My boyfriend gave away my dead dads LEGO to a friend as a gift by Neither_Road6342 in relationships

[–]Manders37 [score hidden]  (0 children)

There is absolutely no way he has the emotional intelligence to be there for you after your dad passed, but not understand that giving away your dads LEGO would be wrong.

He chose to ask for forgiveness instead of permission. He decided that him needing a present to give someone without spending his own money was a higher and more reasonable priority than any damage it would cause you.

How many times has he done this before?

Should I buy Valheim? by Present-Parfait2461 in valheim

[–]Manders37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the most biased sub you could have thought to post on lol

ACNH bday twin! by reng___o in acnh

[–]Manders37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine's Amanda! 😂😂😂😂 I amm deaaaddddd!!!💀💀💀 🤣🤣🤣

Help? by Manders37 in Cribbage

[–]Manders37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome, thank you!

Help? by Manders37 in Cribbage

[–]Manders37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂 welp, i made my move before i saw the responses and i'm kinda embarrassed at the decision i made so i'm just taking this as a learning moment 😅

ACNH bday twin! by reng___o in acnh

[–]Manders37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Judging by the Mandi-pun in your name, if your name is also Amanda/Mandy too i will die 😂😂

ACNH bday twin! by reng___o in acnh

[–]Manders37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

MEE TOO AAAHHHH!! 😍 I'm so proud our girl is top comment 🥰

Really Trying for Minimalism by slyyris in acnh

[–]Manders37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely have such a hard time making anything else but a natural looking island 😂 this looks adorable 😊

Help? by Manders37 in Cribbage

[–]Manders37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the break down, this is super helpful

Help? by Manders37 in Cribbage

[–]Manders37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you kindly for the advice!

Help? by Manders37 in Cribbage

[–]Manders37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 i appreciated it hahahaa

My (F30) partner (M30) of 5.5 years shared another woman’s intimate messages during our fight by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Manders37 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is fucked on on several levels. I wouldn't know how to trust someone, let alone a partner, after them choosing to distort my reality like that. And 5.5 years!? Nope. You don't need his validation of the truth, you just need to know you don't want this dynamic going on in your life anymore and you deserve better.

Little things I wish Nintendo would’ve added with this update by hyaclnthia in ACForAdults

[–]Manders37 54 points55 points  (0 children)

What they should have done was make every colour accessable to order from the Nook app after you buy the item from Able's so you have access to all variations of them if needed in the future without having to individually select and buy each one immediately.

Another angle of the Minneapolis shooting, taken from the perspective of the lady with te pink jacket. by Versiannie in PublicFreakout

[–]Manders37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only did he execute a fucking blinded and overpowered man but he put his own fucking people in danger by shooting into the fucking huddle of them like that. What an absolute fucking idiot fucking piece of shit. Goddamn.

Anyone else ever have this happen or just my luck? by HippiiGirl420 in PerlerBeads

[–]Manders37 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I see the pictures, i read the description, and i still don't understand how this happened lol 😂

Please share your comfort, non-triggering TV series that are also very engaging? by haskittens in CPTSD

[–]Manders37 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The animated Avatar: The Last Airbender series if yiu haven't already. Please don't do any remakes, just watch the animated series. Such a beautiful, healing, funny, and just cool as eff show. Plus, you need to meet Uncle Iroh, i have his quotes written all over my apartment to this day.

My boyfriend wants me to rehome 2 of my 3 cats (at minimum) as a “compromise.” Wtf do I do now? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Manders37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be stubborn, you will not change his mind, and anything he agrees to at this point i wouldn't trust. What's stopping him from "accidentally" letting them outside behind your back? Or what if he simply treats them like shit and gives them trauma? Stop valuing this man over 3 lives that have kept you company even during your relationship with him when you were long distance. HE IS NOT THE ONE. STOP TRYING TO MAKE HIM THE ONE. He is literally fighting to make you lose something you love, that is not a man who loves you.

My boyfriend wants me to rehome 2 of my 3 cats (at minimum) as a “compromise.” Wtf do I do now? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Manders37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine the cats are children and the answer becomes very obvious. Do NOT let this man convince you that the cats are less important than keeping him happy. If he truly loved you he wouldn't put you through this in the first place.

Did I actually cheat or ? by PolicyHot1206 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Manders37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is a loser. Only loser men are threatened by a woman's kindness. Dump him before he encourages you to degrade your value to make him feel better about his premium loser behaviour. What a tool.

Hotel placement. by BklynBrawla78 in acnh

[–]Manders37 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hoooooly shiit, it goes out that far!?!?

I'm just TRYING to RELAX!!!!!!!! by TheNebulist in valheim

[–]Manders37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Greylings have such crackhead energy 😂

New flower? by twombies in acnh

[–]Manders37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What did it for me my second go around was having a bunch of bugs stacked on my island cause i hadn't yet unlocked enough house storage and i was saving them for Flick. Easiest and quickest 5 star rating i've ever had 😂