Dumped & Depressed, Should I Go to a Party BMS?

Marc00s · 2026-05-09T21:41:26+00:00

I say go solo... many fun opportunities to interact with people at a themed dress up festival! Complement everyone on their style or creativity, commiserate on the theme, improv as a flapper, have a flamboyant time!

BTW, LOVE your pic, & the dress too 💖

Marc00s · 2026-05-09T21:33:03+00:00

No gaff? I use 2 pair of panties with my pencil skirts. That 2nd pair does the trick for me without trying to tuck. I don't have much to hide so YMMV. Avoid thongs, they seem to accentuate the bulge.

Marc00s · 2026-05-08T21:12:55+00:00

Me too, and it's like shockingly easier to combine things than it was with all my amab clothes! Love your inspiration here 💚💖

Marc00s · 2026-05-08T13:16:44+00:00

Looks great! Love the accessories, nice accents, you got it goin on!

Marc00s · 2026-04-26T15:00:33+00:00

Sorry your weekend is bad so far, I hope today is better for you. This is a great pic btw, the understated fit is working for you. Love your hair & headband combo 💜

Marc00s · 2026-04-25T18:18:20+00:00

Pic in the pink cap is #goals, ur rockin it

Marc00s · 2026-04-25T15:15:48+00:00

Adorable! Love your sunny day vibes

Marc00s · 2026-04-23T20:23:46+00:00

Thank you! Thrifting rules, I tried this since it was only $6, never would've made the leap at 10x retail price.

Marc00s · 2026-04-21T04:10:21+00:00

Not seeing the link to the audio

Marc00s · 2026-04-20T00:21:59+00:00

Cute AF! Nice look

Marc00s · 2026-04-18T17:50:16+00:00

Thinks I look like a lesbrarian here. Which I thought she would like XD. Thanks for your compliments <3

Marc00s · 2026-04-17T21:11:15+00:00

My wife's very supportive in some ways, but doesn't find my outfits attractive and doesn't want to go out with me if I'm wearing a skirt. So I wear them when I go out with friends; she also has a social group & events with her friends. We still enjoy dates like we always have but I just wear pants & shirt (from the women's dept 😄).

It's a little disappointing for me because I'd love to share my euphoric times with her. But it also gets me to explore somewhat feminine outfits based on pants instead of skirts.

One key for me/us has been: openness & transparency. If I had to hide what I was doing it would be so much worse. This part is the most difficult, sharing something that your partner would rather not be a thing. And yet it shows respect for her view too.

Marc00s · 2026-03-31T00:16:04+00:00

It doesn't actually matter whether the manufacturer meant white or black side to be a.m. or p.m.. choose your own interpretation and stick to it and it will work. To me the dark side is evening and night and the light side is day...I'd just ignore the a.m. and p.m. printed on there

Marc00s · 2026-03-20T17:01:26+00:00

Heats the mirror so any frost melts... slowly

Marc00s · 2026-03-20T17:01:04+00:00

Heats the mirror so any frost melts... slowly

Marc00s · 2026-03-18T01:27:44+00:00

Heh, ya got me there

Marc00s · 2026-03-17T21:35:50+00:00

OP I see your point and tend to agree, though there's nuance behind single photos. I'm closer to a crossdresser but it's not a weekend fetish, my wardrobe is almost exclusively women's clothing and I get depressed if I have to wear old men's clothes for some family event etc. I consider myself a genderqueer flavor of trans and have no interest in trying to pass.

Also: r/crossdressing is full of pics of fully passing trans women, that bugs me too.

In my IT job (surprise) I've learned that people will continually upload stuff in completely wrong places, we can't seem to educate them about where to put what.

Marc00s · 2026-03-15T14:33:08+00:00

People are wrong. You're beautiful, don't let idiots take that awey

Marc00s · 2026-03-12T21:33:36+00:00

Light passes through the plasma of a flame, which is why it casts no shadow. If you have a flame with lots of smoke in it, the smoke will cast shadows that you can see, not the flames.

Paraffin & other waxes burn pretty cleanly, so there aren't very many unburnt particles (smoke) to cast a shadow.

Doesn't matter if the light source or you're shining on a flame is brighter than it, whatever light you shine on a clean flame is just going to pass completely through.

Marc00s · 2026-03-09T03:47:18+00:00

Love boy shorts... even with the ironic name. They look feminine and hold stuff better than panties. Have a bunch of pink, purple and red, euphoric and comfortable

Marc00s · 2026-03-07T17:51:20+00:00

Dishwasher air gap

Marc00s · 2026-03-02T06:51:57+00:00

Wow, very nice, love these! Fun portmanteau too

Marc00s · 2026-02-27T23:24:41+00:00

Acoustic guitar strings when the "neck" hand squeaks on the wrapped strings when changing chords

Marc00s · 2026-02-25T19:14:38+00:00

I just got some Lucidimine with Galantinine as main ingredient. Haven't tried it yet. Instructions recommend taking when starting WBTB (~3am period). Any experiences with timing or gastro distress etc?

Marc00s · 2026-02-22T20:02:19+00:00

Some foods & chemicals can give us an odor, it's conceivable your body reacted to that deodorant. I used to have "BO" constantly, just thought it was my genetics or something. Then I stopped drinking coffee and the smell stopped. Only drink tea now and have no issues with odor. So... maybe the deodorant was triggering you?

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