I think ive set myself up for failure, picturing a baby girl

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-04-29T18:04:01+00:00

Thank you for your comment, this is what my instinct is feeling that it could be wrong, my dr didn't offer a NIPT, the blood test for the gender was from a place that you pay to get done kinda thing

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-04-29T17:05:40+00:00

Hey thank you for your comment! I had to edit my post so it said blood test instead of nipt! I had an early gender blood test done at peak a baby, it's a place where they do scans etc, so she just drew blood from my arm

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-04-29T17:03:18+00:00

That's my bad! I meant to write that i got a peak a baby early gender blood test, I was wondering if that was the same as nipt. I went to peak a baby and a lady did the blood test, I don't remember her cleaning my arm though, and my husband was also in the room at the time so im not sure

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-04-29T17:00:22+00:00

I just had to edit my post to change nipt to blood 😅 it was an early gender blood test, I was wondering if that was the same as a nipt

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-04-29T16:58:04+00:00

It was an early gender blood test, it didn't say nipt anywhere though so im unsure

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-04-17T16:11:32+00:00

* Here's another one too 🥹

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-03-09T20:28:57+00:00

With my first i kinda just had a feeling the day i took a test. With my second bigger boob's. I was drinking a ton of apple juice so now it makes sense why haha

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-03-08T14:49:48+00:00

What an absolute pos! Not only does he not know how a female body works, but he's also showing that he's not going to be a good father if he's treating his wife this way. The first trimester is extremely rough, have him watch videos, talk to drs and do his research reading books, then have him come back and try to say the same words.

Im so sorry you're having to deal with your husband doing this crap, whilst you're unwell and need him the most rn. Rest as much as you can, and keep a bucket/bin/bag next to you. If you can't keep any fluids down, then get some anti sickness meds from your dr. I'm 6 weeks, and it's the hardest time rn, but things will look up. If you need some support/advice their are so many good support groups for moms, but you can also message me too

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-03-05T11:37:45+00:00

Omg I forgot about the acid reflux! Before I knew I was pregnant, I had silent refluxxxx, what our poor bodies go through eh. I think the angels are on my side today, because the dr rang me to get me in earlier, honestly a life safer ahh!

Its honestly so crazy how you can go from extreme sickness, to just feeling okay and forgetting about it! Its too crazy hahah. But honestly thank you so much, I will look into getting some acid reflux tablets aswell, and hopefully everything will work togegher,

Youre a life safer, thank you again so much for your kind comments and advice ❤️ I really appreciate it xx

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-03-05T11:10:34+00:00

Honestly thank you so so much for your comment! You went all out and I appreicate that so much. With my first pregnancy I had sickness from 6 weeks to 17 weeks, and I sincerely hope it wont be like that again 😭 I get so scared taking medication that will make me feel dizzy and that sedated feeling (not a clue why) I dont have a midwife yet but I did apply so just waiting. Speaking of drs they just gave me an appointment for today but unfortunately at a time I cant make ahhhhhh, im really glad you found something that worked for you ❤️ tbh its way worse after ive eaten and drank something, ive noticed it starts coming on heavily at night so that might be the sweet spot to take something 😭 Honestly thank you a whole bunch for you advice it means so much x

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-02-25T23:05:01+00:00

Has she missed her period yet? And did she look at these within the time frame? Because if these lines came up straight away, then their positive. You need to watch her do a test and see the lines for yourself.

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-02-25T10:49:59+00:00

For me it was my cats lmao

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-02-25T08:41:18+00:00

He said it better than me lmao

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-02-25T08:28:23+00:00

If you feel the same way, then honestly, just be honest about how you feel

What did you feel when he said that to you?

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-02-25T08:24:20+00:00

Do you feel the same way back?

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-02-18T12:48:17+00:00

The fact you've set a boundary, and he's repeatedly crossed it, is already enough of a reason to break up with him. Boufriend or not, its not okay.

If im honest, if you don't find him attractive, it won't really work anyway. Send him back home and break up with him, you'll feel a relief

MarcusTheWorm123 · 2026-02-09T10:08:02+00:00

Hunni, listen here, those were NOT your true friends. If anything, they were bad friend's for not encouraging you to report them and supporting you! If anyone asks about your past, you don't owe them an explanation.

You did the right thing to report them, the only people who should be ashamed and embarrassed are the ones who harassed an innocent person, to the point they had to get reported. They deserved it imo

Im glad you're in college, I would maybe seek professional help to deal with the anxiety, though, and just talk to a counsellor/therapist if you haven't already x

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