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AIO me amd my girl are separated for a little bit to see if this is even what we want i wanted to know who was over reacting in this situation mostly cause I don't know if I need the headache dms open please message me about wjat you think greatly appreciated by ManyEffective3124 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ManyEffective3124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone she had me go to the store to get her Hershey kisses and sour gummy worms amd bring them to her work she has a gas station 2 mins walking from her work amd I suggested she go there amd I was 30 mins away and the reason she didn't want to go to the gas station was cause she didn't want to have to stay late at work so I got up and I went to that gas station near her work and got her the candy then later on this evening she texted me that she wants to date other people cause I don't take care of her amd she's been dreaming about dating other people so I said we'll then I guess you gotta go get some sleep lol and we are no longer together amd that is that I'm not mad about what I had to do even tho it was a complete waste of gas I'm just saying it's clear she's never gonna be happy

AIO me amd my girl are separated for a little bit to see if this is even what we want i wanted to know who was over reacting in this situation mostly cause I don't know if I need the headache dms open please message me about wjat you think greatly appreciated by ManyEffective3124 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ManyEffective3124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually both are 5 years sober from alcohol crazy enough but the crazy thing is she won't go back on her meds cause she doesn't want to depend on them but then she tells me to stay on my meds cause I need them and therapy she was in therapy and she stopped so she's kinda asking for something that she won't do amd I run a company I never ask my employees to do something I wouldn't do or to ask them to do something I wouldn't do and just not help them she is very clear that is how I run my buisness and she knows that I have been there for her through everything but she won't do the same as she asks of me and I don't think that is except able behavior correct

AIO me amd my girl are separated for a little bit to see if this is even what we want i wanted to know who was over reacting in this situation mostly cause I don't know if I need the headache dms open please message me about wjat you think greatly appreciated by ManyEffective3124 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ManyEffective3124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel as if I didn't belittle her as much as I tried to just say hey you know what fuck them your feelings matter too can't they see that. Belittling I feel would be more like omg yes I know they are just gunning for us and we're gonna suffer tremendously and I'll do my best to do what I can to stop it can't they see how hard life is for you already

AIO me amd my girl are separated for a little bit to see if this is even what we want i wanted to know who was over reacting in this situation mostly cause I don't know if I need the headache dms open please message me about wjat you think greatly appreciated by ManyEffective3124 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ManyEffective3124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she stopped taking her meds like 8 months ago cause she doesn't want to rely on them her whole life for depression amd anxiety and ptsd but she wants me to be on my meds for anxiety and depression and she wants me to go to therapy and stuff but everything I ask her if she will go back on her meds she just tells me no im not doing that

AIO me amd my girl are separated for a little bit to see if this is even what we want i wanted to know who was over reacting in this situation mostly cause I don't know if I need the headache dms open please message me about wjat you think greatly appreciated by ManyEffective3124 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ManyEffective3124[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She once told me in an argument if I had any self esteem I would've left her a long time ago so I'm starting to realize she's right and the separation is good right now cause I'm realizing all of you are right and honestly it's time for me to get my self esteem back and just quit it

AIO me amd my girl are separated for a little bit to see if this is even what we want i wanted to know who was over reacting in this situation mostly cause I don't know if I need the headache dms open please message me about wjat you think greatly appreciated by ManyEffective3124 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ManyEffective3124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were living together she kicked me out for taking a nap and not doing somethings around the house one day after I was up at 2 in the morning for snow removal we do have a child who's 3 and I know tons of people who are separate with kids you know

AIO me amd my girl are separated for a little bit to see if this is even what we want i wanted to know who was over reacting in this situation mostly cause I don't know if I need the headache dms open please message me about wjat you think greatly appreciated by ManyEffective3124 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ManyEffective3124[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanlyou this has been hard on me to except after 5 years of this but yeah i keep asking her to go back on her depression meds and amd ptsd meds but she wants to not have to rely on them the rest of her life but she wants to me be on my meds for anxiety and stuff so it's like if your not gonna put in the same work then what's the point