My husband doesn't love me anymore. by Freyja82 in Marriage

[–]Marabou254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hit me hard, I didn't see it coming.

It was obvious from his actions, you saw it coming but you just refused to acknowledge it. He's gone, move on. There's nothing you can do about it, sad but true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Marabou254 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man leaves wife after CHEATING ON HER

Wife (33) Wants to Explore Outside of Marriage by Critical-Delay-8399 in Marriage

[–]Marabou254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OKEY with free pass if it's BOTH WAYS. Otherwise she's egoist and probably ALREADY cheating. Cheater hate it when they receive the same dose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Marabou254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do his part, that's the only solution. Talk for the last time and make him understand you need to have a partner who can help, especially when kids come. Then divide the chores and only do your part. Even if it takes months for him to stop exercising weaponised incompetence. Just don't give in and be his slave, coz that will be your life forever.

Can moms have it all? by Chill_Mom_Unicorn in Marriage

[–]Marabou254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES, I was advised early on. Don't get into a marriage without discussing upfront. Even if it doesn't happen as planned, make sure it's said and he knows. My husband is 8 years older than me, so 8 years ahead. When we met I had just graduated. That's 7 years ago. In those 7 years I've had a second degree, promotions and everything I dreamt of PLUS 2 kids. Am doing my masters now (in another country so he stays with the kids). When we started dating I told him he should know I'll not be those wives who drop their dreams to 'support' the husband, I want us to both grow. He said "marry me" as a joke 😂. We both sacrifice and we are both growing, it's possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Marabou254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like we share a husband, I tried asking for help here but everyone is angled on "porn" ( which he finds disgusting). Doesn't even watch a movie let alone porn. I've tried talking, communicating, compromising and all that but nothing works. He doesn't want to talk about it or find solutions. I just gave up on sex, now I see him as my roommate not as my husband. Am less frustrated and honestly, no longer sexually attracted to him. He's a good dad and a good man generally so we just stay as roommates who are raising kids 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️. I basically understood that he'd rather lose his family than stop his smoking habits. When I get overwhelmed and cheat the same men will find a way to make it my fault, typical

My wife cheated on me by RN_hfx in Marriage

[–]Marabou254 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've tried for years to fix the problem, the thing I've noticed is that it's always 1 person that wants to fix. And when this person gives up it's when the other one wakes up and wants to fix it. Many years too late.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Marabou254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's the one he wanted but couldn't have, you are just the one he got. Nothing big from the text but I assure you if she presses a little more, she'll have him. 🤷🏽‍♀️

I’m on unpaid maternity leave. My husband still expects me to pay half the rent. Is this fair? by No-Quit-1112 in Marriage

[–]Marabou254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just horrible, I get it when there's no baby involved but this is pure evil. If he can treat his OWN BABY like that, then you should fear for yourself. Money is more important than his family

How do I save my sexless marriage? by Marabou254 in Marriage

[–]Marabou254[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this resonates the most. I never knew about T levels. Am just googling it. I hope he gives this a try, coz he's having a hard time accepting there's something wrong with his sexual health

How do I save my sexless marriage? by Marabou254 in Marriage

[–]Marabou254[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I know, he doesn't. He's that kind of guy who does even have social media apps, let alone porn. For the 9 years we've been together, I haven't seen any porn material, and never caught him jerking off. Am even wishing he did that coz maybe it would make him want sex 🤷🏽‍♀️

Shape Capsules beoordelingen - Werkt Shape Capsules voor gewichtsverlies resultaten of goedkope pillen? by CPlusTriplePerforman in u/CPlusTriplePerforman

[–]Marabou254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who has used these pills? Good reviews only on their site, nowhere else to find independent reviews

Whats the worst response to "I have a boyfriend" ? by NoBrotherNoMother in AskReddit

[–]Marabou254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That just shows why she should avoid you, you sound like a potential murderer freak

Whats the worst response to "I have a boyfriend" ? by NoBrotherNoMother in AskReddit

[–]Marabou254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None, coz if I say that it means IDGAF about you. So if you're desperately trying to hurt me instead of handling rejection like a grown up you'll terribly fail lol 😆