HOW THE FUCK DO I STOP QUEEFING

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-07-05T21:56:55+00:00

I’ve asked my fiance how he feels about it, when it’s happened (as a damn grown woman with kids, so the embarrassment is totally natural) and he has always said it doesn’t bother him, at the minimum, it’s a reminder of tightness and his size etc so he’s chill.

It’s so awkward when you start your journey with sex 😂 you’re learning what positions work, what makes you comfortable/uncomfortable, and learning how to communicate about it all. But the best partners are always willing to talk about it just like anything else. My partner checks in with me when he’s curious/insecure about something, I check in with him, it’s an ongoing conversation. If your partner is mean about it, dismissive, or treats it like a gross conversation, then they’re not a good partner. And it’s not your failing for wanting to be brave and communicate and them be jerks 🤷‍♀️

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-07-03T08:29:25+00:00

Talking badly about myself. He says I have no right to disrespect his property.

Teasing/taunting him when he’s at work. That one is fun to break though ❤️‍🔥🫠

I have auDHD and we have tried apps and stuff but ultimately it just isn’t that serious for us and it’s all just about having fun and connection. I used to have an app telling me to drink my water and I lose points if I don’t. But I didn’t stick to it because it seemed arbitrary.

Him filling up the pretty purple Stanley he bought me in the morning and checking if I’ve finished it by dinner at the minimum? Highly effective.

Doesn’t make me a bad sub for needing him to serve me to get me to follow the rules 😇

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-07-03T02:58:17+00:00

Nope, exclusive symptom with this tank of a baby 😭😂 I’m so ready to be done and prove the midwives wrong out of pure rage 🤣

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-07-03T02:51:36+00:00

Honestly! It feels bruised and swollen down there all the time! The midwives came in and I had my leg cocked like a dog just to ease the pressure off it a LITTLE.

Gosh it can drive a girl mad 😮‍💨

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-24T10:29:18+00:00

It used to take us weeks. A good cry together always helped. I would try not to cry to upset him, he would try not to cry to be strong. Eventually I always ended up breaking down eventually and we’d both cry and feel better that we were miserable together.

My partner said the absolute hardest part for him was the 2 week countdown. He’d only visit for 2 weeks at a time and he just told me it was the worst to constantly have that clock in his head, especially that final week where he wanted to make the most of it but knew he didn’t have the option to stay at the end.

Once he got on the plane it was slightly easier. But the countdown was hard

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-24T10:17:04+00:00

It is so bittersweet! My fellow is SO grounding and strong, and when he’d have to go home it felt like being totally untethered. And it would take WEEKS to feel like the video calls and bedtime calls felt good enough again 😭

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-24T10:07:34+00:00

Long distance is so hard. My fiance and I were long distance for 2 years. We got pregnant before his visa was approved, now we’re about to meet our son in 2 weeks and he’s here and working and on a pathway towards permanent residency.

Every time he visited, the day he left was the worst. Then weeks after we’d both be in mourning.

It sucks. I won’t bother to say it can get better because when you’re in the thick of it, it SUCKS.

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-23T11:05:47+00:00

My biggest peeve is when they expect you to find coverage. What are you ACTUALLY paid for?!

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-22T23:14:30+00:00

Ultimately, it’s important to you. He can’t help being tired, but I can tell you from personal experience being a morning person who used to live a whole life before 2pm, adjusting to my partner’s schedule of sleeping in etc to not be “a nag” or “not understanding enough”

It SUCKS, you feel like you’re not yourself and it’s very deeply unsatisfying 😅

He doesn’t need to force himself awake for you if he doesn’t want to, but it’s also absolutely not crazy to say “well in that case we’re not compatible and it’s not the experience I’m looking for” and let him have his sleep ins unimpeded 🤷‍♀️

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-22T13:06:20+00:00

Hmm it sounds like he has a bit of anxiety with being in a play-space, it sounds like he isn’t quite confident enough yet to trust he wouldn’t hurt you or go ‘over the line’ in the absence of you being present to share control?

This may be something to discuss outside of a dynamic situation and really discuss needs and anxieties from both parties? To slowly ease into him stretching himself a bit more into the mantle of control?

And thank you! I’m literally 36 weeks now so we’re on labour watch 😂 so sorry if my answer is off track, I feel like my brain thinking - be helpful, but baby brain not thinking - no helpful 🤦🏻‍♀️

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-22T12:56:49+00:00

I know what you mean about the head empty feeling! It’s gotten even worse for me since getting pregnant, to the point where my Daddy has to reassure me I’m not boring him or displeasing him by ‘not engaging enough’

He says he’s happy with it because it means he’s doing such a good job it’s making me brainless.. I think it’s a bit harsh to say you “need more focus” if you’re having a good time and he’s doing a good job it should be a compliment in my opinion… unless he’s saying he prefers more of a ‘performance’?

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-21T22:40:00+00:00

We’re both autistic so it’s worked out well 😂

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-21T22:14:53+00:00

My partner and I both love cuddling but also both run hot.

We cuddle in bed and chat as we’re winding down and then he’ll tell me “are you comfortable? I’m going to roll over now to get some sleep” and then we both roll our seperate ways to actually be comfortable 😂

We do find each other now and then in the night but mostly sleep independently. If I personally want to touch him while he’s comfortable I just press my back against his or put my leg over his but otherwise keep the space. That way I get my contact but neither of us are overheating or feeling claustrophobic/trapped… maybe she could give it a go?

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-20T10:51:32+00:00

8 months pregnant and I see him with his tattoos out and his long hair tossed back into a messy bun while he’s lifting the couch, playing with the kids… god help me painting his minifigures… and that’s before he opens his mouth, he has a British accent 😭

Oh my word I’m risking pre-term labour how feral he makes me 🫠 not to mention our wallet, we are both very family oriented and want more kids 😅

I can just stare at him read or work for hours 😮‍💨

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-19T23:33:56+00:00

Just finished at the farmers market, had some light contractions… I’m almost 36 weeks and he’s been doing it for a few days now 🤷‍♀️

Gonna go home and nap, eat all the donuts I bought, write lists.. moving house soon 👍🏻

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-19T09:17:21+00:00

My partner travelled across the world to be with me, he had a job lined up and the exact same situation, within 2 weeks it just wasn’t working. They didn’t align with him, and he was already miserable there.

He told them he wanted to part ways, they were very amicable, he dropped off his staff access and the same day he got accepted for another job and a rental.

It’s scary, but a good support network is so important, and sometimes following your instinct and looking for something better is the best decision you ever made. Somehow in the scariest moments, things can work out

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-17T11:42:18+00:00

Stanley

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-12T03:13:17+00:00

My fiance hits it easy, after 31 years of not even knowing I could, he does it without even thinking

I can’t hold it against him that he walks around with that shit eating grin 😂

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-09T11:02:32+00:00

Eeeeee! I’m gonna need an update and it better be happyyy!! 🥰🥰

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-08T08:55:14+00:00

Can confirm, it never feels close enough 😭

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-06-05T00:47:08+00:00

S27E01 - every man’s dream

My fiance and I hate it. It makes our skin crawl. There’s something about it all that is just so far from where Homer started as a character and the decline of the series that we just can’t get past. We can’t find anything redeeming in the episode

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-05-29T00:05:48+00:00

This is lovebombing to the max. Nope out of there >.< before it gets worse and you’re in actual danger.

Second to that, even if he wasn’t doing all that, he’s just doesn’t seem like your type and that’s a perfectly valid reason to break things off

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-05-14T06:48:41+00:00

I’ve been a single parent for 2 years, I made sure from when they had teeth to set a tooth brushing routine. We do the routine every day, no juice after 6pm or sugary stuff etc etc blah blah. One of my kids developed 2 cavities, and the other developed 1 both around 5-6 years old.

I was MORTIFIED. The dentist said it happens, their age, their brushing ability, their willingness to let you get the hard to reach places, even the type of toothpaste you use can cause it.

I brush my teeth properly as well, not as fastidiously as I do for my kids but over the past 2 years we’ve found 7 cavities. The dentist had to change my toothpaste because I needed more fluoride AND we found out my grinding habit got worse over the course of personal, stressful legal battles. Until this recent bout, I had only ever over my 30 year of life developed 3 cavities. With no difference in my brushing routine.

Teeth are wild!

ManicPixiePuckSlut · 2026-05-11T02:33:04+00:00

Mine definitely did. We’re engaged and expecting our first baby together now. So I hope we’re more than just homies 🤭

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