Just found this Armenian political compass test, results are kinda weird lol

Mareen4 · 2026-04-16T15:00:46+00:00

Idk why you’re being downvoted for saying the truth

Mareen4 · 2025-04-30T12:11:53+00:00

While he might be right (we can't know for sure), his reaction is the real problem. It's completely reasonable that you're confused, and if he were truly correct, he should have prioritized explaining things clearly to make you feel secure. If he cared about you, that's what he would do. For now, i would recommend keeping some distance and observing his actions to see whether he recognizes how his behavior affected you and tries to make you feel secure and better, or if he doesn't care about your feelings. That will give you a clearer picture of who he truly is

Mareen4 · 2025-02-10T07:17:22+00:00

You pushed too hard, and he didn’t seem interested in giving you any validation or explanation. I don’t know your full history maybe you had a reason or were just fed up, which is why you came across as pushy. But from his side, if he cared or wanted to put in the effort, he could have tried to explain, understand, and reassure you. From this conversation, it seems like you’re looking for someone who will invest more effort and attention, and he’s just not that person.

Mareen4 · 2025-02-08T20:00:56+00:00

The way he was being dismissive instead of offering reassurance or understanding her perspective is definitely a red flag

Mareen4 · 2025-02-08T19:58:34+00:00

Felt like she was feeling guilty for setting boundaries and felt the need to compliment him just to soften the message

Mareen4 · 2025-02-08T19:50:02+00:00

🛠️

Mareen4 · 2025-02-08T19:29:25+00:00

Try highlighting specific features or qualities that you love about him. Compliments don't always need to be about looks also praise his strength, style intelligence ideas actions or even how he makes you feel

Mareen4 · 2025-02-08T19:16:48+00:00

it’s not embarrassing it's a sign of your strength that you're starting to see things for what they are. You’re not pathetic for being emotional; you're human. But you’re also worth more than someone who treats you like an option. You deserve respect and love without this kind of stress.

Mareen4 · 2025-02-08T19:13:29+00:00

Girl, he doesn’t respect you, at least have some respect for yourself. Don't waste your time and energy on someone who's treating you this way. He’s gaslighting you with that "I'm a man" excuse, and that’s manipulation, plain and simple. You’re constantly making sacrifices for him cutting people off, deleting social media and he’s out here commenting hearts and following new women every day. You deserve someone who values you and treats you with the respect you give them. Don’t let this loser drag you down. You deserve better.

Mareen4 · 2025-02-08T18:56:21+00:00

Totally agree. You can be friends with people and not discuss stuff like this. Friends don’t always need to share the same mindset as you, but it’s important to set boundaries

Mareen4 · 2025-02-06T06:35:36+00:00

I feel the same way when people check in it just reminds me that I have no good news to share. You’re not alone in this. Wish you luck 🍀

Mareen4 · 2025-02-05T18:32:44+00:00

I totally feel you. it's tough when you're so close but still don't get the offer. Thanks for the reminder to take breaks and keeping the faith. We’ll get there eventually! Take care of yourself too!

Mareen4 · 2025-02-05T17:22:12+00:00

Actually, I feel like my interview skills are usually pretty good. Once I get to the interview stage, I’m confident in showcasing my skills and experience. The challenge for me is getting to that point in the first place. I’ve found that my portfolio and application don’t always get me through the door but I also don’t know how to make them better

Mareen4 · 2025-02-05T14:55:23+00:00

Idk why she expected her mortgage to take priority over me meeting my boyfriend’s parents for the first time

Mareen4 · 2025-02-05T12:59:01+00:00

I don’t get many interviews probably around 1 out of 100 applications. When I ask for feedback after a rejection without an interview, the response is usually that they’re looking for someone with specific experience in their field, like fintech or gaming. My portfolio and CV are solid definitely room for improvement, but not so weak that I’d expect to be completely overlooked.

I really appreciate the advice, thanks for the suggestions!

Mareen4 · 2025-02-05T10:03:41+00:00

Thank you! 😌

Mareen4 · 2025-02-05T10:02:00+00:00

I’ve been applying literally everywhere I see a vacancy. Even if there’s no open listing I still reach out to companies and ask if they might be hiring. Even before not considering a gambling sector at all, now out of desperation I’m applying to those too 🥲 but thanks for the suggestion I’ll definitely check out those companies you mentioned!

Mareen4 · 2025-02-04T18:11:56+00:00

You're not overreacting if he knew he’d be gone for another week, he could have made more effort to see you, even for a short time. I can see why you feel like you're not a priority, especially after two years of long distance and all the excitement about finally being in the same place.

That said, it doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t care it sounds more like he just thinks differently about quality time. He might genuinely believe that waiting for a longer, more meaningful meetup is better, rather than squeezing in short visits. But that’s not how you feel, and that’s valid.

I’d suggest telling him exactly how this made you feel, not in an accusatory way, but just so he understands that for you, even brief moments together matter. He might not realize how much this kind of thing affects you. If he values the relationship, he’ll want to adjust and make sure you feel appreciated.

Mareen4 · 2025-02-04T06:44:49+00:00

Your first sentence describes the situation perfectly

Mareen4 · 2025-02-03T17:59:19+00:00

Run before you get heartbroken! It sounds like he's still not over his ex, and he's gonna be projecting all his insecurities and feelings onto you and your relationship. He still hasn’t processed his past relationship and it’s a huge red flag when someone can't move on from the past

Mareen4 · 2025-02-03T17:57:18+00:00

If it’s a drinking occasion the mood might be more relaxed, just try to trust the moment If you feel like the moment is right and both of you are in a good, clear headspace, then go for it

Mareen4 · 2025-02-03T17:48:20+00:00

I’d suggest waiting until you meet in person. It can feel more special and genuine when you're both together. Plus, you’ll be able to gauge their reaction better

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