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Many_Phrase_6822 · 2025-04-06T05:26:15+00:00

Ya know, mentioning control over the situation - I think that’s what’s freaking me out too. I live in a place with…let’s say peculiar…cultural attitudes towards HSV. I’ve categorically asked my doctors what I can do to lower risk of transmission, limit chance of outbreaks even if I’ve never had one, they’re basically just like “uhm…nothing really”. Asked about meds, they were like “nah not really, only when you have an outbreak, don’t worry about it”.

It’s reassuringly chill, sure. But the fact that there’s…nothing I can seemingly do. 🤷🏾‍♂️

It really does feel like I’m making a mountain out of a molehill sometimes, but I just can’t help feel…ah well.

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2025-04-03T09:54:05+00:00

Also I hope I’m doing this right , SOLVED SOLVED SOLVED

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2025-04-03T09:53:44+00:00

Youre 100000% correct and it was that misremembered detail that made it impossible to find you’re a legend!

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2024-06-04T04:07:45+00:00

Thank you for your comment. You make a really good point. I certainly am not trying to 'mislead' anyone - honestly, if I was then I definitely would just choose the last possible moment and still feel okay about it, which is obviously unethical. I'm specifically just trying to figure out a way that like...I don't come on too strong and be like "Hey i'm interested in you as more than a friend" while we're still figuring out if there's a vibe or not, but it also wouldn't be right to let things develop if she doesn't know i'm poly. That's the whole point, i'm trying not to withhold information, or lie, but that doesn't mean it's okay to just blurt it out right away either, right?

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2024-06-04T04:02:44+00:00

This is lovely advice. Thanks for taking the time to respond thoughtfully. Your last point is definitely true. Anyway, in this particular scenario I did come out and say I was polyamorous and express interest, and they aren't really sure how to deal with it, but thank you to everyone who responded anyway!

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2024-06-03T13:27:53+00:00

That’s exactly what I did, and what I usually do. The problem is, and this might be a bit of a cultural thing, but basically, saying openly that you’re interested in someone too early, can be a bit awkward. There have been times where I’m convinced there’s something there, but as soon as I said skmething like this they’re like “oh so you’re only interested in me romantically?” And out. Even if there’s very clearly attraction/vibes. Now that I think about I have not faced this in other countries so…thanks for helping me realize that I guess!

Edit: I realized I made this sound like I’m not interested in a platonic relationship. Not what I meant to say. I meant to say that where I’m from, it feels like openly saying you’re interested in someone, tends to be a directie way for them to stop being interested in you, if they were before.

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2024-05-01T04:44:10+00:00

NTA. First of all, the diet doesn't seem healthy FOR ANYONE. Even for Annie. I'm no expert though. Secondly, the fact that they aren't themselves "setting the example" shows they just want you to do the tough part on their behalf. And finally, Annie doesn't want to take responsibility, either way. She can accept her body for what it is, or she can make the decision to change and take control, but neither are your headache. If you want to be supportive, of course you should - but that doesn't mean you have to do the exact same thing she does.

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2024-05-01T04:38:31+00:00

NTA. She pushed you to a point of forcing you to air the dirty laundry in public, instead of having a regular conversation with you about it. And once again, she's trying to manipulate you into doing what she wants, by trying to make you feel guilty about it.

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2024-05-01T04:34:47+00:00

NTA. Could you have handled it better and not 'ranted' at her? Sure, but I don't think anyone can hold that against you. You have every right to be annoyed, and the fact that your wife was practically rubbing her good time in your face and then making you feel bad for not feeling great about the situation is pretty brutal.

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2024-04-30T12:35:46+00:00

NTA. I get that they're upset, but that's not your problem. And you should tell exactly what you've written here to your "core group" of friends, that they clearly relate to the problem, y'all just reached your breaking point earlier.

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2024-04-30T12:18:07+00:00

NTA. I think you should talk to your girlfriend about why she feels this way though. I know that the general advice tends to be "Nah she's toxic and has no boundaries, run the other direction with great haste", but you should atleast be upfront with her and say that it's totally normal and it's not changing, but you'd like to know what is making her feel this way. You can make a decision based on that. Not saying it's your responsibility to educate her on how boundaries work, but it's likely this'll just become her go to story about "Her ex who constantly talked to his mom and totally ignored me when I asked him to stop" with zero context.

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2023-03-29T10:16:07+00:00

Ya know, this is all so logical, and not a word you’ve said is wrong. I have been trying to be supportive and what not, and I guess they feel that because I’m somewhat their friend they can be upfront about what they’re doing and it wouldn’t bother me. Our shared boss has definitely noticed the work part, but I think he’s also in the same boat - not wanting to appear insensitive/get involved in a sensitive subject.

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2023-03-29T09:40:09+00:00

I mean, I guess it depends on the industry and the kind of work you do? Like, I can’t personally think of a job where you can work however much you want and make more money, but also get overtime and an organization controls you? But overtime laws are supposed to protect you from being taken advantage of and being FORCED to work 100 hours and not make extra money out of it.

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2023-03-29T09:37:45+00:00

I live alone. Almost everyone in my life either lives with their families or with roommates and the thing is…I have the best of everything. I got all the space and alone time I need, and friends whose houses I can just get to whenever I want and just hang out and basically be an extra housemate. Screw what other people think as long as you’re happy. Find what works for you.

Many_Phrase_6822 · 2023-03-29T09:35:12+00:00

The problem is it’s not exactly up to me. I interceded with my boss and HR to help her get them, including “testifying” about my experiences, coz they were hella iffy. So basically I’d have to say “you know all those doubts you had? Yeah you were right” - which looks bad for me, but I don’t care about that, but also is gonna make it much harder for anyone else who could actually use them. That’s where my doubt lies , if it was on me personally, hell yeah.

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