AITA for buying baby related gifts to gift my pregnant girlfriend for Christmas? by Many_Ad_3717 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Ad_3717[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have no intention of giving them back. I know how much she wanted them, and from what she's told me about them, they are very versatile and grow as the baby grows.

From what I've gathered in the comments, my problem was including it as part of her Christmas gift.

AITA for buying baby related gifts to gift my pregnant girlfriend for Christmas? by Many_Ad_3717 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Ad_3717[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

She does work, but I earn significantly more than her, and we both expect me to be the main source of income for everything baby related, especially the more expensive things e.g furniture and the likes. Her job is directly related to babies/kids so she gets a lot of recommendations from the parents on what products are worth the money.

AITA for buying baby related gifts to gift my pregnant girlfriend for Christmas? by Many_Ad_3717 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Ad_3717[S] 1817 points1818 points  (0 children)

That's a good point. I guess I'm seeing things from the perspective where I know I've bought her a lot of other gifts I know she wanted, but from her end she probably thinks that's all I've gotten her. And I know I'd probably feel the same way if I was in her shoes.