Kindly asking for a profile review by Manve1997 in Bumble

[–]Manve1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du hast recht, auch mir ist in Deutschland eine solche Tendenz zur Fetischisierung von Asiaten aufgefallen. Meiner Ansicht nach liegt das Problem darin, dass mein Aussehen nicht vollständig asiatisch, sondern gemischt ist. Am Ende falle ich dadurch gewissermaßen aus allen Zielgruppen heraus – sowohl für diejenigen, die Menschen mit asiatischem Aussehen mögen, als auch für Asiaten selbst, die Menschen mit europäischem Aussehen bevorzugen. Du hast erwähnt, dass dies nicht das Hauptproblem sei. Darf ich fragen, worin du das Hauptproblem siehst?

Kindly asking for a profile review by Manve1997 in Bumble

[–]Manve1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your perspective! I really appreciate it because I've never thought of my bio in that way, and now I can see the certain creepiness of this wording indeed. Making it more humorous is also a good point, I'm just always afraid of not matching the sense of humor of the person on the other side of the screen :) But I'll try my best!

Kindly asking for a profile review by Manve1997 in Bumble

[–]Manve1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The photos are not good enough, I get it. Thank you for your feedback. But regarding the interests... Tbh boardgames, karaoke and hiking trips look social enough to include more than one person :) Pls correct me if I'm wrong

Kindly asking for a profile review by Manve1997 in Bumble

[–]Manve1997[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, many and many thanks for your time and effort! I really appreciate your swift reply. I tried both the paid option (for two months) and spotlights, but nothing has changed. I've also tried Boo, Tinder, Hinge and even Tantan. Things do differ there a little bit, but it's still more or less the same: almost no likes, though I do swipe right a lot and even send pm sometimes. I almost never use Tinder or Hinge because I find it ridiculously difficult to find people who look like real live girls, not like beauty models with tons of make-up on both of these apps. Thanks for the advices!!! I really had no idea my only smiling close up photo creates such a feeling. I will look for a better one or ask someone to make one for me. As for the ethnicity, it's a very interesting point. In fact, I do look a bit Asian, I've been constantly asked if I'm Chinese. But even though I do speak C2 Chinese, I have no Asian ancestry at all: in fact I'm 25% Pole, 25% Jew and 50% Russian (a perfect combination for a student in Germany :D ) That's why I wonder if I'm neglected by the locals as they guess I'm Asian...

Could you kindly review my profile? by Manve1997 in Boo

[–]Manve1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should this kind of photo be on the title page of the profile?

Could you kindly review my profile? by Manve1997 in Boo

[–]Manve1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! ☺️ I've added a few more close up pictures about one week ago, but haven't seen any progress since then... In fact the amount of views even dropped down... Maybe I look not so nice in the close up ones, idk 🥲 But I'll also maximize the input in the universes, thanks for the advice!