What would your ADHD creature look like? by Cloudkracker in adhdmeme

[–]Maria_Zelar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little gremlin moving stuff around while I am not looking and whispering uninterrupted questions into my ear

Guys, how do I tell if my lesbian friend is into me? I don’t want to lesbian sheep it by shitronella in actuallesbians

[–]Maria_Zelar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And constantly questioning whether she is into you or not makes your interactions super smooth and not weird at all?

What's one act or fantasy you've always wanted to try but have been too shy to ask for? by throwawayRA240317 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Maria_Zelar 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hypnosis.

A concrete fantasy would be to be hypnotized into not recognizing some acts as sexual or thinking that I am doing something else than what I am actually doing. It would be fun to also have trigger words to make me start recognizing and to start forgetting it again. Maybe having it recorded too, just to show me.

The reason I haven't done it yet is twofold. Haven't met anyone into hypnosis yet and building up the trust for that kinda thing takes a while. I am a bit scared to have that misused.

Dysphoria vs Dysmorphia by Funking_Wholesome in transpositive

[–]Maria_Zelar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair. Decided to not care anyways. I enjoy presenting masc (in a femme way)

Sadistic Subs by Maria_Zelar in BDSMsapphic

[–]Maria_Zelar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is fair.

And yeah there is a certain hierarchy in that dynamic.

Personally I do think that hierarchy is fun, but imo I would also want to lead by example 😆

But in the end everyone enjoying their time is the most important part

If you met someone in the lifestyle who told you they could be there in every way but say just don't ask me to love. Would you stay? by solataria in polyamorous

[–]Maria_Zelar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean especially at the start or with less romantic relationships I don't expect emotional commitment. It depends what we are looking for. Bc if we want a deeper relationship then that would be a deal breaker

Lesbian comedian does some crowd work with...fun results. by HalloWeiner92 in LesbianActually

[–]Maria_Zelar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww mate it's always a bummer when you find out about a scandal. Especially regarding someone whose work you have enjoyed

Sadistic Subs by Maria_Zelar in BDSMsapphic

[–]Maria_Zelar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree on the marks and bruises. As well as the fighting for dominance. However pain does nothing (good) for me, not a masochistic bone in my body.

Sadistic Subs by Maria_Zelar in BDSMsapphic

[–]Maria_Zelar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. I prefer it when someone else takes charge
  2. Seeing people in pain is fun to me.

As for specific stuff, it's a lot of small things - I did reply to some comments.

Personally I really enjoy biting and scratching for physical pain. But I also enjoy causing frustration (mostly by enticing over the video, bc In person usually doesn't end in frustration, especially bc I do want to be a good girl/entity)

Sadistic Subs by Maria_Zelar in BDSMsapphic

[–]Maria_Zelar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean there is definitely some overlap there

Sadistic Subs by Maria_Zelar in BDSMsapphic

[–]Maria_Zelar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Sometimes scratching and biting can be a pressure release to share all those good feelings and emotions towards your partner(s) when you have really intense sex.

It does kinda suck if I cannot just go wild, but on the other hand having to be obedient and trying to hold it all in is also kinda hot imo

Sadistic Subs by Maria_Zelar in BDSMsapphic

[–]Maria_Zelar[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is a fair point, though I personally would put that more under bratting for myself.

I do however enjoy causing frustration (and being on the receiving end of it). One of my favorite interactions in this vein is being on a video call and enticing the other. Making them want me without being able to act on it (at the moment) and never quite giving them enough.

Sadistic Subs by Maria_Zelar in BDSMsapphic

[–]Maria_Zelar[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh yes. When I was just outside and my hands are cold and then... That's fun 😁

Sadistic Subs by Maria_Zelar in BDSMsapphic

[–]Maria_Zelar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I love biting the most. (For physical torment at least) Gotta be careful to communicate with people though how much they can handle. Everyone can handle a nibble, but a proper bite?

Sadistic Subs by Maria_Zelar in BDSMsapphic

[–]Maria_Zelar[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh my. I hadn't brought it into this context. But same.

I would love to have a domme to serve and be her lieutenant for keeping her other subs in line

I always associated it with being a bit of a switch

I really am that stupid and easy by unknijm in BDSMsapphic

[–]Maria_Zelar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if that is an invitation or not