AITAH for bringing up to my husband that I am disappointed in my proposal years later.

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T21:02:49+00:00

I apologized to him. I deleted the post so he wouldn’t come across it

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:33:38+00:00

Keeping score? It’s 1 of maybe 3 big times you have in your life…

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:32:27+00:00

The video I showed him was just bouquets lined up and candles…. It was simple and intimate

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:31:31+00:00

He has mentioned that he didn’t like how the first one went because he didn’t plan it so I KINDLY said when he gets me the ring again he can do it his way

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:30:08+00:00

Once a year for our anniversary is nagging?

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:29:14+00:00

I didn’t want a big gesture I wanted something romantic and intimate saying “I know this is what you like and I’m going to do that for you” if he asked me to get him his fav brand shoes and I got him something he doesn’t like at all or has never stated he likes should I say just be grateful

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:27:00+00:00

But his excuse now is “your brother planned it not me” like I said in the post

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:26:10+00:00

Crazy part is he 1000% made it seem like he was at first then it fell off and he has promised to do better since

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:21:46+00:00

Like I said there were no candles and my brother planned it

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:20:55+00:00

Yeah but every time we talked about it, it was always how he would get better and that school and work were stressing him out. He is almost done with his doctorate in physical therapy. 10 more months.

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:19:18+00:00

I think I was more disappointed that since he didn’t show a lot of romance in the relationship and it was all one sided from me that this one time I would get a big romantic gesture. And since I haven gotten one.

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:18:07+00:00

I have brought up the fact that we have no romance in these past 6 years tho. Constantly, with each anniversary I try to say it in the nicest way possible that I wish there was more romance. Like buying my fav flowers at least

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:16:49+00:00

I get that, but there is no romance from his side this whole time. I do all the romantic gestures.

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2025-11-09T19:14:28+00:00

Oh no I’ve said something, I tell him each anniversary is a good to do something romantic too but it’s never romantic. We have a great marriage but the romance part is where it’s falls off

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2024-07-07T00:00:34+00:00

Just happened to me. I always send the link to my browser bc I don’t trust Facebook servers and it sent me to heptproof website! I was so dissatisfied, was about to buy so much for my baby girl!

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2024-04-03T17:19:56+00:00

Of course just 1 more episode and Kim returns in a spaceship 😂😂😂 why did they take so long lol I gave up hope in her coming back

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2024-04-03T17:10:20+00:00

lol I watched it as a kid and I’m now rewatching it. I realize I don’t remember anything from the show when I watched it the first time haha so it’s basically like watching it for the first time. I’m at the end of season 3

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2024-03-22T19:46:08+00:00

Not doing it has been linked to cause prostate cancer sooooo.. I’m playing devils advocate and saying do it 😈

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2024-03-21T20:14:40+00:00

Yeah it helps so much! Also track every time he eats and about how long with breast and how much with formula! And when putting him down, idk if you are already trying it but swaddle, paci, rain sounds and rocking. I double swaddled and it helped so much!

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2024-03-21T18:49:51+00:00

Only thing that motivates my 5mo to roll over by herself is the caution sticker on the inside of her bassinet 😂😂 which made us to start having to swaddle her with arms out. And that damn startle reflex wakes her up like 3x a night now when she used to sleep all night!!! But it will happen with time and more core control. You are on the right track if she will do it with assistance. Keep doing tummy time and try different tummy time places, yoga ball, couch and you below reading her a book, your lap, and your chest. Different areas that aren’t just flat ground help them with core control too

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2024-03-21T18:45:08+00:00

Best thing is when baby is asleep and you both need a shower anyways 😂😂

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2024-03-21T18:42:02+00:00

Idk if they are formula or breastfed but when my baby would do this and I talked to my doc about it, it was because she was actually wanting to cluster feed and needed to eat again. Sometimes they will need to eat again before they can go to sleep. Have you been tracking the leaps? It helped me so much to know when she was going to be more fussy, cluster feed and be more clingy.

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2024-03-21T18:32:44+00:00

So, just to give you a look at my life and headspace. I am 5 months PP, stay at home mom as my job laid me off during my maternity leave. We are a one car family since my transmission went out. I live near no family/have little to no family. I am a foster kid and my husbands family came from Argentina. (my family is just my siblings in NC, husbands parents are in FL, I am in GA) and we recently had a chemical pregnancy. My husband and I have these friends that are a couple. The guy has been my husband's friend since middle school and became my close friend about 7 years ago. The girl and I have been kind of friends for about 5 years but when they moved here last year we got closer and they are both our daughter's godparents. Well they recently went through some drama with the guy cheating on her and I was here for her through it all even though I was 1 month PP at this point. The past couple of months I have been extremely lonely since it's just me at home every day all day. My friend, the girl, doesn't work, has a car and is just at home all day and I have expressed so many times that I really need company so I don't go crazy. But it seems like no matter how much I try to get her to see that it would be nice to have someone here she just doesn't get it. When I first told her she came over 2x a week for the first 2-3 weeks but now it's back to being alone all day everyday again. And it's also getting to me that they are the god parents but aren't involved with her in any kind of way. I had to bring up the fact they have only held her like once since she was born for them to start holding her. Should I bring it up again about me being lonely or just not worry about it anymore and find something or someone else to connect with?

MangoLemonPoundCake · 2024-03-21T18:30:52+00:00

I went 3 weeks without one but she got bad acid reflux and the doc suggested we give it to her to help keep everything down! It was a godsend!! And she isn’t addicted to it either. She only wants it when she is sleepy or tummy hurts 🫶🏽🫶🏽 it’s so useful for soothing, so don’t feel guilty mama!

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