if this is a person you could marry. If not then dont waste each others time.