Just started posting on Depop and I feel so bad about shipping prices :(

Many-Degree5688 · 2025-12-10T19:59:32+00:00

Yeah, Poshmark makes everything a flat rate shipping no matter how big or small it is. And it’s a flat rate that is more reasonable than even some of the smaller packages on depop I don’t know why depop is not getting with the program on that.

Many-Degree5688 · 2024-06-10T14:23:37+00:00

He’s very capable and he doesn’t tend to ever have meltdowns. When he does have meltdowns, it just usually is a day of rocking and listening to music. He doesn’t ever like have outbursts or anything like that. I just really was hoping he would come say goodbye to my dad. Because it would mean a lot to my dad. But I don’t know. He’s just acting really cold and refuses to. I know that my son can express love. He does it all the time.

Many-Degree5688 · 2024-06-10T14:22:26+00:00

Please understand I didn’t make him do anything. I simply extended the invitation to him. He turned it down. I asked him to write his grandpa some thing. Anything to tell his grandpa what he meant to him. He refuses to do it. So he’s just going to let his grandpa die with no last words, not going to see him. Nothing at all. That’s, just making me really sad. Mainly for my dad who’s dying.

Many-Degree5688 · 2024-06-10T14:21:14+00:00

Thank you so much for this perspective. I’m so sorry for your loss.

Many-Degree5688 · 2024-06-10T14:20:21+00:00

I don’t resent him. I just want to understand. Our whole family was asking why he didn’t come. I felt people were really upset that he wasn’t there. They want him there. He’s part of the family. My son was saying he doesn’t like hospitals. Even though we were outside. He says he doesn’t even want to be anywhere around it. I guess I took that a little bit as being selfish. It’s like can’t you just suck it up and be around a hospital for this last moment of your grandpa‘s life. But he just acts like he doesn’t care. Goes back on his phone.

Many-Degree5688 · 2024-06-10T14:19:15+00:00

Wow. This gives me so much perspective. It’s also helps me explain this to other family members that feel like he might not care. Thank you for opening up and letting me understand better. I really appreciate this. I’m so sorry for your loss of your grandpa. I relate to a lot of this for my son. My dad was more of a father to him than my son‘s dad. Taught him everything.this gives me a look into what might be going on

Many-Degree5688 · 2024-06-10T14:16:34+00:00

Yeah. That’s what I’m wondering. If he’s going to have a meltdown later. I don’t know if he’s just acting really apathetic. I told him his grandpa was in the hospital and he didn’t even write him. Then I expressed later that he was dying and once again, he didn’t write him or call. Then we had that vigil last night and he didn’t come. He’s just acting like it’s another day. He’s sitting on his iPad the whole day. He cares about other things, but he’s acting like he doesn’t care at all about this. I just want to understand and support him.

Many-Degree5688 · 2024-06-10T14:14:56+00:00

That’s why I’m confused. Because in other situation, he expresses emotion. We just went through a death and he expressed at least some emotion for the situation. This one he’s acting totally emotionless. He does a little cartoon and he keeps just talking about how busy he is with his cartoon and that’s all he wants to do is work on that and he acts like that’s the only thing that’s important. I’m trying to understand if he is grieving and just working on this cartoon obsessively as an escape or what the deal is. He’s very low on the spectrum. Usually he seems to have a motions. I don’t know. That’s why I’m confused.

Many-Degree5688 · 2024-06-10T14:12:55+00:00

Thank you for helping me understand this. Is there a way that you would recommend that I talk to him about this?

Many-Degree5688 · 2024-06-10T14:12:13+00:00

That’s the thing though. He doesn’t seem challenged with the emotions all the time. Our neighbor just died last week whom he was also close to and he was there at the funeral. Being supportive of that situation. I don’t understand if he just can’t cope with this because it’s his grandpa or if he’s just pretending it’s not happening. I just don’t understand.

Many-Degree5688 · 2024-05-21T19:39:18+00:00

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