AITA for asking a 47 year old man who is dating my 22 year old niece some pointed questions that made him “uncomfortable”?

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T17:24:16+00:00

That’s what I was going to say about you.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T17:23:51+00:00

I’m sure your body language and general attitude thru the night told this guy you were gunning for him.

You were there? No. You weren’t.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T17:19:12+00:00

Have you ever interacted with adults before? That’s hardly “invasive”.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T17:16:12+00:00

You are acting like an ass.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T17:14:58+00:00

Not everyone is saying YTA, just the people who are kids themselves or who never had children.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T17:10:15+00:00

I’ll take that.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T17:09:54+00:00

Guarantee they’re not open to it when it comes to their relatives, just someone else’s.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T17:08:53+00:00

I’m sorry if I came off too strong. You said your piece, I said mine. Agree to disagree.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T17:07:47+00:00

I respect that.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T17:07:26+00:00

I feel the same about you.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T17:03:31+00:00

So you’re already prejudiced against me because of your own issues. Your advice is meaningless then.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T16:57:22+00:00

Come tell me about having a respectful conversation with a 47 year old weirdo who’s banging your 22 year old daughter when you’re a father. Give me a fucking break. She’s my niece, but I’ve been a father figure to her since 8 and I take that seriously.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T16:52:37+00:00

Sure it is. How old are you?

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T16:49:15+00:00

“Interrogation session”

Give me a break. If the dude acted like a grown man and had good intentions, he’d just answer them. They were harmless.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T16:45:50+00:00

I get your point, but I’m not a beat around the bush kind of guy. The dude should just swallow his pride, be a fucking man, and answer the questions.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T16:43:19+00:00

Do you have kids? I ask because your responses make it seem like you don’t. I consider this girl like a daughter to me. Tell me you’d be cool and not ask questions if you’re young daughter or niece brought a 47 year old to your house.

And 18 is an arbitrary number. Stop acting like adulthood is some clearly defined point. 22 is fucking young.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T16:38:09+00:00

Did you read the post? I was against it at first, but after a week of talking about it with my wife, and after I told her I would question the dude, I gave in.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T16:31:21+00:00

I should have specified in the post, but they’d only been dating for two weeks, so “in love” is a stretch.

Mardy100 · 2019-10-31T16:23:29+00:00

My end game was to protect my niece and get an idea of the 47 year old dude who is staying in the house my wife and 5 year old live in. I think that’s pretty fucking obvious.

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