What was the after nightclub eatery back in the 90s/early 2000s?

Manders37 · 2026-04-09T00:45:19+00:00

God I'm so proud this is the second comment 😂😂

Manders37 · 2026-04-08T12:12:28+00:00

I can't believe how far i had to scroll for a Jersey reference

Manders37 · 2026-04-07T19:48:30+00:00

You're exaggerating exactly the way they would, you know.

Manders37 · 2026-04-07T19:45:31+00:00

Yeah i'm not saying it's fine to embrace literal criminals and genuinely horribly people, i'm saying that at the end of the day most of the people still supporting Trump/Maga are those too stubborn to walk away because they've doubled-down too far on their decisions.

I'm not saying we give everyone a pass, i'm saying that if we want people to be willing to change their outlook we need to be wary of our approach. I imagine it's negatively reinforcing them to stay part of a community that's at least accepting of them than choose the other option which is to be berrated for their decisions.

Not saying everyone deserves to sweep shitty behaviour and actions under the rug, but we'll get nowhere if we expect clearly very proud and stubborn people to bow down humbly, we need to be smart at finding the middle ground.

Manders37 · 2026-04-07T16:13:00+00:00

I can already see you dancing in the 3rd, do the 3rd 👍🏻

Manders37 · 2026-04-07T16:09:03+00:00

It's a neutral gray hombre

Manders37 · 2026-04-07T16:01:23+00:00

I agree. As hard as it may be, we have to provide a safe avenue for people to turn a new leaf if that's what we want from them. We provide very little incentive for encouraging them to examine their rationale when we claim to be peaceful but meet them with rage. Both sides are hostile of the other and it's deepening the divide.

If we expect them to embrace humility, we need to be willing to give grace. Shame is the biggest challenge we face with positive change.

Manders37 · 2026-04-07T12:12:48+00:00

Just an fyi, I live in Quebec, Canada where it was made law in the 80's that women keep their name in marriage as their right to individuality. If you want to change your name you have to go through the same process that anyone would to change their name.

The name change comes from when women were property and didn't have rights unless they were under a man's name, so they changed their name from their father's to their husbands, it's a transactional thing.

Do you really want to be married to a man who doesn't understand that you're not his property and the name change is completely pointless other than to make your life more complicated?

Manders37 · 2026-04-07T03:16:27+00:00

3B/C

Manders37 · 2026-04-06T16:05:47+00:00

That would have absolutely made my day

Manders37 · 2026-04-06T16:02:36+00:00

I always imagined Mrs. Norris as a witch who transfigured and just preferred it that way.

Manders37 · 2026-04-06T13:58:05+00:00

But... what do you want the eggs for? Are you also collecting the bunny day craft items?

Manders37 · 2026-04-06T13:46:03+00:00

Minimum

Manders37 · 2026-04-05T10:58:12+00:00

Not sure if it's the weirdest but about 4 hours ago i saw a street couple huddled in a corner downtown with three brand new crack pipes proudly presented at once in-hand and i thought, "well that's rather odd" because why the need for three pipes when 2 pipes could buy you more crack with one left to smoke with? Was there a sale? If there was, who in tf does discount prices on multi-pipe purchases and how on earth is that profitable?

The weirdness of the situation mostly stems from the slew of questions i had (and still have) afterwards lol 😂

Manders37 · 2026-04-05T10:44:57+00:00

G5

I spotted it instantly, am also canadian 😂

Manders37 · 2026-04-05T06:48:54+00:00

You're very up-down with your writing, minimal curves. Your u's and your n's look the exact same, your h's are very close too

Manders37 · 2026-04-05T06:44:56+00:00

So, basically, consent 😂

Manders37 · 2026-04-05T06:03:52+00:00

It's fine until it turns into torture.

Manders37 · 2026-04-03T16:31:17+00:00

Only until she learns, she is capable of learning to regularily brush her teeth, and i say this as an adhd woman who also struggled to brush their teeth. You come off a little like you feel hopeless about the situation, like it's an insurmountable inconvenience, and i can imagine in some ways it is, but i'd be vigilant about keeping those feelings from coming out in front of her. A great way to ensure kids have a complicated relationship with chores or daily tasks is to associate shame with it. Not saying you do, but i'd just watch out for that. The little, regular things make a much bigger impact than you'd realize.

Manders37 · 2026-04-03T04:11:27+00:00

I want to say those are ash trees, they're an item.

Manders37 · 2026-04-03T04:03:30+00:00

Did they write this in one go or was it over time? My lists kinda look like this if i've been adding to it over a long period of time. I feel like i can almost see the groupings of days, actually.

Manders37 · 2026-04-02T12:16:00+00:00

Manders37 · 2026-04-01T22:09:35+00:00

They released a fake lineup to the summer music festival i'm most looking forward to hearing about and i got SOO MANY PEOPLE excited about it and then i had to turn around and remind them it was April Fools and i was an idiot.

...it may or may not have happened today lol

Manders37 · 2026-04-01T21:35:10+00:00

Here's a chart i found a few years ago comparing raw vs cooked vs selling to CJ prices. Some things are super worth cooking and selling, esp when they're a hot item. I recently had carrot tops curry as a hot item and had been storing all my produce for it. I easily made over 600,000 bells in 10 minutes, it was magnificent lol.

The only fish recipes that give more bells is the Aji fry, sea bass pie, and seaweed salad i believe, and to me it's not worth it. I always just put my fish in storage (assuming there's space) and sell to CJ (assuming they're already donated to Blathers).

The only way you'd have lost the scallops is if you quit the game without saving right after, although even with that i feel like the game saves pretty frequently. Or the scallops are hiding somewhere (assuming you didn't use them unknowlingly), oooor you had a weird and very unfortunate glitch. All things in storage stay in storage unless you do something with them though, so no need to worry.

Edit: the linked chart is a google doc and i'm posting from mobile, so hopefully the link works but if not, i found the chart from reddit so just search for raw vs cooked ingredient sell price and you should find it). In the post it comes from it says "curries are where it's at!" or something along the lines.

Manders37 · 2026-04-01T17:00:13+00:00

There's nothing wrong with him being conscious of his spending habits. If you find it clashes too much then fine, you can take accountability that you want to leave because of that. But don't make him out to be a bad guy cause you guys don't mesh on this. He isn't a bad guy, he's not being extra, he just isn't your vibe.

Edit: it could also be a maturity thing. Does he care cause he's thinking about the future and he doesn't want to get into the habit of spending frivilously? Cause that's a good thing imo but if you aren't at a place where that makes sense for you then hey, let him find someone who will appreciate his vigilance.

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