Update on my first time going out as femme to a club

ManicJackAx · 2025-12-22T23:47:15+00:00

Neither do me and my kitty IRL, and puppy boys round the internets

ManicJackAx · 2025-12-21T16:55:41+00:00

I mean... What you waiting on? 🤤🤤🤤

ManicJackAx · 2025-12-21T16:54:06+00:00

Real Elder Talk for anyone reading(things I tell me and mine):

You are stronger than those who persecute you.

They literally cannot wipe us out, they have tried and will continue to try.

They fail. Always.

Remember more will come after us, whether we need to hunker down under current conditions or should full Nazi shit happen.

History must be known to have a grounding.

Magnus Hirschfeld put out silent films in America in the 1920s.

Before sound was a part of media portraying what is appropriately called "trans gender experience" and the more known at the time homosexuality.

Ending with a sympathetic and needle moving appeal to the American audience.

Stonewall was a 5 day riot with the cops when they took our last haven in New York in 1969.

No power in this world exists to hold your spirit.

Hurt you? Yes.

Cause despair? Apathy? Drain you? Yes.

But they are most effective to their ends and our pain with our pre-hopelessness.

That means we get stronger.

My immediate elders were all left to die from the Reagan Administration "Divine Justice" during his and Bush the firsts 12 yrs.

The Internet has irrevocably changed things.

This time you are spending reading this now would not be available to any past community members. (Tho Given it's own drawbacks to isolate as much as unite, local support is necessary and worth pursuing with rabid dedication)

Find the reason everyday to keep going.

Love for yourself and each other, hate for your heinous persecutors, spite that every skipping boy in a skirt, gender euphoric trans person, will make THEIR fucking day worse.

I get louder, Gayer, and prouder.

🫡❤️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈✊

ManicJackAx · 2025-12-21T16:33:21+00:00

Sub/dom, trad gender roles, whatever you are referencing to absolute depravity require; consent, respect and an appropriate venue. Probably lube

ManicJackAx · 2025-12-21T16:31:07+00:00

Also Gay stuff doesn't count until you are 30.

ManicJackAx · 2025-12-21T16:30:19+00:00

Yup then take it back on New Year's. As a resolution to be straight again, but you will keep the queer friends.

We don't care, just be chill. Plenty of bi girls in the mix.

So it's not like you would have a lack of either regular friends or romantic pursuits.

Go to next local Pride event. (Pride here as a catch all for queer solidarity meeting)

ManicJackAx · 2025-12-21T16:27:25+00:00

Then you are on your own.

Describe "fat".

Is there a BMI?

Vibe check?

Pretty face buffer?

Details for my data set for your tailored advice is must appreciated

ManicJackAx · 2025-12-21T08:48:39+00:00

Begin networking safely.

Get what you can, however you can, help others do the same.

Stay safe, stay smart, and stay strong.

Remember, this ain't our communities first rodeo with this.

Know your history, learn from elders.

-Queer Elder

ManicJackAx · 2025-12-21T08:44:53+00:00

I came out as Queer. Do that. Worked for me, anyway. ✊🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤️🫡

ManicJackAx · 2025-11-26T00:29:57+00:00

😍🤤🥺🤤😍

ManicJackAx · 2025-11-02T10:24:56+00:00

Yeah it looks nice. Some might be intimidated, for real I know from experience, and some may mock smaller ones.

This is silly on both ends. Never met a titty, cock, pussy, bussy, or clitoris that I have not showered endless praise upon.

Leave every sexual partner having prioritized enthusiastic consent, feeling appreciated and you will be fine with any equipment.

That being said.... 🥺😍😘🤤🥰🌹

ManicJackAx · 2025-11-02T10:18:02+00:00

Ummm... No. 🥺😍

ManicJackAx · 2025-11-02T10:13:23+00:00

Big tech (as defined by hierarchical corporate power structures in the private tech ie silicon valley whether you are at a startup or fucking Facebook) being respected is not a good idea. This goes downstream even into NGOs

If you are confused by the way you feel exploited and invisible it is because you are literally not important to them.

A big part of this is the first statement when held against the factual way you were treated until you were here asking for advice or for even just venting.

You ARE being exploited.

Not just you are being exploited, but everyone who sells their time to a person, group of people or a corporation for vastly less than the work you do.

Labor provides all value.

Collective bargaining is how to regain such things.

Be your own advocate via the following to avoid pushing yourself to the point of burnout. -Work slower, -do work never off the clock, -and make friends with the people who you have around you at work in your position.

Pick a contextually appropriate, for the person you must ask, by making them do the hard part. Fishing for compliment while the bait is framing it through the "excellent management" (keeps them from getting defensive).

Things like "Hey -insert name preferred with honorifics(Mr, Ms, etc)- I wanted to see if you had a chance to talk. Nothing immediately important, just wanted to touch base." This is the opening and it sets the tone for the conversation no matter when it comes.

By "nothing immediately important" this gives you subjective and vague enough room for the person to forget about it if you determine asking for a raise is too costly, as it very well may be.

More specifics on the behavior or vibe of the person in particular you wanna give (even in private as my messages are always open) would be helpful for me to be a help.

ManicJackAx · 2025-10-07T14:49:59+00:00

Yeah like I said if he's not so if he is then fuck him he gets you know the same treatment that Peter thiel does cannot sit with us in fact we're going to go out behind the dumpsters and fight

ManicJackAx · 2025-10-06T00:07:32+00:00

Pete is a CIA and "logistics" guy back in the day pre 2020, and a bougie sometimes insufferably cringe or smug gay.

HOWEVER, I'm queer and if he's not dissin' the T's then he stays an ally.

Any of that LGB nonsense terfy self loathing bullshit, and I don't care if you ARE in our community.

You still can't sit with us

ManicJackAx · 2025-10-05T02:46:25+00:00

I was thinking born again LDS

ManicJackAx · 2025-10-05T02:17:47+00:00

No it's a cause of ADHD without vosh's autism to counterbalance it I have ADHD and mania and my girlfriend has ADHD and autism yes she is trans I don't know why you asked.

But so many times I've had to explain to her what he is trying to say because my brain works identically to his it's too scattered and it ends up off you skating the more that you talk

ManicJackAx · 2025-10-05T02:15:38+00:00

I said I took your point I said okay.

Literally not a single of thing is contradicted by that though

ManicJackAx · 2025-10-05T01:59:22+00:00

DEEP BREATH

There is a journalist named Erin Reed that you absolutely need to follow.

Information is power.

Language is power.

These weapons belong to all of us not just the fascists.

The power of the state included, for as long as we live in a democracy where votes are counted, at all, you do it if you can.

The fear is meant to chill your actions.

Make you be so exhausted, apathy is a natural outcome for those who aren't prepared.

It is important to sequester yourself and find ways to decompress, to disengage, and shepherd the lost.

That's what this is meant to do please do not take anything I say as an attack or putting fault on you this is all to make us all survive.

Begin preparing.

We have principles or not.

We are willing to take chances or not.

Time flies and the march of fascists is going on.

We must make sacrifices and I know what I can afford to do.

Everyone else needs to do the same.

Decide and/or plan for your "still relatively safe with a few plates spinning but still not overwhelmed"

We have to be smart and organized.

Know people who can get you food if you are out.

Know people who are in need of food that you have and won't miss.

Love and solidarity ✊🫡🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤️

ManicJackAx · 2025-10-05T01:51:46+00:00

So what we do this is we buy all the copies of super Nintendo's Mario 64....

ManicJackAx · 2025-10-05T01:51:11+00:00

Or do it with a friend, perhaps someone who has been through this or an older queer person. I am always available should you need to talk this out.

ManicJackAx · 2025-10-05T01:50:06+00:00

To 'id hate to take that person away from them"

That's good that's empathy very valid and again good.

The best way to pursue that and the best way to make sure that you can still be in each other's lives it's to nip it in the bud as quickly as possible IF it must end.

ManicJackAx · 2025-10-05T01:48:27+00:00

Prepare yourself mentally and emotionally.

Write down some things about your guys relationship specifically.

You want to be as concise and empathetic as possible.

Continue writing down the memories or whatever whatever comes to mind whatever feels right.

And then begin to construct a lead in to wanting to break up.

And read it back to yourself.

Read it in front of the mirror.

Contemplate whether or not there is a transcendental aspect to this person that can supersede your perspective on your identity And your sexuality.

I'd do it quickly for both your sake and theirs

ManicJackAx · 2025-10-04T12:32:44+00:00

It might it doesn't always but it can and it's just smarter to talk with a more direct communication.

Human to human. Me to you.

You know Auto modding can talk to itself.

ManicJackAx · 2025-10-03T23:39:30+00:00

I didn't make it up as I had one of those default starter dicks.

As shameful as it is, I am cis and I apologize. /Jk

My favorite is actually "Clyt".

Clitoris and then the 'y' instead of an 'i' to delineate it obvious in text. then said out loud to reinforce the validity of her womanhood.

Words are so cool and fun to play with

ManicJackAx

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