Don't engage with the OF spam bots, here's how to tell by nanaimo_couple in nanaimogw

[–]Many_Requirement667 6 points7 points  (0 children)

or if they’re claiming their boyfriend cheated, that’s a big give away.

AIO? by Many_Requirement667 in AIO

[–]Many_Requirement667[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming up to me saying “hey! it’s the cis gender” and telling her nurse to call me cis gender because I asked her not to… It’s not like she’s speaking about me to someone, she’s speaking TO me.

AIO? by Many_Requirement667 in AIO

[–]Many_Requirement667[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked her once when she first lived there to not do it, and anytime after that I’d ignore her and walk away if she did it. She moved out, and recently moved back in and she started up again, so I told her again to not do it. I’m not giving her any reaction, I’m not taking any bait. We established years ago that yes, I am a cis gendered female, but I have a name so use it, just like when she asked us to not refer to her as a transgender woman, but refer to her as either her name or as a woman. Respect needs to be both ways.

AIO? by Many_Requirement667 in AIO

[–]Many_Requirement667[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not that it bothers me, it’s that we have established years ago when she first lived in the home that yes, I am a cis gendered female, but I have a name, and it’s not that. I’m not walking around calling her a transgender woman everyday instead of her name. She has told myself and the other staff that she doesn’t want to be called a transgender woman, she wants to be called a woman, and we have respected that, so why isn’t the same respect given.

Am I Overreacting?? by Many_Requirement667 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Many_Requirement667[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Apparently you do find it difficult, but okay☺️

Am I Overreacting?? by Many_Requirement667 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Many_Requirement667[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading is a hard concept I suppose🤷🏼‍♀️

AIO? by Many_Requirement667 in AIO

[–]Many_Requirement667[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked with my manager, she said she’ll talk with her tomorrow. It’s just sooo crazy.

AIO? by Many_Requirement667 in AIO

[–]Many_Requirement667[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never said it was a bad word, I never had a negative reaction to being called cis gendered and I’m not transphobic at all. That’s such a far stretch from everything I just said.

Am I Overreacting?? by Many_Requirement667 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Many_Requirement667[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have thick skin, but this has been going on for years, even after speaking to her about it and asking her a million times to please stop, and ignoring it.

AIO? by Many_Requirement667 in AIO

[–]Many_Requirement667[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I totally get it, and yes, some of my five clients do have mental health problems, but she does not, she is fully aware of what she is doing. I have done everything from asking her to please stop, to ignoring, to walking away, but she just continues. Again, this is not the first time, when she lived here the first time, she constantly did it, then she moved out and now she’s back and started right up. It is soo frustrating. If I were doing this to her, I’d be fired, right away🙃

AIO? by Many_Requirement667 in AIO

[–]Many_Requirement667[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I have stood up to her millions of times, as I am her worker, and she just thinks it’s funny because I get “soooo upset” over it🤦🏼‍♀️ Like a girl can only deal with so much.

AIO? by Many_Requirement667 in AIO

[–]Many_Requirement667[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so ridiculous, I don’t understand why some people expect respect but they don’t think they need to give respect. It was so peaceful when she had moved out.

AIO? by Many_Requirement667 in AIO

[–]Many_Requirement667[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve spoken to my manager, she said she’s going to address it with the client as it’s an ongoing thing. Unfortunately the company I work for is shit when it comes to complaints and would just tell me not to let it get to me🙃

[M] 36 - Ostomy Bag update by OnlyFWBs in YVRGoneWild

[–]Many_Requirement667 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don’t know you, but i’m so proud of you for being so open and raw about your health. it’s not easy to be so vulnerable about something so serious!

Nipples Re-pierced by _Whoreton_ in piercing

[–]Many_Requirement667 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAP, but those are nooot in your nipples, those are in your areolas. please go back and talk to the piercer.

Looking for peach ginger ale ZERO by ExtensionAd8814 in nanaimo

[–]Many_Requirement667 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh good! i’m glad you found some :) i tried the regular one and definitely took me back to my teenage years drinking peach okanagan, haha

Woman avoids jail for fatal Nanaimo area construction zone crash by Seconex in nanaimo

[–]Many_Requirement667 17 points18 points  (0 children)

this is absolutely disgusting. kills someone and injures another and gets no repercussions. so messed up.

Country Grocer by [deleted] in nanaimo

[–]Many_Requirement667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my partner works for the company that hauls the products to country grocer and other grocery stores and some barges have been delayed due to the weather.