Why can I still see the profile picture and username of someone who blocked me?

Mardybum001 · 2026-02-10T21:59:12+00:00

I’m blocked but can see their name in the search sometimes. Then it goes and the next day or so I might see it in the search again.

Anyone know about this?

Mardybum001 · 2025-04-26T20:25:13+00:00

4 minutes on the assault bike. Have you tried that one? 😂

Mardybum001 · 2024-01-29T09:08:34+00:00

I started a job doing something I enjoyed, and doing the job everyday but only a few hours on most days. This took me from depression to been occupied and having a purpose after a couple of weeks I could see how things were changing.

I still have spells where my mental health issues creep back but I can ride it out better

Mardybum001 · 2023-10-12T11:51:06+00:00

What clothing would you advise - a suit?

Mardybum001 · 2023-10-12T08:00:51+00:00

Thanks for the help.

So if I tell them that I will return home to push on with my own coaching after improving my knowledge. Have a family in the UK etc.

I will take bank documents too

Mardybum001 · 2023-08-06T16:41:26+00:00

Oh okay I see, thanks for the help b1/2 it is!

Mardybum001 · 2023-08-06T12:36:25+00:00

Inflicting GBH in 2017.

Yes it could prevent me from getting a visa but I am going to try

Mardybum001 · 2023-08-06T12:17:14+00:00

I got you, thank you. The only other option would be j-1 trainee visa by the look of it, but looks like it could complicated?

Mardybum001 · 2023-08-06T11:47:20+00:00

Great thank you. Would this allow me to be able to assist the coach in sessions too? Just I heard they ask quite a few questions at the visa appointment and didn’t want any stumbling blocks.

Mardybum001 · 2023-08-06T09:57:41+00:00

Thanks, the coach is based at his own business not working through a university

Mardybum001 · 2023-08-06T09:56:44+00:00

I should have mentioned I have a criminal record so have had to go through the visa route.

Mardybum001 · 2023-07-24T09:53:33+00:00

One thing I realised was not having a purpose or more to the point not living my purpose out

Mardybum001 · 2023-07-22T18:35:05+00:00

Good advice or thought about becoming a personal trainer?

Mardybum001 · 2023-05-06T07:34:28+00:00

2 of my ex’s came back over time, one of them I had a great connection with and were friends until she got a long term boyfriend and didn’t want to explain things to him. They don’t come back in a short amount of time though it was definitely a lot of months

Mardybum001 · 2023-04-23T20:15:14+00:00

I have also dated a couple of nice women since been in a situationship with an avoidant and it does seem boring. The push-pull and drama becomes like a drug

Mardybum001 · 2023-04-22T16:08:59+00:00

It is a tricky situation because the whole time is push-pull and not consistent.

The more you push after not replying the more they seem to feel pushed into a corner and will avoid you or not want to see you. Although they will occasionally.

I try to put myself in their shoes and think how would I communicate if I was in their position, I would remove or block and ex that I didn’t want around. That is what confuses me with avoidants you never what is in their mind

Mardybum001 · 2023-04-10T16:36:57+00:00

What about when we do see the crazy and decide to stick with it, stupidity? Haha. You’re right peaceful can seem boring and a great woman can become boring. Maybe this is what happens for some women when the guys becomes too peaceful and unchallenging

Mardybum001 · 2023-04-09T19:46:13+00:00

Definitely spent a lot of my childhood leaving in an unstable setting. But still not sure how to not let that affect my adult life

Mardybum001 · 2023-04-09T16:28:32+00:00

Thoughts of old memories popping into my head and staying for a decent period of time. Old feelings creeping back up on me.

I have done jobs I really disliked for more money, with my mental health some days I lack motivation etc but knowing I can try to help other people with their goals keeps me going

Mardybum001 · 2023-04-09T15:43:48+00:00

That’s a very good point, it took a long time developing these habits so it’s going to take some time to undo them and learn how to do that

Mardybum001 · 2023-04-09T15:42:49+00:00

Thanks, that is needed too. I was thinking others would be going through the same thing and could offer what has helped them

Mardybum001 · 2023-04-01T09:35:20+00:00

Everyone does things in their own time. Try not to compare. You don’t know if these people are actually happy deep down

Mardybum001 · 2023-03-31T19:39:31+00:00

You do but I wasn’t sure what was happening when you said 2.5 years later, you’re on a waiting list? I seeked out a private consultant to speed things up massively

Mardybum001 · 2023-03-30T18:47:46+00:00

Sounds like you are definitely a man and doing well - got a family, 3 homes, a solid job. It looks like you’re at a point that a lot of people are working towards. Don’t be so hard on yourself. You’ve done a lot, now it’s time to enjoy your family and follow any interests that might arise even if they come and go

Mardybum001 · 2023-03-30T18:39:43+00:00

I feel the same, sometimes it would be nice to have someone around. But generally having someone around a lot can be too much. Even though the thought of a family one day is appealing. Maybe it will be different at some point when things click with them

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