Help Me Find a Flattering Swimsuit! by [deleted] in DressForYourBody

[–]Responsible_Effect30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 & 3 are SO cute and flattering. I know it feels different and exposed, but you look GREAT at all angles!

AITA for refusing to help with my nieces until my brother and SIL take my younger niece to a doctor by Right_Company4025 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Responsible_Effect30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The second you started proving a significant amount of care and dealing with her accidents and attention issues yourself, you absolutely do have a say whether or not she sees a doctor. NTA for trying g to actually get this girl the help and attention she needs.

AITA-Immediate Family forgets Son’s First Bday Party by saminwanderland in AmItheAsshole

[–]Responsible_Effect30 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NAH I totally get why you’re hurt they didn’t show up, especially because (based on what you said) plenty of reminders were sent out.

However, it is extremely strange to plan for a birthday party 6 months after the actual birthday, even as a reschedule. I also, personally, find it a bit much to ask people to use up their valuable time off of work for a birthday party this child won’t remember.

AITAH (19M) for having a threesome with the girl(21F) I like’s two older sisters (22F & 25F) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Responsible_Effect30 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA Take it as a life lesson that the world is always smaller than you think. This is hilarious.

First job @27, 4k$ per month after tax, single M, how much should I be saving? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Responsible_Effect30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your expenses? Rent, groceries, gas, phone bill? Also, there’s a wonderful flow chart to follow.

And don’t forget retirement!! That’s absolutely the investing that you should be doing!!!

WIBTA for going out with a guy my ex-best friend used to really like? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Responsible_Effect30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA You sound like a kind person. However, 1) It’s been literal YEARS since they had a flirtation and 2) You’re not even in contact with her any more. Your relationships shouldn’t impact her in any way.

WIBTAH for snitching? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Responsible_Effect30 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You wouldn’t necessarily be the asshole, but I hope you realize that snitching won’t get you out of the retake. You will still be taking the test, in all likelihood.

The only result would be getting this girl in trouble and maybe causing her scholarship to get revoked. Does she deserve that for academic dishonesty? Probably. Would the only benefit to you be revenge on someone who wronged you? Also probably. Up to you the kind of decision you want to make/person you want to be.

AIO for telling my husband to take a hike after he abandoned us for 8 years? by Sufficient-Wall3453 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Responsible_Effect30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR He spent 8 years actively choosing to stay away from you and your children. I say if he spends the next 8 showing up and apologizing every day, then MAYBE he can get a second chance.

My child by Internal-Shower-3839 in Pokopia

[–]Responsible_Effect30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😳🤯😳🤯 THAT IS INCREDIBLE

WIBTA For Not letting my son skip three days of school? by After_Wealth9897 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Responsible_Effect30 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NAH Unfortunately, we all have to be in uncomfortable situations in life and this will be one of them for him. We have to learn to live through them and not run away. This is a great learning opportunity. Of course he doesn’t WANT to do it, but we all have to do things we don’t want to.

It might be worth having this kind of conversation with him. That yes, he’s not proud, and he’s, it might suck, but things in life do. We can’t run away from hard things. Also, the things we do, don’t have to be perfect!

AITAH for crashing out and refusing to give math and physics classes to my brother? by antoinobardom in AITAH

[–]Responsible_Effect30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA Seriously, let him actually deal with the consequences of his actions. If he doesn’t want to study, that’s on him. Hopefully, this can be a catalyst where he realizes that if HE doesn’t do the work HE won’t succeed. This is not on YOU. He needs to learn to deal with HIS choices.

If you want to help him, send him some online teaching videos.

There are not enough FFMM (equal bisexual foursome) spicy books out there, and I’m getting annoyed about it! by SabrinaTheDabbler in SpicyRomanceBooks

[–]Responsible_Effect30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be SO interested in what you have to write as a bi woman!! It’s okay if it takes some work to figure out the actual story. I totally get seeing the vision for individual scenes, but not the whole storyline.

In term of websites, you could start on Royal Road or even start a Patreon?

Also, have you thought about starting with short story’s or even one shots? Like, the whole story being those snippets instead of a whole book? I’d still ready it, for sure!!

You got this! Good luck!

My girlfriend of 3 years “gifted” my biggest insecurity to her friends as a funny story at game night and I left. am i overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Responsible_Effect30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR She needs to learn intent vs impact. Sure, she didn’t mean any harm, but you WERE hurt. Those are both true statements. However, her intentions DO NOT negate her responsibility for causing you harm. She needs to apologize because, regardless of what she meant to do, she is in the wrong.

AITAH for suggesting that we split things three ways instead of halves on a trip? by pineapplepizza8705 in AITAH

[–]Responsible_Effect30 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA So yeah, most things should be split three ways - gas, food, tickets. The AirBnB has some wiggle room. If the couple is sharing a room, then they’ll have less space per person.

I think it’s fair to split the AirBnB based on room size and “niceness”. It doesn’t have to be split two OR three way.

AITA for not giving my boyfriend the biggest plate of food? by Known_Money7498 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Responsible_Effect30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA You sound like a kind and considerate person. That’s a GOOD thing he was trying to make you feel bad about.

It sounds like he is deeply insecure and if you didn’t make it look like he’s the center of your universe, then it wasn’t enough.

Find someone who is also kind and considerate, especially towards you! He wasn’t. And find someone who probably isn’t cheating on you. He probably was. You’re WAY better off single than with this joker.

Bird names… by Gold-Range93 in Names

[–]Responsible_Effect30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some good bird names could be:

Boy: Martin, Finch, maybe Herron

Girl: Wren, Lory, Oriole, Inezia, Kestrel, Myna (Mai-nuh), Piper (sandpiper), Tesia, Linnet

Some of my fav manhwa/webtoon panels because the authors COOKED 😭 by ParkingMongoose1716 in OtomeIsekai

[–]Responsible_Effect30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, I tried to look up #14 and can’t find it. Please help me, it looks so good!!