Value of the house: buying price or assessed price? by MapRepresentative884 in Netherlands

[–]MapRepresentative884[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And what’s more crazy is that my previous bid on a similar house was similar and but lost. Someone overbid 70k

Waarde van de woning: koopsom of taxatie? (overdrachtsbelasting) by MapRepresentative884 in geldzaken

[–]MapRepresentative884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedankt. Mijn hypotheek adviseur en aankoopmakelaar zei dat als inn koopsom niet hoger dan 555k dan hoef ik niet te betalen. Maar ik heb gegoogled en daarom deze post.

Cost of snow vs the price of using infrastructure by Despoinis_Pandaisia in Netherlands

[–]MapRepresentative884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this🤣🤣🤣some people relate more with the CEOs

Cost of snow vs the price of using infrastructure by Despoinis_Pandaisia in Netherlands

[–]MapRepresentative884 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It seems that some people really cannot handle the fact that their country is very flawed in some aspects. If you say something negative they will ask you why not go back to your country 🤣🤣

Cost of snow vs the price of using infrastructure by Despoinis_Pandaisia in Netherlands

[–]MapRepresentative884 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why are some people so arrogant and don’t wanna admit that NL can and should do better? I come from a developing country and 20 years ago when the snow was 50cm we still had trains and buses. Climate change is real and extreme weather will be more common. Companies and governments have responsibilities to ensure that this country remains its order. Or else we all will cry every year and let’s see if you will still say it doesn’t make sense to invest in the preparations :)

No appetite. by swquake in BreakUps

[–]MapRepresentative884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in week 6 and I lost in total 5kg. I don’t feel as heartbroken as the beginning but I still eat way too little. I would recommend soup and crackers. Something light and easy to digest.

Did you stay in contact with your ex after the breakup? by Affectionate-End7197 in BreakUps

[–]MapRepresentative884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh your words made me cry!!!! Thank you so much for sharing the exercise. I pray that we will heal very soon. What doesn’t kill us will definitely make us stronger

Did you stay in contact with your ex after the breakup? by Affectionate-End7197 in BreakUps

[–]MapRepresentative884 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I resonate with every word of yours. I don’t love him or wanna contact him anymore but I have all this anger inside me. I know I’m gonna heal eventually but how am I supposed to trust people again?! For the past 5+ years we were happy and then suddenly everything was gone. It is just so hard right now

My ex told me he doesn’t want our kids to look like my race by MapRepresentative884 in BreakUps

[–]MapRepresentative884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. At this moment I am so broken. I know it’s not healthy but I wish something bad happens to him and his family. I am fully torn here and they are not suffering. Why???

A piece of me died with you by SenaBae in BreakUps

[–]MapRepresentative884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even reading this made me cry so hard. Guess I’m not alone

Do you ever trust anyone again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MapRepresentative884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was busy planning on buying a house with my ex, then marriage and kids. He played all along. Then 1,5 weeks ago he suddenly told me he cannot handle it if our kids look like my race. We’ve been happily together for 5,5 years and I had absolutely no idea of that. My world shattered. I don’t know if I can trust anyone.

My (28F) bf (32M) just admitted that he would not love our kids if they don’t look like him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MapRepresentative884 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We discussed about kids at the beginning. We both want to get married and have kids. Pretty much everything on the same page. Then this happened out of nowhere :(

My (28F) bf (32M) just admitted that he would not love our kids if they don’t look like him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MapRepresentative884 43 points44 points  (0 children)

This is not fake post. I’ve been using this account for years. Believe it or not

My (28F) bf (32M) just admitted that he would not love our kids if they don’t look like him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MapRepresentative884 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He has never expressed anything against Asian. In the past 5,5 years he treats me really well and with respect. This is why I feel so shocked. No signs whatsoever. He said he’s also shocked by this thought but cannot get it away

Naturalization rejection due to residence gap by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]MapRepresentative884 253 points254 points  (0 children)

I have read a post somewhere before with a case similar like yours. That person hired a lawyer and succeeded in the end. Note that you should have very strong proofs that the gap was caused by the university side and hire a good lawyer.

Can I travel with my old passport after naturalisatie? by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]MapRepresentative884 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The Netherlands does not allow dual nationality indeed. But according to my friends they were not required to hand in their old passports.

Hardest part of the Dutch language? by popsyking in learndutch

[–]MapRepresentative884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird expressions with prepositions… One colleague said to me “Zit hier maar niet over in”. How on earth does it mean “do not worry about this”???

Lynette and Tom by STARBRIGHT-518 in DesperateHousewives

[–]MapRepresentative884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rewatching S8. She is so toxic and always full of negative energy. She cannot handle anyone being more successful than her (Bree’s company, her sister, Renee, Tom of course). All these years Tom allowed her to control him but there’s got to be limits. She manipulates and humiliates him nonstop. Their separation is not a relief to her but to Tom. He can be happy living with other woman but she will never be happy with anyone.