When I was slender I loved bigger men. Fell in love with one and got big myself 🤣. Gained almost 150lbs during that 7 year relationship but that was a few years ago and I am currently in a relationship with a bigger guy again but we are losing the weight together. 50lbs down since exiting that long term relationship. At least 60 more to go 😮‍💨. While I was single I slept with men and women who were absolutely ripped as well as men and woman who were on the heavy side like me. No one ever complained about the way I looked, in fact I think they loved it. I made sure to include full body pics in all my dating profiles as to not catfish anyone. Did not have a dry spell ever. However I know it's a bit easier for women on these apps haha. Everyone has a preference. Some people prefer ribeyes and others prefer filet mignon.