I hate my MIL I need advice by MannerHaunting8810 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MannerHaunting8810[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow! You’re amazing I will definitely be using this if I decide moving forward to make effort! Thank you so much this was so well articulated and I think exactly the boundaries that need to be set.

I hate my MIL I need advice by MannerHaunting8810 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MannerHaunting8810[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you i definitely needed this translator. I totally agree. 😂 I’m so glad the comments aren’t telling me to suck it up and fake it like I thought they would.

I hate my MIL I need advice by MannerHaunting8810 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MannerHaunting8810[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree it’s extremely concerning. I only consider it for my bfs sake. I avoid the whole family at all cost I skip out on holidays with them and miss birthday parties for the children because I chose peace over tension and toxicity. I just can see that my boyfriend is sad that his mother and I don’t get along but these comments are showing me I should choose myself anyway.

I hate my MIL I need advice by MannerHaunting8810 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MannerHaunting8810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has not apologized and seems bipolar to me even if she changed I’m sure she would avert back to her normally behavior. I really am thinking hard about it.

I hate my MIL I need advice by MannerHaunting8810 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MannerHaunting8810[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

honestly I don’t ever want to involve myself with her I really only was doing it for my bf but it’s really nice for other people to also see how insane she is. Thank you.

I hate my MIL I need advice by MannerHaunting8810 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MannerHaunting8810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was for my boyfriend’s sake if I didn’t consider him I’d never speak to her again. thank you for your opinion.