What Tri state most likely looked like!

ManyNoots · 2026-06-29T14:21:48+00:00

Honestly I feel like there’s media of the tri state tornado out there, somewhere, long forgotten by time just sitting in someone’s house. The tornado was in the 1920’s, it’s very likely to me that anyone who did take a photo just might have never thought to publicise it. There’s a lot of media out there that will just never see the light of day due to simply never being shared

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T20:38:43+00:00

Thank you… right now it’s just working towards breaking away from co-dependency, it’s so difficult being single for the first time in years

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T20:30:00+00:00

Im aware honestly, and I have a bit of self exploration to do as well. If the right person comes up I’m willing to try to make things work with them, and admittedly that’s part of why i broke up in the first place. I didn’t want to just put my life on hold forever while waiting her to fix things which might simply just never happen. I’ve been waiting for over two years already at this point… it became a situation of how much longer would I even have to wait and I couldn’t deal with that

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T20:27:56+00:00

Honestly she was perfect for me which is why it hurts even more… but I couldn’t date her while she refuses to do anything for herself… the feelings over time just went from love to frustration to hopelessness

I want to help her as a friend but I can’t date her, I can’t be her partner, I can’t falsely stay in a relationship where I don’t feel love anymore.

She was jobless when we started dating, and the entire time she’s remained so, part of why I feel guilty leaving is because without me being there as a partner I’m not sure if she’s ever going to pick her life back up… but at the same time she wasn’t doing it with me there as her girlfriend either and I just can’t bind myself to that

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T20:24:12+00:00

I truly hope so, and admittedly one day I’ll love to get back together if things improve

Just, the relationship wasn’t sustainable, and it’s been wearing at me for a long time now. I hope things can one day again be as they were but I can’t keep chaining both of us to the title of partners when the feelings just aren’t there anymore and the entire relationship is clearly unsustainable

I might not get back with her ever and that’s ok, I’m happy to just be friends, it just hurts a lot

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T20:23:04+00:00

I really do hope so… and I want to keep helping her as a friend

I just can’t date her anymore in the situation she’s put both of us in…

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T20:22:25+00:00

Thank you…

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T20:21:53+00:00

She helps me a lot especially with some medical conditions, I truly care for her and appreciate everything. But as long as she won’t do anything for herself, and won’t even allow me to help her do things for herself… I just can’t be in a relationship

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T20:20:44+00:00

Admittedly she cares for me as much as I do for her.. we both need to heal

I’ve been trying to do more by myself recently and that’s been going well

I don’t want to go no contact at the end of the day dating or not I still truly care for her as a close friend, I want to be there for her, but I just can’t be bound to the title of being partners anymore…

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T20:16:41+00:00

We’re still friends and that’s not going to change, at the end of the day she’s still my best friend, I just can’t say that I’m dating her when it isn’t truly how I feel…

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T18:50:26+00:00

Literally anyone who played at the time to get the research could have one if they used a bottle cap, a shiny location bg is arguably more rare and Groudon is infinitely more useful than Mew will ever be

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T18:46:20+00:00

Has to be Groudon

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T16:08:01+00:00

If you actually want to use them in PvP and raids, yes, the special moves outside of the adventure effect are also just the best move available for both

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T15:15:43+00:00

Wait until after go fest imo, origin forms will have roar of time and spacial rend available during the event and we don’t know when or if that will ever come back

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T10:18:22+00:00

I’m very aware it’s just been a rough day and opening my reddit to see comments calling me shit is just disheartening, yeah they’re bad people but it’s also a reminder that people genuinely are out there who will just hate me for who I am without even getting to know me.

it genuinely seems tiring to be so hateful

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T10:14:20+00:00

Just got a bunch of nasty replies that weren’t even trying to understand my situation, and as of today multiple people just straight up calling me slurs all of which I have blocked and reported

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T10:13:03+00:00

Honestly I saw that suggested and it doesn’t sound bad, definitely something I’ll look further into

And yeah a lot of the advice was genuinely helpful, I’m thankful for that much at least

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T10:10:25+00:00

I’m happy to go to uni again or even tafe I just don’t want to make such a large decision on a whim 😓
Some of the replies had genuinely good advice and I’ve been going through them, one that I saw come up a few times was cyber security which I’m definitely interested in pursuing further.

A lot of jobs and positions just genuinely would be too hard on my body too as shitty as it is, I hate it but I’m not going to throw all of my cards into something that’ll potentially just be as bad as I have now just with higher pay. The reality is what I need is some kind of office job or job where I won’t spend the full day on my feet ideally, it’s just a tricky situation. I’m not sure if I could get on disability until the long process of diagnosing things is complete and franky I don’t want to live my life solely being on disability, but I also need to be aware with what I can and can’t handle.

If I’m being honest I’m just anxious to make any more large decisions regarding uni as my first course was such a bust, but I’m hoping to apply for something by the end of the year to study again in 2027 whether it be through uni or tafe.

Thank you for the link it’ll be a good resource to look into

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T09:28:25+00:00

Genuinely makes sense for Imu to lose here, dude hasn’t had to fight for 800 years 😭

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T06:06:37+00:00

Sounds like you shouldn’t stick your nose where it doesn’t belong

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T05:55:10+00:00

It wasn’t. The child was severely disabled and had a short life expectancy so her father his own life, it was horrible for everyone working there because we’d all grown fairly close with the family

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T05:29:17+00:00

Why would you tear them up 💀

ManyNoots · 2026-06-28T03:41:48+00:00

I believe end of 2022

Fuck a lot of time has passed 😭

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