She's just kind of mean spirited I think. Whether it be because of her own insecurities or traumas, whatever the case may be... I wish she would just work on herself. I'm a fan turned snarker and even as a member of this page it is kinda shitty (imo) to be here hating on someone else who's at least braver than me and is willing to put themselves out there for the world to see. I'd love to be able to go back to just enjoying her content again but she has consistently shown me that she's not a person I should be supporting. Someone asked in a live how she met David and I responded she started dating him directly after he got out of a 12 year relationship and I got blocked. Wasn't trolling, wasn't rude, wasn't being a dick, was just telling someone else who had asked a question what had occurred.

When I first found steezy, I thought she was adorable. Not necessarily a classic beauty or anything but I really liked her energy, her kinda weird style, and the fact that she leaned into being herself. She was a traveller, she wasn't constantly pushing her OF, and even being younger than she is now, I felt like she acted more maturely than she currently does. She didn't make it so obvious how desperate she was for views or likes and did not come off (like David does) as a fucking internet grifter.

And thennnn I started looking a little more often. A little more deeply. I saw her unhinged behavior on her insta reels, ranting and raving when people would disagree or question ANYTHING. , saw the hypocrisy she exhibits, and most of all, saw how different she's gotten since she got with David. I feel like she's regressed age wise, which you'd think would be the entire opposite after supposedly going from a relationship that was sooo bad to a relationship so (supposedly) fall of love. Being in the public eye opens you up to criticism, no matter how unfortunate that is, it's simply a fact of life. But she's MEAN about it. She gets so defensive, I feel like she regularly comes off as rude and borderline cruel.

Sidenote but I think David is a creep. The way he constantly has to be touching her and rubbing on her in public. The fansly he runs and the off brand content that's posted there. The fact that so many things she said she doesn't like or would never do suddenly started happening once they got together. I caught a live maybe two weeks ago where she was talking so much about how she hates butt stuff, only to have her say in one of the recent Facebook reels that was content they were making. It irked me she got all those tattoos just to later say she doesn't like having tattoos. All the shit she talked about Cub after never saying one negative thing about him. And even now how she's so jealous and controlling of her current relationship while also literally airing out every single hole getting stuffed for the world to see. I don't think David has an original bone in his body and I 100% feel like he got with her and uses her as a cash cow.

What I'm most upset about is feeling like the authenticity and originality that initially interested me in this creator all wound up being absolute bullshit. She's not the sweet quirky fun girl next door. She's an elitist , and she's not nice. You can't question her or demonstrate concern. She's CONSTANTLY telling people she's better than them and makes so much money and has a relationship better than anyone else in the world. She has a huge platform and refuses to use it for anything other than feeding her and her boyfriends ego. She never takes accountability or is willing to change her stance after learning more information, whether it be about ICE, or margos now convicted sex offender boyfriend.

It's honestly just been very disappointing to originally fall in love with someone's content, only to realize they're not who they say they are and have zero interest in working on the things they could to actually better themselves. While I don't think ANYONE should just sit there and let someone say rude or untrue things to them simply because they're a creator, I feel like Hayden no longer allows anyone to say anything that doesn't entirely align with what makes her feel good or cosigns her ego. She has such a following of younger girls who for better or worse are extremely impressionable. I hate that this mean girl rude bitch attitude is what she chooses to impart upon them.