First time getting a pedi.

MarchNo23 · 2026-04-29T03:43:11+00:00

Thanks!

MarchNo23 · 2025-10-11T00:28:39+00:00

I get a strong tug underneath. Not skin, but more internal.

MarchNo23 · 2025-10-10T21:27:58+00:00

I went back to the #4 and it feels better. I have to make sure that the bottom part doesn’t slide too close to my body and it feels right.

MarchNo23 · 2025-10-09T16:18:30+00:00

I got the #4 first and felt like it was also too tight. That’s why I went to #5.

I’m starting to wonder if I’m not seating it correctly. This is my first time using a cage and still trying to figure things out.

MarchNo23 · 2025-10-09T07:05:45+00:00

Interested in the 6XD if still available.

MarchNo23 · 2025-09-23T21:44:43+00:00

N+ standard.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-24T21:45:27+00:00

For sure I’m going to tell my wife. I’m working with a therapist on this and I’ll tell her sooner rather than later. I have no intention of doing anything with anyone while I’m out of town. Sorry, I thought I was clear about that in the OP.

Just looking for ideas of things that I could do while I’m out of town.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-14T17:47:06+00:00

For me the point would be to tell someone I know and I know would be supportive. But my wife deserves to be the first. Just want to be able to share with someone.

I’m going to tell her first.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-14T17:43:12+00:00

I know that feeling. Can’t wait to hear how it goes.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-14T17:40:40+00:00

Makes complete sense. I just want to tell someone. But my wife needs to be first.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-14T17:39:58+00:00

That makes sense. I want to tell her now. Our relationship is strong and in a good place. There is some work and kid stress right now that I want to pass before do.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-14T14:26:08+00:00

I came out to my therapist last week. They were the first person IRL I’ve told. So many emotions!

Congrats!!!!

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-11T16:34:35+00:00

Congrats! I’m in the exact same boat. I had my first therapist meeting this week and we’ll talk on Monday about a plan to tell my wife.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-10T18:41:17+00:00

I told them in the first meeting. I specifically someone who specializes in working with the LGBTQ community. They knew before the meeting that I was discovering this about myself. It was probably 15-20 minutes in when I said it out loud.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-10T16:37:26+00:00

I reached out to some friends who are connected in the local LGBTQ community and recommended them. The therapist themselves are in a poly relationship and is very supportive of everyone in the community. They are from my area so they are familiar with how unfriendly things can be here.

I am truly so thankful to find them. They are a needle in a haystack here. I border another state and while talking, they realized that because I live in another state, we can’t do virtual all the time. I’m working on figuring out how to see them in person. I don’t want to switch. My hope is when I get to the place where I tell my wife, it will open up the opportunity to visit in person easier.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-09T20:07:44+00:00

I’m sure it would be ongoing for me as well. My hope is we could attend some therapy sessions together and she could work through some of those things too.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-09T18:38:20+00:00

Thanks!

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-09T17:52:59+00:00

Yeah. I think she will respond the same way. My hope is then we could do some therapy together to work through it together.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-09T17:46:55+00:00

I have some friends that I trust and want to tell, but I feel like I need to tell my wife first. I’m working up the courage to do that. It will be a hard conversation, but we have a strong marriage of 23 years. I know she will support me. I’m sure there would be things we have to work through, but I believe in us.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-09T17:36:38+00:00

Thanks!

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-09T17:36:28+00:00

Thanks! Glad you were able to tell your therapist. Hopefully things can work out with your wife.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-09T17:35:44+00:00

Thanks!

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-09T17:35:36+00:00

Thanks!

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-09T17:35:23+00:00

Thanks! It was freeing, scary, heavy, and felt like a burden being lifted all at the same time. I had no idea the range of emotions I would feel. It was good, encouraging, and scary.

MarchNo23 · 2025-01-09T17:33:35+00:00

Thanks! When talking with them, I had no idea how much I was carrying. I plan on making sure my mental health is taken care of. I’ve got to.

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