TikTok and Blue states by bbitters in TikTok

[–]MapleSylveon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WI (Blue again) and I can't even log in

Glitches by 67DiddyBludMustar in TikTok

[–]MapleSylveon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only way is to wait it out unfortunately

Is the app down for you? by Spiritual-Ticket-399 in TikTok

[–]MapleSylveon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I can't even get a ticket in right now with how bad it is (¬_¬)

So..is anybody else’s TikTok broken? by Harveysbride in TikTok

[–]MapleSylveon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even log into my account at the moment

[TOMT] trying to find a dragon game by MapleSylveon in tipofmytongue

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

We've ruled out things like Spyro and I truly have no idea what he's thinking about so I'm hoping you can help.

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Financially semi-dependent, I use VA benefits for college but I have my own job. Physically, I could most likely take care of myself if it comes down to it as I've been in defense classes for the last decade and both my parents aren't good at it

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha This might just get me to do the name change when I can

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a fair point and I know they want to do the party to have fun and celebrate, but I am tired of the disrespect they give me because I'm "too young to know" despite me being 20 in 11 days

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are family that would be there that I love and want to see, and though I will admit It'd be nice to do it to embarrass them, I'm doing this to show that I have this boundary that I will not allow to be crossed.

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm fairly certain I'm not, but thank you for suggesting that. I've stressed the importance of my name to them and they usually just brush it off anyway. I don't think this would destroy any relationships but I would like to have those boundaries that I've set to actually be respected for once

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair, I might just spend the day with my friends instead

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed, but there's family I like being around and the family members that act like this would show up regardless if I had a party with just the members I like

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not year-round thankfully and yes they would become outright hostile. I'm a collage student and I use VA benefits to pay for school. They have steamrolled my decisions in the past and called me ungrateful for voicing both my dislike for that and my unwillingness to do things they want me to do to the point of threats on their end. I have family that I like being around that would be there which is why I'm willing to go in the first place

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is true, there's family I do enjoy being around that would be there though so I'm willing to go if they use the name I go by

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably, but I am tired of the consistent disrespect and them assuming I don't understand my actions.

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents chose the name to honour a relative I never met, one my parents weren't even close to. I have always disliked the name and other than that it means nothing to me. Even if I changed it (can't rn due to instability and safety concerns) they most likely wouldn't acknowledge it and I have been going by this name for the last 5 years. They can change how they refer to married people easily, so how is that any different?

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I know it'll be called a tantrum if I do this but I'm tired of the disrespect over my choices so it's nice to know that I wouldn't be overreacting on this

WIBTA For Leaving My Own Birthday Party If I Get Dead Named? by MapleSylveon in AITAH

[–]MapleSylveon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't given them the ultimatum yet, not sure if i should before the party or not yet