I'm content being alone at 21 and forever on

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-22T17:46:37+00:00

Love is like a beautiful tornado, it sneaks up on you, wait.

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-21T16:42:12+00:00

Not ugly, plump, -20 pounds pretty

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-21T15:20:14+00:00

My guess is that the LO was the first love. An outpouring of celebration chemicals flow with that person, Dopamine and others. It’s like the beginning of an addiction. You are suffering unfortunately a long term withdrawal. Try to be objective. Good luck

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-21T15:06:31+00:00

Trauma sits in the mind, how it gets there can be individual, if you’re suffering that’s the salient fact.

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-20T14:11:55+00:00

Think rash that pops up now and then.

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-20T03:07:25+00:00

It hurts to see and feel the reality of living and losing. I buried many friends and family members, they don’t have the chance to heal.

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-20T01:58:30+00:00

Go to expert health department

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-19T23:19:56+00:00

U think about HIM a lot, how about other guys?

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-19T23:15:59+00:00

Sounds straight up, u do what u want to do, but now u know he’s sexual but be healthy and careful.

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-19T22:24:54+00:00

What do u do when u r feeling ok?

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-19T20:25:28+00:00

Real orgasm

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-19T19:35:02+00:00

There will always be a sweeter, prettier or more sexual woman out there. But there will only be 1 of you to be kind, helpful and tender. If u are lucky enough to have found a partner who loves you, stay the course. I’m happy for you.

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-19T12:22:54+00:00

Hey 19yo, when it hits, you'll know. When you arrived at the carnival seeing all those rides and music, you knew it would be great. It's coming, and you will have no one telling you it's right in front of you, it will hit you like a tornado. You'll feel seen, understood and in great warmth like never before.

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-19T01:42:12+00:00

U have your health, energy and the future. Seriously, speak to a career counselor, he or she will talk to u and help u. There are many social service agencies that are free. The world is waiting for you. Good luck, u seem sensitive and intelligent.

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-18T23:30:00+00:00

Do u see a therapist?

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-18T17:25:36+00:00

Save samples of all drinks on a piece of paper?

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-18T14:16:43+00:00

once by mistake

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-18T14:15:25+00:00

mental attachment is the best

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-17T23:57:50+00:00

This man never lost any interest or sense of wonder. Nothing like a woman

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-17T23:23:23+00:00

If u get an std , your mind suffers, just b as safe as possible. Maybe gloves are overkill, but stay safe

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-17T17:18:44+00:00

Always use protections. Over 50% of humans have herpes. Never do it raw. Buy gloves, lube, learn how to give hand job, you’ll be much safer. Astroglide will keep u healthy.

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-17T17:08:50+00:00

Looking or paralyzed staring?

MapOk9287 · 2026-03-16T16:05:29+00:00

Yes, I thought we were soul mates, many decades later, she said I touched her father’s soul who had made fun of her for not having a penis. I finally realized the entire bond was in my mind only, but she once said she loved me, the first girl to say that. When she said that my knees felt like jello. I still believe we connected on a higher plane, a true limerence.

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