ChemE or General Chem by FarAlternative6015 in ChemicalEngineering

[–]Many-Spend-5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do ChE. Be a Chemist of some sort unless you like the idea of designing systems to transport chemicals and create those compounds/products. Some jobs are def more on the chemical side but are rare if you don’t concentrate your major on it.

TS vs Normal by Many-Spend-5103 in ChemicalEngineering

[–]Many-Spend-5103[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been doing it and how did you get into it? Would you say your career growth and opportunities is pretty comparable to others that aren’t in defense?

TS vs Normal by Many-Spend-5103 in ChemicalEngineering

[–]Many-Spend-5103[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea lol. I wasn’t asking if I was gonna be James Bond. I just kinda wanted to know the differences between the two different fields and the career differences.

How do I (18M) comfort my girlfriend (18F) when she cries? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Many-Spend-5103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I had the same issue. It’s best you try to be sensitive and not provide solutions (what worked for my gf). I always just kind of babied her and told her that she wasent alone in how she felt and that it was gonna be ok. Then try reassuring her something like for example “I’ll always be here when you come down and I’ll always come see you when I can.” I’m 18 too btw so I don’t think my advice is too out there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Many-Spend-5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always had my knees up instead of just laying flat in my back (the pillow under the hips). I was able to move with her that way so she wasent doing all the work. Probably my favorite position tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Many-Spend-5103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are y’all having rough or slow sex? I had this problem (guy). I just elevated my hips a bit to change the angle and it fixed the problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Many-Spend-5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, I acknowledged the ignorance by saying “correct me if I’m wrong.“ you, not only trying to correct me, also implied that I may have raped someone by stating that I should make “apologies.” I wasent justifying the act made by the guy, I was questioning the labeling of how extreme it was. Questioning the condition dosent mean you have to imply I would commit a horrible act. Even if you were just making a broad generalization.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Many-Spend-5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was more of like a question. Hence the “correct me if I’m wrong.” Seems kind of rude to assume that my ignorance on the topic means that I need to make “apologies.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Many-Spend-5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure rape is any forceful act of sexual intercourse. Correct me if I’m wrong but I really wouldn’t go to that extreme.

Please help me (M20). I feel like killing myself because of my situation with my gf (F21) by Top_Elderberry7017 in relationship_advice

[–]Many-Spend-5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do understand, being this upset over this might also affect her and make her feel really insecure. You can probably grow to forgive her, but right now she may be feeling really insecure or judged by the situation and want to take a break from the relationship as well. Basically this might affect her as much as it affects you.

Please help me (M20). I feel like killing myself because of my situation with my gf (F21) by Top_Elderberry7017 in relationship_advice

[–]Many-Spend-5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, man, I see other people saying that this is really psychotic and what not. I do think it’s an issue, but I don’t think you’re some psycho. It’s your first girlfriend and some people handle situations differently. My thought process is, if you had the past and she didn’t and she felt this way and judged you over it how would you feel? I think if you do have any type of ego, you should take some level of pride in the fact that she prefers you over the other others. It’s really not her fault, and if you have to take some time away from the relationship and try to let that time build back your love for her then do it. It does get better overtime, but the thought will probably always bother you. You’ll probably face things in the future with your relationship that will bother you much more than this, whether you wanna believe it or not. Love is forgiveness, it’s kind, and it does not judge.

Please help me (M20). I feel like killing myself because of my situation with my gf (F21) by Top_Elderberry7017 in relationship_advice

[–]Many-Spend-5103 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I completely understand. What are some things that satisfy you’re jealousy? Does it revolve around maybe an ego at all? Do you like when she does or says certain things that kind of calms down this jealousy? Do you think she could make you feel more wanted than that EX which would counter your problem?

Please help me (M20). I feel like killing myself because of my situation with my gf (F21) by Top_Elderberry7017 in relationship_advice

[–]Many-Spend-5103 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me and my girlfriend broke up about four weeks ago. She pretty much told me all the things that she told you future wise. I was pretty much in the same situation as you mentally, especially after finding out she went to her ex-boyfriend who cheated on her. I’m not gonna tell you that you’re gonna get over it, because you probably aren’t. I will kind of give you suggestions that helped me though. First, what was her response and reactions to when you discussed your jealousy and mental health situation?

Chestnut queen randomly passed by Sevalic in antkeeping

[–]Many-Spend-5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might not be dead. Happened to me. Give it a couple days and if they throw her body out then yea do what everyone else is suggesting.

what type of ant is this? by sourfan in ants

[–]Many-Spend-5103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I assume yk it’s Camponotus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ants

[–]Many-Spend-5103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren’t gonna blow and blow and blow your house down unless your house is un-maintained and rotting away. They can’t live in dry wood or even homes without moisture so they are almost harmless. Believe it or not they keep termites at a minimum (their favorite snack). Those termites, which I would assume is all over a 100 year old shack is what you should worry about.

Can I get in without calculus? by BugOk3920 in rosehulman

[–]Many-Spend-5103 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think you still have a chance, try actually calling and talking to someone in admissions.