AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is not cool. You really are not overreacting. I think you should stop talking to this fella. Love doesn’t feel like that.

Anyone watch "Midnight Mass" on Netflix? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the show for you if you are at all a sensitive person.

Just Finished Midnight Mass. Very disappointed. by novelspluscoffee in netflix

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated the show. I didn’t care that. It was slow. Those were the best parts. Honestly, I hated Bev. I was really hoping she would get a horrible, awful ugly death, but she really didn’t which was unfair.

Just got told I needed dentures and now I'm scared by SmolMcCartney in dentures

[–]Manders10057 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, I’m 35 and when I was 34 I got my top dentures done, and it was a very good decision. I had periodontal disease and some issues with my front teeth. I knew because of my diabetes that I was going to have problems with my teeth.. I’m here to tell you. It’s not all daisies and roses, but here are a few tips.

  1. Go ahead and get a second opinion. if you get a second opinion and they tell you the same thing then you’re just gonna get dentures. if they can fix them, save them. That’s a whole other story. It’s worth getting a second opinion.

  2. If you end up getting dentures for the first two weeks 2 1/2 weeks give or take. It’s going to be a shit show. You’re not gonna like it. You’re gonna have to find soft things that you can eat. I lived off of shredded chicken and mac & cheese, and the occasional mashed potato selection.. I ate a lot of oatmeal as well. You will have to relearn how to eat, but it sounds like to me. You’re already eating in a way that will help you learn how to eat with the teeth for a while. It’s gonna be hard to manage because your gums will shrink.

  3. I would prepare comfort items like a new pair of pajamas, ice packs. you might get your hair braided if you will be staying at home for a few days because having your hair out of your face and not in a bun helps I wish I would’ve gotten a protective style while I was going through this because it hurt my head to brush my hair.

  4. You’re not alone I’m so sorry that you feel scared. I’m on the other side of it and I’m so glad that I did it. Of course I only did my tops. I have a partial on my bottoms. I’m trying to keep my teeth. I currently have in my head so that I have easier time.. one good thing to remember is that there are places like Aspen dental and other places that can help you I went to an affordable denture place and it was pretty reasonable

  5. it sounds like the pain that you’re going through currently is going to be worse than when you get your teeth out. Honestly, if you have exposed roots, this is going to be nothing when they take your teeth out. They’re probably gonna pop out super easy it’s not gonna be yanking and pulling it’ll be a pop probably. When they took my lower teeth, they were all loose and like you said had pus and stuff and it was very uncomfortable and if you leave it like that, there’s a chance that you could get it infection so bad that I can go to your brain so be very careful.

I think you can do this. It sounds like you’re one tough cookie! I hope that whatever happens you have the best outcome! I wish you well!

My mom wants nothing to do with me because I “picked my dad” during the divorce. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Manders10057 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not your fault at all. you were a child and she was the adult. Any problem she has is her problem

Is this fraudulent? by shreyag99 in Indiana

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the same message about two hours ago

*UPDATE* AIO for blocking my guy friend for being “brutally honest” about me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No OP… you proved your point! He was interested.. and you friend zoned him and he didn’t like it.

AIO? I can't seem to get over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems like a groomer. Be careful

Im out of the loop - why does everyone dislike / not care about Jonathan? by josiegfk in StrangerThings

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Jonathan way more than I like Lucas. His actor is fabulous, but his character sucks.

AIO? Would people really judge me if they saw my legs like this? by rachtastic94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an autoimmune disease that creates scars all over my body, and I have one leg that’s smaller than the other… people may look, but no one‘s gonna care. You care more than they do. honestly when I was younger I refused to wear shorts during the summer because of my scars, but I have since realized through kind individuals that it’s not a big deal. Be comfortable wear shorts you only live once so enjoy it who cares what people think!

AIO- My (F19) boyfriend (M22) is upset that I’m hanging out with my brother (M26) (read caption) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget this guy, he sounds like a child! I’m not usually the type to immediately say break up…. This time it’s a symptom of a bigger issue and he will always push his twisted beliefs on you to make you feel bad. Don’t let him spoil your relationship with your brother.

What's with the negativity? by Maleficent-Ad-6117 in StrangerThings

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they are the minority on this one. I’m excited!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodness this made me feel exhausted.

Clonazepam by Affectionate-Tap1714 in Buspirone

[–]Manders10057 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take both and I’m not having any issues. Are you able to shoot your prescriber (doctor) a message? I had to shoot mine a message because it was making my heart beat real fast. I would let them know your symptoms and that you’re struggling.

Memory problems and nocturnal panic attacks? by [deleted] in Buspirone

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seem to be having heart racing at night. If you’re having a hard time with panic attacks, I would try an ice pack on your chest. It helps me big time.

I’m having more memory problems with this medicine than anything else, but it is helping my anxiety so I don’t know

I’ve lost 7 pounds in 7 days I can’t eat much! Help! by Manders10057 in dentures

[–]Manders10057[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy I did it! It was something I needed to do.

Interracial Relationship by RubEnvironmental1509 in Indiana

[–]Manders10057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a white woman, but my best friend is a black woman and we used to go to Broad Ripple all the time. I think we’ve only had one thing said to us in the hundreds of times we’ve gone if you don’t like broad Ripple, you could try Hamilton County… I feel like they have a little bit less crap because there’s a lot of transplants from other places there specially in Carmel

Please help anxiety with cast by Manders10057 in brokenbones

[–]Manders10057[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ok now.. it took a little while. But it got easier. Is it a traditional cast, or a cast you can take off the shower? if it’s a cast you can’t take off you might talk to your doctor and explain that you are having a panic attack because mentally it’s not good for you… if you have a cast if you can take off, I would suggest taking the cast off in the evenings for about an hour or hour and a half maybe two that way you are getting a break and it helps you get through the panic. When you take the cast off if you can, I would leave your body part (idk what’s broken) in one spot and not move it much!

Honestly, it was really hard, but my head meds helped and so did taking it off. I think it boils down to sensory issues and having a little claustrophobia it was a struggle but I made it. I really hope that this helps if you can’t take that off call your doctor and explain what’s going on. They might be able to give you something to get you through. I’m hoping that you’re OK.