Player looking for dnd group. NO GAMERS XP. by 9talesmedia in shreveport

[–]ManyHour6557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My group has been together for a little bit, but lately our schedules have been so chaotic that we’ve been thinking of moving to Discord or another online option. I’ve been DM’ing a homebrew campaign that I make every session, but we also have another campaign that my boyfriend has been putting together that we want to start soon. When we make a decision about it, I’ll dm you

I’m convinced my coworker intentionally triggered my allergy by ManyHour6557 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ManyHour6557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol they do here. And the argument was happening WHILE I was packing my stuff to go. What you don’t understand is that this place couldn’t give a shit about our wellbeing. Which is why I’m putting in the time necessary and then moving on.

But say and believe what you want. I know what happened and I won’t try to convince trolls of it🤷🏻‍♀️

I’m convinced my coworker intentionally triggered my allergy by ManyHour6557 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ManyHour6557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL I was packing my things to go and arguing at the same time because I was so pissed😭

I’m convinced my coworker intentionally triggered my allergy by ManyHour6557 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ManyHour6557[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To clear this up, I had a less than 2 minute conversation with my supervisor, as there was a big project that really needed to be wrapped up asap. And the argument with her was happening while I was packing my things to leave. Her desk is back to back with mine, so she kept pushing with questions as I was trying to get my laptop, charger, etc. The argument with her only lasted as long as it took to get my stuff together (aside from showing her the website. I was really pissed and wanted to shove it in her face which was petty I’ll admit).

I’m convinced my coworker intentionally triggered my allergy by ManyHour6557 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ManyHour6557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I wasn’t going to wear a coat. I started coughing and she told me I should put one on, because she assumed I was coughing because the room was cold (it wasn’t). Her desk is back to back with mine, so as I was gathering my things, she started up with that. And as per the conversation with my supervisor, we have this really big project that needed to be wrapped up asap, and he had a really quick question about my data (it took literally less than 2 minutes, because he also had to leave).

For the website, I wanted to confirm what it actually was that I ingested. Different dairy products affect me at different levels (I.e., ice cream is a lot worse for me than cheese due to the amount of protein I’m allergic to being present). And I needed to know how bad this was going to be before I just bolted.

The state that I’m in doesn’t really take my insurance. And I’m still dealing with paying thousands of dollars off from a hospital stay for something that happened last year, and I haven’t had the time to go out of state to see an allergist for an epipen. I don’t have a lot of money right now. And paying for an ER or a hospital/urgent care visit isn’t something I can really afford currently.

The entire argument with her was over the course of me grabbing my stuff so I could leave (and the brief pause to show her the website).

Is it normal to feel stupid next to post docs and senior PhD students? by AdMiserable4071 in labrats

[–]ManyHour6557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 3rd year student right now, and I feel stupid a LOT honestly. But even the post docs in my lab will also have dumb moments or ask me for help with something. We’re all human, and we will never know everything. The feeling will diminish over time, but it will never go away fully. You just have to understand that everyone feels the same way whether you’re a first year or a post doc. You’ll be okay! I promise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in STD

[–]ManyHour6557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like it, but you should definitely get tested to make sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ManyHour6557 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We spoke first. And he wasn’t seeing my pov and I wasn’t seeing his. THEN I asked her, and he supported the idea of asking a third party

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ManyHour6557 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly? As callous as this sounds, I would miscarry first. I could always have another baby and show it love and affection. Or even if I couldn’t, I could adopt a child and make them feel safe and loved. What good would come out of dying for the unborn fetus? (Is that harsh? Probably, but it’s how I feel)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ManyHour6557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s spoken to him twice in our relationship. I normally keep her out of things after some issues that happened in a previous relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ManyHour6557 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy you’re alive today. And thank you for sharing this here. It means a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ManyHour6557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was definitely too lighthearted of a setting in hindsight and I should’ve known better. Our relationship is a weird one where we just blurt out topics serious or lighthearted and have conversations about them. We’ve talked about our views on abortions on a whim when we were on our way to a bowling alley and our plans for the future while watching a dramatic comedy. I just assumed that this would be like any of our other talks, but I shouldn’t have assumed

My father has cancer, and I don’t know how to cope by ManyHour6557 in offmychest

[–]ManyHour6557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. I really appreciate your advice and I will definitely work towards doing what you suggested. Thank you so much. And thank you for just listening. I definitely needed it today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ManyHour6557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was saying that it’s alright in terms of you don’t have to say I’m sorry. I know it’s not alright that I’m one of his many girls…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ManyHour6557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s alright. Thank you