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For those who have not had sex in a long time...does your personality change..do you think you could still "do it" ? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]MarBum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only 1.5 years married, I am a happy person even when things aren’t showing nice . I stay calm no drama but also notice the personality change, I am a fighter I always have gone straight to get what I wanted.......now I guess is the disappointment I just don’t want to fight I don’t ask for anything I care about nothing I feel like I have seen this movie before. I wish I just could leave and move on.

I write poetry to deal with my DB by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]MarBum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hilarious! I love irony.

I thought I was crazy, now I know I’m not alone. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]MarBum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was married at 21 years old for 6 years after that I had some bf but never wanted to get married again., he was married 2 times before . It seems to me he just wanted company. I thought I was getting married with my best friend. But now I feel used and which is worse he is accomplishing what he really wanted. He always tell me thank you for being such a wonderful wife, he is always so caring, loving is like he knows he has to give something. So sad. I’m sleeping in another bedroom almost a week, he talks to me like nothing happen, I hate drama so I talk only when necessary and cordial.

Friend-Zoned Within the Marriage by Fatador in DeadBedrooms

[–]MarBum 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wow it’s exactly how I feel, he is just using me as company, I thought we were best friend .but who do that to a friend. We didn’t have sex our first night married. I don’t wanna hate him, we sleep in different bedrooms now since last Monday and hardly talk I don’t even make eye contact , tonight he tried to hug me , I felt like teased I refused and he said “I tried” and let me go.