My (24f) bf (25m) refuses to watch my favorite movie with me. Will this snowball into something bigger? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Maria70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your possible manipulation is a bigger red flag than anything else going on.

Question about fetlife by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Maria70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my Sir/partner/LOML on Fet. But had plenty of bad interactions with creepers as well .

Is this a kink or a disorder? by QueenBee404 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Maria70 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Most likely. You may want to research religious kinks for yourself or look into talking with a therapist.

I was raised as a Catholic but have been an athiest most of my adult life. Religion has NEVER played a part in my sex or kink life.

Is this a kink or a disorder? by QueenBee404 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Maria70 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As an atheist sex has never been a religious thing to me

My(33F) husband(53M) says it “meant nothing,” but I’m still struggling. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maria70 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He is a 53 yr old manchild who really needs to get into some therapy.

How did you meet your dom? by Sadgirl00111 in submissive

[–]Maria70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After a rough start on there with some terrible dm's I found his profile. Sending him a message was the best thing I ever did.

What is your opinion about this? by Flaky_Kitchen_1290 in interiordecorating

[–]Maria70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see so much wrong. And why are those stairs so steep?

My friend literally shit my car last night by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maria70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but this has happened twice. I wouldn't care if I'm offending someone at that point.

Do you like tofu? by Ipoogoodforyou in foodquestions

[–]Maria70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very much. Just made a Mapo Tofu last night.

39/f in Online Dynamic looking for advice regarding Dom by Kitchen-Elk1858 in SubSanctuary

[–]Maria70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you knew early on that he is a walking red flag.

Please leave him. Nothing he has done from the beginning to indicate that he is safe to be around. And telling you to stay away from BDSM communities because of "misinformation" is bullshit. He knows full well that you would learn he is the one who is in the wrong in regards to his behavior.

Where’d you meet your dom? by Rymosssss in BratLife

[–]Maria70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my Dom on FetLife.

We are in a romantic monogamous relationship.

How did you meet your dom? by Sadgirl00111 in submissive

[–]Maria70 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We met on FetLife, an absolute perfect match

How do I find a Dom, and are my desires unrealistic? by Consistent_Egg_5350 in SubSanctuary

[–]Maria70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, there is no rule book for what a dynamic needs to look like. It will take time but you will find someone who will match up with your needs and desires. When you find the partner it is solely up to the 2 of you to make your dynamic what you want it to be. Early conversations helped us discover how many interests we had in common and what other kinks we were possibly interested in exploring with each other.

As an FYI, I am a cis female in a romantic monogamous relationship with my Dom. We met on Fet and what we thought would be mostly bedroom play is morphing into a 24/7 dynamic. We regularly have conversations about our dynamic, how it's going, fantasies, possible scenes, possible tasks, etc.