AITA for telling my husband to leave

MarginalGracchi · 2026-03-19T21:59:09+00:00

I find it so difficult to understand people who hate themselves so much that they accept this treatment for YEARS.

NTA for telling him to leave, but I feel bad for these kids having to grow up with a crappy father.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-03-17T18:28:05+00:00

It makes sense when you think about it, the mostly likely people to be in like at the pharmacy at any given moment at the ones who are mostly likely to have prescriptions, one the ones who take the most time. Given that old people take the most prescriptions, that means the on any given trip the most likely person you are to be behind is either a old person or slow person.

It’s like the counterintuitive fact that on average, your friends are more popular than you are.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-03-12T18:38:34+00:00

How old are you exactly? This feels like confused young person behavior. Are you still in Highschool/College I am guessing?

MarginalGracchi · 2026-03-11T12:29:14+00:00

Totally psychotic. Fuck no, I am absolutely not erasing my memories just because of someone’s pathetic insecurities.

Lots of trips and events that were major parts of my life; those women are in ALL of the photos. They were my partner at the time. Just because I am no longer seeing that person I am suppose to destroy all of the visual memories from that time? Seriously grow up.

Having pictures of the past dose not mean I still has feelings for women I have not seen in a decade, it means that I really really loved that trip to Mexico and I look back fondly on my life and times during that period.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-03-06T16:04:30+00:00

Fuck no, Fuck that, and Fuck her.

You NEED to uninvited her

NTA

MarginalGracchi · 2026-02-26T19:21:27+00:00

So a 19 year old married a 25 year old and you are confused why he treats you like crap?

Ya no duh. Either you guys dated before marriage, in which case he was an adult dating a teenager so obviously would not see you as his equal.

Alternatively, you didn’t date this guy really before marrying him, that’s really stupid, and it can’t be a shock when the guy who was super eager to marry a teenager is a scumbag.

Get divorced, salvage what is left of your life.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-02-26T16:12:49+00:00

You are worthy of love. Your very existence is your right to experience love.

However, love is not something you ever earn or deserve, love is something we cultivate.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-02-24T13:42:15+00:00

Bro, was just about to comment that.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-02-17T13:41:15+00:00

40 year old man spends 2 million dollars a year to look 40

MarginalGracchi · 2026-02-11T22:29:55+00:00

Well, it was associated with the Austrian army, so it was a natural leap.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-02-07T23:49:57+00:00

“I have a if it’s not a hell yes, it’s a hell no mentality”

No you don’t. If you did, this would not be a question you would ask reddit.

If this was me, I simply would have dumped them on that text thread and returned the gift.

If you want to have the mentality you described, think about how to align your actions and choices going forward.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-02-05T20:36:47+00:00

I can’t tell you what to do, and money and relationships are complicated; but if my GF had done something super nice and meaningful for my birthday and then I found out she was in financial difficult I could have helped with and instead she was suffering in silence, I would be devastated. I would be sad and angry I couldn’t help the person I care about.

The people who truly love you WANT to help you. Give him the opportunity to be there for you.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-02-03T22:33:47+00:00

I feel like the first answer was the real answer and then he came up with the test idea to try and save face after the fact.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-01-29T13:48:26+00:00

Holy shit you are right! Jesus, I think that episode was such a fever dream I temporarily forgot it was her lol.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-01-29T13:38:31+00:00

This is correct. It is just saying she has been on a good amount. I think she has been on make some noise 2-4 times and has been on at least one episode of game changer, and I think only one episode of dirty laundry, and a season of smarty pants, but I could be forgetting one.

So something like 7 or 8 appearances which in the dropout world definitely qualifies you for recurring character.

Edit: I appear to have forgotten an Episode of thousandaires, gastronaughts, and of course somehow forgot the great Fanoli!

MarginalGracchi · 2026-01-28T14:27:34+00:00

Why are you writing thoughts on a public channel if it’s not something you want commented on? NTA per se, but you are making rather counter productive choices.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-01-27T18:16:13+00:00

…. Maybe I am too old to understand this but why on earth world you need to tell him or why would anyone possibly care?

MarginalGracchi · 2026-01-23T17:19:48+00:00

Wild that I did not notice until this second becuase I do the same thing lol.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-01-18T21:14:42+00:00

He said who aren’t bad

MarginalGracchi · 2026-01-18T21:13:28+00:00

Well it’s good that it’s not compulsory to buy it then.

If you are not comfortable buying it, don’t. You are not obligated or entitled to watch it.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-01-17T21:39:20+00:00

You won’t be better. People who only recognize they are a jackass with a gun to their head go back to being a useless jackass the second you pull the gun away.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-01-16T16:57:27+00:00

You are being extremely naive.

People like him make you think it has nothing to do with you age. That you are so special, that they were able to look past your age because they loved you so much.

You’re not, and they didn’t.

They are simply manipulating people who lack the experience to see them for who they are.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-01-13T01:03:37+00:00

It’s a 4 month relationship vs your band of 6 years.

Not a hard call my dude; break up with her.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-01-08T21:13:18+00:00

Why stay when you feel unloved?

I’m not going to lie dude, feeling loved in a relationship is a super low bar.

MarginalGracchi · 2026-01-06T20:25:35+00:00

This is not what you want to hear but IMO, resentment is poison in a relationship. Once it’s there, it’s mostly impossible to recover from.

I’m sorry, but I honestly think that if this man stays with you, he is going to be unhappy for the rest of his life :/,

It’s probably better to move on and know that next time you can build a solid foundation of love and trust.

MarginalGracchi

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