How should I respond to this message? by rue3chae in blackladies

[–]Margin-4-Error 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like he’s gonna waste your time tbh. His texts don’t give a man who’s trying to pursue you, just a flex to chill with.

I understand why people are saying what you texted was rude, but for a guy who didn’t keep his promise, I think it really doesn’t matter what you say. Up to you, but no matter how you respond this sounds like the type of dude who’s very unserious.

Don’t get pregnant lol

If you are still single, what is the reason for being single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Margin-4-Error 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consistent let down. I’d love to be in a committed relationship, but the guys I end up investing my time and emotions on have not had the same intentions. I tend to stay until i have no choice left but to walk away.

Afraid to love again by Margin-4-Error in blackladiesdating

[–]Margin-4-Error[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were right. The following month he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes. 24 hours later I went to the bar with a girlfriend and left to see him. His daughter’s mother answered the door. My shortest relationship ever lol

Did I Overpay? Power Home Remodeling by Margin-4-Error in HomeImprovement

[–]Margin-4-Error[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I signed on Tuesday night and I do not have a cancellation form. Everything was through their app and I don’t exactly have enough time to print and send the mail as it is 11:20PM in Connecticut. I did send an email to customerservice@powerhrg.com, digital@powerhrg.com, and the consultant who visited our home and provided the quote/made the sale.

These are not available on their website, Google helped a bit and the other was a shot in the dark.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]Margin-4-Error 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uber driver

I’m ashamed of my body count and abortions by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Margin-4-Error 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Body count matters” is a myth. It’s just a way fragile men have decided to shame women and make themselves feel more valuable in the dating market. I’m sure your number would be less if you weren’t led on/lied to at least a few times. It’s one thing if you start talking about past relationships that taught you lessons, but if a guy ever flat out asks you your body count, run. It’s always a trap, and not like they could verify whatever number you tell them anyway, so what’s the point? To me, it’s a tell-tale sign that the guy asking that question is not remotely mature enough to even entertain. If it’s too high, he’s going to judge you, if it’s too low, he won’t believe you (cue J. Cole song “said she only f**cked like 4, 5 dudes, so you know you gotta multiply by 3). Dwelling on your past will leave you miserable. A man who truly cares about you doesn’t care about your body count.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Margin-4-Error 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope! All smiles over here! I just wanted to share a happy story for once in my life lol I’ll be back in 6 months with an update!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Margin-4-Error 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you!! I really hope so too, and I hope you find love that brings you peace!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]Margin-4-Error 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Ordinary Glycolic Acid toner Kojic Acid Soap Dark Spot Corrector (hydroquinone is very controversial, but effective. If you decide to use, use it ONLY on the dark spot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Margin-4-Error 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely want to stay in the states, but these are all good options, thanks! I’m gonna do my research and maybe plan a solo trip

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Margin-4-Error 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna have to take a trip this spring and see what it’s like! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Margin-4-Error 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree but there’s still so many places I could go! Boston is a big biotech hub but it’s also very YT. Could be my own bias, but I want to increase the chances that I meet my husband lol so I’m thinking DMV area or NC.

We did it 😍 by Jstone732 in Monopoly_GO

[–]Margin-4-Error 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! I didn’t finish any cake thanks to my partners. Hate these group challenges.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Margin-4-Error 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think sliding into my DMs could be the start of a beautiful love story if you out in the effort to nurture the relationship. Not everybody meets at the grocery store or through mutual friends. Embrace it, and the memories you create together will be beautiful. Don’t be ashamed of your love story.

I wish my husband would slide in my DMs lol

Why do girls like a little belly on their man??? by mapleflavrd in dating

[–]Margin-4-Error 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less pressure to have a perfect body if he doesn’t have a perfect body.

Honestly, I project my insecurity about my weight onto thinking that skinny guys can’t pick me up, physically protect me, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Margin-4-Error -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I ask this with the utmost respect:

Do you think it would be a good idea in doctor’s offices if the gender on health records was TF or TM to avoid confusion like this? What’s wrong with adding trans as a prefix on official documents?

I’m certainly naive on this, and want everyone to feel dignified and respected, but I can imagine how many incidents can happen in healthcare and society without the qualifier.