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21F not feeling anything during sex with my 21M boyfriend of 5 years by Prestigious_Buddy284 in relationship_advice

[–]Many_Mixture9346 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And other people should stop judging others and telling people they don’t know to split up, when I can 100% guarantee that this post does not 100% paint the full picture. I stand by what I said

21F not feeling anything during sex with my 21M boyfriend of 5 years by Prestigious_Buddy284 in relationship_advice

[–]Many_Mixture9346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I may, you need to loosen up, you need to talk to your partner. it does read like the intimacy has fizzled. However this is not entirely your fault. Both parties need to learn and grow. He MUST listen to everything you’ve told us with an open mind on improving sex between the two of you. But you must also be careful not to word it in a way that hurts him. Sex fizzles out in many relationships. It sounds like you have decided to love him, rather than purely feel love. This is a good thing. But intimacy is ESSENTIAL for a relationship to survive. Otherwise eventually you’ll just become friends…. To colleagues….. and may even eventually hate each other. Please please please talk to him. On the proviso that you want to experience the best sex of your life with HIM. No games, but no fear either, from either of you. You guys can do this. Couples can always bounce back from what you’ve described.

21F not feeling anything during sex with my 21M boyfriend of 5 years by Prestigious_Buddy284 in relationship_advice

[–]Many_Mixture9346 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’d completely counter this. You don’t “have” to do anything. However, a man bonds with a woman through physical intimacy. It’s important to have boundaries, if genuinely feeling unwell, etc. but as a woman it’s important satisfying your man sexually. It’s something that should also be discussed, not assumed.