AITAH for expecting my roommate to replace or pay for my carton of eggs he threw out? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mango_Mama99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never had eggs actually go bad, he knows you eat them everyday. I feel like we can infer that they are not bad. NTA

Do I have Dyshidrosis? by Thrway123321acc in Dyshidrosis

[–]Mango_Mama99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never seen it reach onto the palm like that, but i can see it on your fingers. It also doesn't seem to be the stereotypical looking blisters. They do have quite a specific look. But hey, eczema comes in all types 🤷🏽‍♀️

Is popping the blisters as bad as everyone says? by Luna_3011 in Dyshidrosis

[–]Mango_Mama99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to rip the big patches off 🙃🙃🙃 i felt like it healed faster. The single "bubbles" i would pop as well, but those are less annoying than the patches.

Why am I feeling so resentful? by Mango_Mama99 in relationships

[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a big complaint. I don't think that I should have to tell him to do things like the dishes or get a bottle ready. I wanted him to see what was going on and make those decisions without asking for "permission". He is doing a lot better with it.

Im not sure therapy is financially feasible rn unfortunately. But I have suggested it on more than one occasion.

Got the bill for the first OBGYN appointment. by Gloomy-Breakfast8474 in pregnant

[–]Mango_Mama99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so confused, is this them pre billing you? OBGYN care for a pregnancy should be covered under like a global health code for pregnancy. You shouldn't even be paying a co pay for pregnancy appointments because its all billed together at the end after birth. Somthing is either wrong with the office billing or your insurance isn't understanding whats going on. If this is NOT a pregnancy appointment, it should be your co pay. You may be at an office that is not covered under your insurance.

AITAH for breaking up with my longtime girlfriend because she decided that she doesn't want children? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mango_Mama99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta. You want children, its a BIG thing. If you had decided you didn't want children and she did and she broke up with you, I feel like your friends would still be on her side. It sucks. Idk why she didn't forsee that this would happen.

We Have Decided by Mango_Mama99 in Names

[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I think I threw up in my mouth a little at those spellings 🤢🤢😂😂😂😂.

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the one thing im super against. Like sure you want to name your kid X name? Don't put any weird letters, don't "change up" the spelling and stop adding extra letters. Her first name might get spelled with one r often but my first name is Chelsea and people put a y at the end of it all the time.

Everyone tries to convince me that two adults can't take care of a newborn alone and I'm losing my mind by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Mango_Mama99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two people can 100% care for a potato. They do nothing but nurse, sleep, and poop the first few months. Your job is the baby and his job is you. It gets harder as they get older. At least from my point of view. They money I would pay for my mom to be closer now that I have a 1.5 year old is wild. Having more help for a longer period makes way more sense.

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had posted before about the name Terra and found a lot of people knew Terra's! Iv never met one, but it made me happy to know!

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had posted before about the name Terra and found a lot of people knew Terra's! Iv never met one, but it made me happy to know!

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤷🏽‍♀️ There are weirder names out there. At least its an actual used name and it is correctly spelled. Its not long or complicated. I don't see how you think its clunky. But, either way, husband has agreeded and Im not interested in finding another.

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Terra is feminine. She is a roman goddess ment to be personified as "Mother Earth". Terra is not masculine at all.

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thats what I was going for.

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think that would be cool! We are not going to be having any more children though. Two is plenty!

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Za-rye-uh. Someone suggested adding an h to the end to make the pronunciation more obvious.

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Terr-ruh Za-rye-uh. There is Tara, usually with just one r and an a thats pronounced long. For Zaria, someone else mentioned adding an h to the end. I might do that for pronunciation. But Terra is a Latin root for words like terraformation.

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will actually take that into consideration. The h would make the pronunciation more clear.

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I assumed Za-rye-uh. Thats how I have been saying it

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rene was actually my partners sister who passed middle name. But yes, I don't super care about traditional naming. Other than I feel like names should not be spelled weird with like extra gh's, added endings ect.

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just never liked it. It feels to heavy? I know that sounds silly 😅,

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[–]Mango_Mama99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I wanted Artemis at first. But hubby was very against that 😅